condoms

13 Feb 2005

just pondering a tale related to me by "the master" after a recent encounter. the story itself, is only interesting in the fact that its such a regular occurence.
for "the master" it was a classic encounter. only one other guy, and an attractive couple, the ideal scenario. after a little chat, the girl is happy to show, which soon escalates into a hands on session. then, after a little whispering and giggling with her partner, the question was asked, "would you boys like to shag me"? well, thats a question aint it? obviously the master nods his willingness, as does the other lad, what a night this is turning out to be, this lady is stunning. the husband asks, "you've got condoms haven't you lads"? well, thats a stupid question, or is it?, nervously "the master's" sidekick announces he hasn't, it gets worse, the couple haven't any either. did the master, yet again jump to the rescue of a dogger down on his grey matter? well, i'll not tell.
ok, believe it or not, its very very common. probably the biggest reason being married guys, desperately afraid that the offending packet, no matter how well secreted will invairably be discovered by his bloodhound wife. but can you imagine how awkward the situation is, and how much passion diluted at the sight and sound of a dogger running around a carpark desperately trying to source a supply of latex?
why did the couple not have any. well maybe they did, but being fed up with the attitude of the non-carriers, decided to let him sweat a differently induced persperation. i've also seen couples flogging jonnies at a quid a throw, would that be a better way to go?
only a couple of months ago, the male partner of a couple shouted across the carpark, 'hey, dirty, have you fookin noticed how fookin doggers dont carry fookin condoms anymore, they want too fook yer missus, and for you to fookin supply the fookin rubber"?.well, we hadn't noticed, but the remark was only made in my direction, it was really a verbal attack on the now departing dogger, who evidently hadn't come prepared.
not really a discussion thread, just something i've seen and heard. comment by all means, but you guys will always carry condoms, wont you? lol

:lol:

13 Feb 2005

hiya
ive been doggin a few yrs now and i must admit most doggers dont carry them
i do but why should i buy condoms for them to shag me ?
i carry them round just in case my guy gets the chance of a good shag from some one else
we goto clubs to a few weeks ago i had this lovely fem on bench and about 30 single guys was round us
GUESS what ? not 1 of them had a condom sad

in the end 1 guy ran upstairs in the club to buy a condom then came back down i fluffed him then he was in there lol
so come on guys married single or in a relationship dont forget your CONDOMS
jo xx

13 Feb 2005

13 Feb 2005

I dont normally have full sex but still always carry a supply of condoms just in case I change my mind, or in case Mr Naughty 'gets lucky' lol

. If I ever asked a guy if he wanted to go all the way and he did not have a condom, even if I did have one, I would be very doubtfull about wanting to go further. The fact that he has turned up without one would really scare the hell out of me! How often has he 'risked it' without one! Not worth risking your life/health just for a bit of fun!
I was out a couple of weeks ago, with two regulars off here and we were all having a bit of 'showing' fun with another couple. The lady from the other couple decided she wanted to have full sex with one of the guys and after a while the single guy noticed the condom had split. He immediately stopped only for the husband/partner of the girl to tell him not to worry, she was very clean and just to carry on! Luckily this guy was obviously in the boy scouts and had come prepared, quickly producing another from his pocket!
Funny you should post this Mr D, has we had the very same conversation last night about couples who risk it without condoms!

13 Feb 2005

When i go out, i make sure i have more than enough condoms "just in case".
I would never consider having sex without. No matter how much they say they havent got anything, they dont know if you have and they dont appear to be bother.
I am clean and want to stay that way.
I think its back to the old thing, where the women has to be prepared for sex, we are expected to go on the pill, buy condoms. I dont think any of my boyfriends has actually bought them its always been me.
OK I've had my moan now.

