Can we have a couples only chatroom??

30 Nov 2007

It would be nice to have a couples only chatroom on the site from time to time. The problem is whenever you set one up it gets over run with single guys, who invariably do not know how to behave.
We have been told that having a room for couples only profiles is not allowed? Is this the case, because we think people should be allowed to set one up when they want to and kick out single guys when they keep wandering in.
They're not allowed in couples rooms in clubs either but they're always trying to get in to those an all.
We don't have a problem with single guys personally, but we know that many more couples would use chat more often if they knew they could set up couples only rooms, that can only be a good thing. We would use it from time to time, not at the time, ourselves.
lol.

30 Nov 2007

The site is meant for everyone. What next? A white only chatroom?
It creates more problems than it solves.
mad

30 Nov 2007

Quote by bbw_lover
The site is meant for everyone. What next? A white only chatroom?
It creates more problems than it solves.

I have to agree, if this happen it would only be the tip of the iceberg.
Though I have to admit you often see room asking for couples only, bbw only, black men only etc. But this is only suggested room admitance, it can not really be enforced.
(Though I am sure I have been kicked from a room for not being a black male)

30 Nov 2007

If you want to invite certain people, you could set up a private room and give your guests the password.
You can't, as BBW has said, kick someone from a public chatroom because of their status.

30 Nov 2007

Quote by AtomCom2001
(Though I am sure I have been kicked from a room for not being a black male)

This is against the site rules.

30 Nov 2007

I've seen "couples only" chatrooms, the person who opens it simply puts that in as a title and vets who comes in.. ie., single people get the big fat boot! lol

30 Nov 2007

Quote by jaymar
I've seen "couples only" chatrooms, the person who opens it simply puts that in as a title and vets who comes in.. ie., single people get the big fat boot!

Putting it in the title doesn't get round the fact you cannot boot someone just because they are single.
Mal

30 Nov 2007

http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/77907.html
which states
You CANNOT kick someone from a room due to the colour of their skin, their geographical location, sexual orientation, their membership status or if they are not on cam. If, for example, you want a room for Couples only, you should make this a Private room with a password, so that entry is by invite only.
So be warned if you open a room with couples/singles etc only in title and you kick someone for not being that status, you may be subject to a site ban.
regards

1 Dec 2007

However, when the new Chatroom finally opens rolleyes

:roll: you will be able to open Couples only rooms. confused

:? :?

1 Dec 2007

Quote by bbw_lover
The site is meant for everyone. What next? A white only chatroom?
It creates more problems than it solves.

:shock: :therethere:
You know what the Doc told you about your blood pressure coffee

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1 Dec 2007

hi although i know what a nice genuine couple you are i dont see how this can be possible you only have to go into the main chatrooms,and look at the cams,they say they they are couples but most of the time its just the same guys thinking we want to see them wank,on a couple of occasions i have used a trick i learnt from nutty,and told them i would love to meet them, only i want to speak to mrs on the phone first its funny but mrs always seems to be away,so i ask for her mobile so i can call her guess what they cant give it,they are so obviously single guys,but how can you stop them getting in. love to you both shazxxx

1 Dec 2007

also at this present moment in time i would not be allowed in awwwwww

1 Dec 2007

Quote by bbw_lover
The site is meant for everyone. What next? A white only chatroom?
It creates more problems than it solves.

i agree with you, if you don't like someone don't talk to them they will soon get bored if you ignor them and start talking to someone else, the sites for everyone i wouldn't feel it was right to open a room that discriminated against anyone for any reason including their marital status......oh by the way i'm no a single man lol

1 Dec 2007

Quote by AtomCom2001
The site is meant for everyone. What next? A white only chatroom?
It creates more problems than it solves.

I have to agree, if this happen it would only be the tip of the iceberg.
Though I have to admit you often see room asking for couples only, bbw only, black men only etc. But this is only suggested room admitance, it can not really be enforced.
(Though I am sure I have been kicked from a room for not being a black male)
i used to go in the bbw room offen and i went on a diet last year and lost quite a lot of weight and one day i went in the room as i normally did and was kicked out saying i wasnt welcome in there no more as i was no longer a bbw :shock:
so it happens to women too lol

1 Dec 2007

Quote by naughtynymphos1
The site is meant for everyone. What next? A white only chatroom?
It creates more problems than it solves.

I have to agree, if this happen it would only be the tip of the iceberg.
Though I have to admit you often see room asking for couples only, bbw only, black men only etc. But this is only suggested room admitance, it can not really be enforced.
(Though I am sure I have been kicked from a room for not being a black male)
i used to go in the bbw room offen and i went on a diet last year and lost quite a lot of weight and one day i went in the room as i normally did and was kicked out saying i wasnt welcome in there no more as i was no longer a bbw :shock:
so it happens to women too lol
Ah, but did they say which of the "B"s you weren't?? confused

:? :?

:lol: :lol: bolt

2 Dec 2007

Well its interesting to hear all the different view points on the subject.
Thats why I posted this.

2 Dec 2007

Quote by AshaandAlex
Well its interesting to hear all the different view points on the subject.
Thats why I posted this.

Can I ask you what you now think after you have heard a lot of our views?

2 Dec 2007

Quote by naughtynymphos1
i used to go in the bbw room offen and i went on a diet last year and lost quite a lot of weight and one day i went in the room as i normally did and was kicked out saying i wasnt welcome in there no more as i was no longer a bbw :shock:
so it happens to women too lol

:shock:
I'll go in for you NN and give them all a saucer of cream lol

:mrgreen:

2 Dec 2007

Quote by Sgt Bilko
However, when the new Chatroom finally opens :roll: you will be able to open Couples only rooms. :? :?

So why will people be able to do this in the new chat and not in the current chat? We have heard this many times, that when the new chat becomes active you will be able to exclude single guys from your room, if you so wish. Cannot see why you will be able to do this in one and not the other? :shock:
In the current rules it states as somebody has already mentioned, that you cannot exclude singles, does this mean when the new chat opens, that the rules will be changed? We feel that there should be a couples only room, as somebody also has mentioned. If you are in a couples room looking for only couples you tend to get inundated with unwanted whispers from single guys. Why singles want to go into a room that clearly states couples for couples only baffles me anyways!

2 Dec 2007

Quote by Sgt Bilko
However, when the new Chatroom finally opens :roll: you will be able to open Couples only rooms. :? :?

This sets a dangerous precedent. I'm totally sympathetic to the comments some couples have made, however if you go down this route the you are automatically obliged to make sure that people will be able to open:
Singles only rooms
Women only rooms
Men only rooms
Black only rooms
White only rooms
Short only rooms
Tall only rooms
… add infinitum
In fact why not go the whole hog and have seperate websites for each catergory. At least that would be more honest.
It seems strange to me, not only are you violating your own rules, but at one fell swoop you are destroying the whole sense of community that currently exists.
Well done!
mad

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2 Dec 2007

Quote by bbw_lover
However, when the new Chatroom finally opens :roll: you will be able to open Couples only rooms. :? :?

This sets a dangerous precedent. I'm totally sympathetic to the comments some couples have made, however if you go down this route the you are automatically obliged to make sure that people will be able to open:
Singles only rooms
Women only rooms
Men only rooms
Black only rooms
White only rooms
Short only rooms
Tall only rooms
… add infinitum
In fact why not go the whole hog and have seperate websites for each catergory. At least that would be more honest.
It seems strange to me, not only are you violating your own rules, but at one fell swoop you are destroying the whole sense of community that currently exists.
Well done!
mad

:x :x :x :x
I couldnt agree more....
I think its a terrible idea....

2 Dec 2007

Quote by bbw_lover
However, when the new Chatroom finally opens :roll: you will be able to open Couples only rooms. :? :?