13 Feb 2005

I agree that most doggers don't seem to carry condoms rolleyes

I seldom have penetrative sex with doggers anyway, unless they are just tooo damn sexy to miss my chance, or we happen to know them from previous encounters wink

I always carry some with me. You just never know when your luck is going to be in :P
Having said that, I have a latex allergy anyway so would have to supply my own, but we do meet a guy now and then and as he knows about my allergy, he always brings non latex condoms with him smile

Sometimes, it would be nice to be able to say to a guy, thanks for bringing a condom, but I'd rather use my own. At least it would show that he was prepared and thoughtfull of both his and my health.
It is not only because they are married, although that is probably the main reason, but I think most of them are too feckin' tight to buy some :roll: confused

If married guys are worried about their wives finding a condom packet, are they less concerned about finding they've shagged someone without a condom and got a dose of something nasty? :shock:
Maybe it's true and they don't get sex at home, so the little woman indoors would never know about it, but I for one am not prepared to risk my health evil

Tracy-Jayne

13 Feb 2005

Hate to sound sanctimonious, but I do carry condoms with me, but I agree that most doggers don't. Obviously not too many doggers have been boy scouts in their formative years. The number of times other doggers have asked me if I have a spare one makes me dispair. I mean, these guys asking me to subsidise their fun when on another day they could be the ones who ruin my show. GET REAL!
The way I see it, is that the price you pay for going all the way is the use of a condom, so always carry your flexible friend with you lol

13 Feb 2005

Not many replies from single guys.....but although I know plenty who dont go prepared.....I REALLY can not understand anyone who really takes so many risks.
Condoms are not expensive, they are easy to get hold of , small and descrete and can save your life!!
Maybe guys think the chance of a full on session is so small its not worth buying some, I dont know, but I do know that even I wouldnt shag the best looking most sexy young lady with out a condom if i had just bumped into her 10 mins earler in a car park.
My advice is .. Dont go dogging with out condoms, and if you meet someone with out them point them in the direction of a chemist !
paul

13 Feb 2005

If i have penetrative sex with a dogger, we always provide him with one of our condoms to wear, regardless of whether he has one of his own of not. There are several reasons for this: Firstly i prefer to put my own health, safety and hygiene under mine and my husbands control. By using a condom that we provide, we ensure that we are using a good quality brand name and not some glow in the dark, strawberry flavoured, ribbed novellty type one. That the condom is infact fresh from the cardboard box intact and not one that has been scrunched up in its wrapper in the bottom of someones back pocket for 1 month, 6 months, 6years? And lastly that the condom is in date.
Luv
Mark and Suexx

13 Feb 2005

i think its the doggers sole responsability to provide them sorry guys but thats my view, i take time to go to chemists/tescos and any other retalier that supplys them ,so why cant the doggers (males doggers that is). ive been asked many times by men saying hey mate you got a spare jonny i can borrow? fuck off i say BORROW!!!!! why you gonna wash it out and give me it back or summat!!!!!! as the dirtys know there is a tesco and some garages near our local site ,so i tell em piss off down there and buy some.
sorry to sound selfish people but it makes me mad that they cant supply there own.
plus some who have asked me have drove in lights blareing in your face and jump out and hassle you or the couple away so i wont accomadate em with my condoms.
ok bit of a rant there but ive said it now biggrin

13 Feb 2005

All the dogging advice, on all the various sites, say to bring your own...and use them.
The problem that many guys have, is will the missus find them.
Cost ain't really an issue is it ?
The local gum clinic hands them out free....I even met a local woman who lives down the road there, last check-up !!

13 Feb 2005

Quote by singledogger
sorry to sound selfish people but it makes me mad that they cant supply there own.

No more selfish than what I said earlier, but nowhere near as selfish as the inconsiderate doggers who want it all to themselves, but aren't willing to come suitably prepared with their own condoms and expect everyone else to spoonfeed them.

13 Feb 2005

Right, that's it.. I'm going to go round dogging spots with my own little 'condom vending stall' lol

.. what d'ya reckon... Â£5 each for those stoopid enough to go without?!? :lol:

13 Feb 2005

I have to agree - most times when I have been lucky enough for some dogging action and have given the game away by using my own condom, the doggers after me always ask if I've got any more !! Sorry, I'm not into subsidising thoughtless lazy sods!
And, here's a hint - whenever a lady asks "who's got a condom", the person who has one there and then, invariably gets first refusal !!
I've even been asked in some clubs, where the management will give them out for free - but the lazy gits can't even be bothered to ask for one...
Ant.

13 Feb 2005

Quote by Funkentcouple2002
That the condom is infact fresh from the cardboard box intact and not one that has been scrunched up in its wrapper in the bottom of someones back pocket for 1 month, 6 months, 6years? And lastly that the condom is in date.

This is a good point about the date of the condoms and I dont think I would ever have thought to ask someone if they were sure they were in date.
We called at a small corner shop a few months ago to buy a pack of three when we realised we had gone out without them. We didnt use them but when I got home I did notice they had ran out of date by about 6 months. Obviously, they went straight into the bin!

13 Feb 2005

Quote by Funkentcouple2002
If i have penetrative sex with a dogger, we always provide him with one of our condoms to wear, regardless of whether he has one of his own of not. There are several reasons for this: Firstly i prefer to put my own health, safety and hygiene under mine and my husbands control. By using a condom that we provide, we ensure that we are using a good quality brand name and not some glow in the dark, strawberry flavoured, ribbed novellty type one. That the condom is infact fresh from the cardboard box intact and not one that has been scrunched up in its wrapper in the bottom of someones back pocket for 1 month, 6 months, 6years? And lastly that the condom is in date.
Luv
Mark and Suexx

Whilst guys not having the sense to turn up prepared must be aggravating, I completely agree with Sue's comments about using your own condoms. Condom packets, and therefore condoms, aren't that difficult to damage so using your own is a wise move for peace of mind.

13 Feb 2005

I can see everyones point here, but you got to ask yourself, would you let someone shag ya, who's been carrying around a rubber thats been in his pocket for the better part of the decade?
If I were the sharing type, I would supply my own. I knew when and where I bought them and used a brand I trusted.

13 Feb 2005

Quote by partyman
Obviously not too many doggers have been boy scouts in their formative years.

I carry too and possibly for the same reason. Scouts learned to carry condoms, partly because of the "Be pRepared" motto, partly because the scout master never had any ;) and partly because you never knew when you would run into the girl guides...

13 Feb 2005

I can quite understand making doggers use your condoms, and of course thats your right, and any sane guy aint gona refuse. However, I still think its only right that us guys carry our own and make sure they are useable.
As to cost, no, I am sure that is not the issue. As far as not wanting the misses to find out...well, its not to easy to hide any one of the many infections that could be picked up. Also, if the guy thinks he will get hell for carrying some condoms, just think what he'll get for going dogging in the first place !!
Not having condoms incase the misses finds out is just such a lame excuse.

13 Feb 2005

I always have condoms with me, usually 4 plus.
Stands to reason dont it, yeah if the chance of a full blown shag comes up well I will take it.
I value my health, I carry a condom,
If I have full (penetrative) sex with somebody I dont know am I fool enough to lose my health to a STD, uhuhuhhhhhh no way jose
so for those of you lazy enough, stupid enough or just plain feckin wacked out enough not to give a damm or carry a condom....... Think Safe

14 Feb 2005

I always ask the guys "who has a condom" but, to be honest, I never thought about the fact that condoms could be out of date.

14 Feb 2005

Quote by brightongoblin
Not many replies from single guys.....but although I know plenty who dont go prepared.....I REALLY can not understand anyone who really takes so many risks.
Condoms are not expensive, they are easy to get hold of , small and descrete and can save your life!!
Maybe guys think the chance of a full on session is so small its not worth buying some, I dont know, but I do know that even I wouldnt shag the best looking most sexy young lady with out a condom if i had just bumped into her 10 mins earler in a car park.
My advice is .. Dont go dogging with out condoms, and if you meet someone with out them point them in the direction of a chemist !
paul

I'm staggered that so many male doggers don't carry johnnies - what decade do they think they're living in? From a STD viewpoint, you can't get a much more risky situation than al fresco sex with strangers, so from purely a self-interest angle you'd think blokes would carry them. Even if they don't give a toss about the risk to themselves, it's irresponsible and dangerous to ask a woman who's offering a shag to take the risk as you can never be sure you're not carrying anything.
I've not been an active dogger - tried it once, but got fed up with hanging about, driving around, smoking fags, and generally using up good drinking time - but if I were I'd make damn sure to carry around at least a packet of 3 in case I got lucky. It wouldn't occur to me to not wear one, even if they are like washing your feet with your socks on. Hell, I carry one around with me in my coat pocket every day, just in case.
I'm flabbergasted. I really thought that johnny-carrying would be standard practice amongst doggers.
Mr Licks