This sets a dangerous precedent. I'm totally sympathetic to the comments some couples have made, however if you go down this route the you are automatically obliged to make sure that people will be able to open:
Singles only rooms
Women only rooms
Men only rooms
Black only rooms
White only rooms
Short only rooms
Tall only rooms
… add infinitum
In fact why not go the whole hog and have seperate websites for each catergory. At least that would be more honest.
It seems strange to me, not only are you violating your own rules, but at one fell swoop you are destroying the whole sense of community that currently exists.
Well done!
mad

:x :x :x :x
Think you are taking things a tad to far. We have only ever heard of people asking for couples only rooms. We have never seen a room that asks for black/white/tall rooms. Cannot see a problem with having a couples only room...you will be able too soon, so why not now?

2 Dec 2007

Quote by kentswingers777
However, when the new Chatroom finally opens :roll: you will be able to open Couples only rooms. :? :?

This sets a dangerous precedent. I'm totally sympathetic to the comments some couples have made, however if you go down this route the you are automatically obliged to make sure that people will be able to open:
Singles only rooms
Women only rooms
Men only rooms
Black only rooms
White only rooms
Short only rooms
Tall only rooms
… add infinitum
In fact why not go the whole hog and have seperate websites for each catergory. At least that would be more honest.
It seems strange to me, not only are you violating your own rules, but at one fell swoop you are destroying the whole sense of community that currently exists.
Well done!
mad

:x :x :x :x
Think you are taking things a tad to far. We have only ever heard of people asking for couples only rooms. We have never seen a room that asks for black/white/tall rooms. Cannot see a problem with having a couples only room...you will be able too soon, so why not now?
Does this imply that the new chatroom will be available soon?

2 Dec 2007

Quote by kentswingers777
Think you are taking things a tad to far. We have only ever heard of people asking for couples only rooms. We have never seen a room that asks for black/white/tall rooms. Cannot see a problem with having a couples only room...you will be able too soon, so why not now?

You may only have heard about couples-only rooms but I've seen people in the chatrooms saying they'd like to open gay-, bi-, men-, TV- and age-specific rooms.
I agree with previous comments that this could well be divisive on here. And it also raises the question that (once the new chatroom is running), how SH will deal with perfectly reasonable requests to open something-or-other-specific rooms that functionally cannot be provided?
I'm assuming the capability for men/women/couple-only rooms is based on the profile type - what if someone wants to open a "40 and over" room?

2 Dec 2007

Quote by McrM4M-pvtOK
Think you are taking things a tad to far. We have only ever heard of people asking for couples only rooms. We have never seen a room that asks for black/white/tall rooms. Cannot see a problem with having a couples only room...you will be able too soon, so why not now?

You may only have heard about couples-only rooms but I've seen people in the chatrooms saying they'd like to open gay-, bi-, men-, TV- and age-specific rooms.
I agree with previous comments that this could well be divisive on here. And it also raises the question that (once the new chatroom is running), how SH will deal with perfectly reasonable requests to open something-or-other-specific rooms that functionally cannot be provided?
I'm assuming the capability for men/women/couple-only rooms is based on the profile type - what if someone wants to open a "40 and over" room?
All that I have seen is a couples for couples only room, or a couples only room. I have never seen a room title that specifies any other title which says this or that room only. No doubt someone will say I am wrong here, but we are on the chat rooms a lot, and we cannot remember seeing this.

2 Dec 2007

Quote by kentswingers777
All that I have seen is a couples for couples only room, or a couples only room. I have never seen a room title that specifies any other title which says this or that room only. No doubt someone will say I am wrong here, but we are on the chat rooms a lot, and we cannot remember seeing this.

There are black only rooms,bi/gay rooms/tv/cd rooms and rooms that ask for big dicks,small tits,40+ and all combinations...
Are the powers that be going to allow users to create rooms specific to these when the new rooms arrive and remove anyone who doesnt conform ???
I somehow doubt it.....
And then the couples will have what they want.....Their own rooms and the elitest feeling rolleyes

Its going to be nothing but divisive....

2 Dec 2007

Quote by Mallock2006

All that I have seen is a couples for couples only room, or a couples only room. I have never seen a room title that specifies any other title which says this or that room only. No doubt someone will say I am wrong here, but we are on the chat rooms a lot, and we cannot remember seeing this.