14 Feb 2005

Just a thought to those married guys who are worried about the wife finding their stash of condoms.
Which would you rather explain:
(1) Why you had a condom in the glovebox ?
OR,
(2) Why you both have to visit the std clinic to get a nasty dose of something treated ?
Just for the record my explanation for (1) is : They were handing them out in the high street in some sort of safe sex campaign, and I just forgot it was there.
If you were wondering, No she didn't believe me either! redface

14 Feb 2005

How exciting.
Carry this to its conclusion, how do I know the condom the couple brought with them hasn't been "doctored" with something ?
As for "not shagging someone without a condom"....you need to get a life....most of the "layby action" brigade shag bareback.....please don't say they don't....I've been doing this for several decades and most of the action, even now, is bareback.
Lets see, when was the last time you wore a rubber for a blowjob ?
Oh, sorry, you don't need rubbers for oral 'cause you can't catch anything from oral....wrong, very wrong. 15 years ago I got the clap from oral....as I said...wrong.
In case you ask...no. I don't shag anyone when out....doggers are watchers and wankers....you wanna call yourselves doggers, go ahead...but we call you single swingers...
What you really need, to put things in perspective, is to go along to the local gum clinic and get tested.....that'll put the fear of god into you....and you'll be pissing boiling water for a day...

14 Feb 2005

yeah, mate of mine got the clap, told the doctor he caught it off a toilet seat, doctor said, "well you must have chewed it, its in your gums" lol

true about the bareback though, seems rife in some places we visit, and many guys are happy to play, often the ones that denounce it the most. suppose the old saying is true in some cases, sex just aint worth dying for, unless you're about to get you're end away :!:
as for couples doctoring the condoms, saw one hand a jonnie to a dogger inside out, poor fucker put it on and "went" wink

14 Feb 2005

Quote by jomu
How exciting.
Carry this to its conclusion, how do I know the condom the couple brought with them hasn't been "doctored" with something ?...

Good question..answer... you dont.

Quote by jomu
As for "not shagging someone without a condom"....you need to get a life....most of the "layby action" brigade shag bareback.....please don't say they don't....I've been doing this for several decades and most of the action, even now, is bareback....

What can I say..cos I wont have full sex with a stranger,without a condom, I need to get a life? each to thier own i guess.

Quote by jomu
What you really need, to put things in perspective, is to go along to the local gum clinic and get tested.....that'll put the fear of god into you....and you'll be pissing boiling water for a day...

Excactly the reason I do always carry them and wont play with out.
All in all, this whole thread just confirms what we all know, high rewards carry high risks, and I reckon its down to us all to do what we can to protect each others safety, not just by having useable condoms, but trouble spot reports and of course, not naming sites.
Interesting though, not one post to really defend not having condoms !!

15 Feb 2005

Quote by partyman
Obviously not too many doggers have been boy scouts in their formative years.

I was a sixer in the cub scouts... and carry a supply of condoms when out and about

15 Feb 2005

Quote by jomu
....you need to get a life....

Actually, I think it's more about maintaining one.
Feel free to give yours up...

15 Feb 2005

We only ever use our own condoms ( durex extra safe ) . We know where they have been and that they have not been interfered with, there are some sick teddies out there. Ben also makes sure they have them on before they go anywhere near me, handy things torches.
You would be surprised how many " Doggers " dont know how to put one on. We had one break last year and the twat knew it had broken and tried to leave in a hurry leaving half his rubber in a very inappropriate place. Ben had a " full and frank " discussion with him. Wanker.
Oh the joys of Dogging.
Love
Jackie and Ben
xxxxxxxx

29 Mar 2005

my mrs always preferred it bareback... but she'd always carry some condoms in case the bloke insisted... she'd rather they wore one of her pinholed ones than miss having a load....