There are black only rooms,bi/gay rooms/tv/cd rooms and rooms that ask for big dicks,small tits,40+ and all combinations...
Are the powers that be going to allow users to create rooms specific to these when the new rooms arrive and remove anyone who doesnt conform ???
I somehow doubt it.....
And then the couples will have what they want.....Their own rooms and the elitest feeling rolleyes

Its going to be nothing but divisive....
They do not say " bi gay black only ". I have on occasion seen couples for couples only. There is nothing elitist about having a room for couples only. We are a couple who mainly go into the Kent room, but do venture out on occasion! In the Kent room there are couples and singles, and on the whole we have no problem at all with that.
But we still have not had an answer as to why excluding singles is not allowed on this chat, but WILL be allowed on the new chat when it are either couples or singles on this site, forget peoples sexual denominations, you are either a single or a couple. That being the case if wanting to only chat to couples only offends, then have a singles only room...fairnes to all. lol

2 Dec 2007

Quote by kentswingers777

All that I have seen is a couples for couples only room, or a couples only room. I have never seen a room title that specifies any other title which says this or that room only. No doubt someone will say I am wrong here, but we are on the chat rooms a lot, and we cannot remember seeing this.

There are black only rooms,bi/gay rooms/tv/cd rooms and rooms that ask for big dicks,small tits,40+ and all combinations...
Are the powers that be going to allow users to create rooms specific to these when the new rooms arrive and remove anyone who doesnt conform ???
I somehow doubt it.....
And then the couples will have what they want.....Their own rooms and the elitest feeling rolleyes

Its going to be nothing but divisive....
They do not say " bi gay black only ". I have on occasion seen couples for couples only. There is nothing elitist about having a room for couples only. We are a couple who mainly go into the Kent room, but do venture out on occasion! In the Kent room there are couples and singles, and on the whole we have no problem at all with that.
But we still have not had an answer as to why excluding singles is not allowed on this chat, but WILL be allowed on the new chat when it are either couples or singles on this site, forget peoples sexual denominations, you are either a single or a couple. That being the case if wanting to only chat to couples only offends, then have a singles only room...fairnes to all. lol
I never said they did :roll:
There are rooms that specify a particular colour/sexual preference only as well.......Look a bit harder...

2 Dec 2007

Quote by flower411

All that I have seen is a couples for couples only room, or a couples only room. I have never seen a room title that specifies any other title which says this or that room only. No doubt someone will say I am wrong here, but we are on the chat rooms a lot, and we cannot remember seeing this.

There are black only rooms,bi/gay rooms/tv/cd rooms and rooms that ask for big dicks,small tits,40+ and all combinations...
Are the powers that be going to allow users to create rooms specific to these when the new rooms arrive and remove anyone who doesnt conform ???
I somehow doubt it.....
And then the couples will have what they want.....Their own rooms and the elitest feeling rolleyes

Its going to be nothing but divisive....
They do not say " bi gay black only ". I have on occasion seen couples for couples only. There is nothing elitist about having a room for couples only. We are a couple who mainly go into the Kent room, but do venture out on occasion! In the Kent room there are couples and singles, and on the whole we have no problem at all with that.
But we still have not had an answer as to why excluding singles is not allowed on this chat, but WILL be allowed on the new chat when it are either couples or singles on this site, forget peoples sexual denominations, you are either a single or a couple. That being the case if wanting to only chat to couples only offends, then have a singles only room...fairnes to all. lol
I never said they did :roll:
There are rooms that specify a particular colour/sexual preference only as well.......Look a bit harder...
Blimey !!! It seems to me that the only issue here is the word "ONLY"
There are very rarely rooms in chat, as far as I have seen, that state "ONLY" in the title ......the "only" rooms that do this on a regular basis are the "couples only" rooms !!!
Leave `em to it is what I say !!
Flower you have summed it up perfectly! The key word here is only. If the problem is the fact of elitism or spoiling the community spirit, why allow it on the new chat? End of conversation about this from us now. lol

2 Dec 2007

Quote by kentswingers777
Why singles want to go into a room that clearly states couples for couples only baffles me anyways!

I think the saying "WET PAINT - DO NOT TOUCH" answers this one.
Ian