Were off dogging this weekend in the midlands area wife is 5 months pregnant this is our last meet before she gives birth.
If interested please get in touch and reply were looking for 6-8 men
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Sex God
this is so risky not only for her but the unborn child if you do this please please please get checked out straight away or at least as soon as you can cos things can get passed on to baby as well
Sex God
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I think this is highly irresponsible.
I think this is highly irresponsible.
Warming the Bed
She isnt going to be barebacked its safe sex as weve only recently started dogging iwe justwondered what peolple go for thats all
Sex God
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She isnt going to be barebacked its safe sex as weve only recently started dogging iwe justwondered what peolple go for thats all
To be fair, I think if this this is the case then your poll is misleading. I read it as you were giving the 6/8 guys you were looking for the option of either safe or bareback. If bareback is NOT an option (which, let's be honest as everyone has said for the sake of mother and baby, it shouldn't be) then I think you should make that absolutely explicit in your first post.
Just my opinion. Good luck with the rest of the pregnancy.
why cant they have safe sex and cum in a condom?
its not for me to offer you moralistic advice as its not what you asked for, but sorry concern for the safety for you partner leads me to say the following, if as you say your very new to the whole dogging thing i dont think its the best situation to place a 5 months pregenant lady in.
your out in the middle of no where, and if as it appears you dont know the rules , or allow the doggers to set them, then you could get your self into a horrid situation.
you make the rules. might be safer to invite some well selected few to a hotel where by you have set ground rules down?
good luck with your fun and pregnancy
as nola said make what your looking for clear in this post and poll as you will get the horn lead scimming this post and presuming a bareback gang bang is what your out after
xx fem xx
its not for me to offer you moralistic advice as its not what you asked for, but sorry concern for the safety for you partner leads me to say the following, if as you say your very new to the whole dogging thing i dont think its the best situation to place a 5 months pregenant lady in.
your out in the middle of no where, and if as it appears you dont know the rules , or allow the doggers to set them, then you could get your self into a horrid situation.
you make the rules. might be safer to invite some well selected few to a hotel where by you have set ground rules down?
good luck with your fun and pregnancy
as nola said make what your looking for clear in this post and poll as you will get the horn lead scimming this post and presuming a bareback gang bang is what your out after
xx fem xx
When we first started out in this game, our car park played host to several couples, the most "active" of which were bareback gang bangers. They were the last remnants of the outdoor swinger's meets which often gets confused with a dogging "event". Both couples pretty much had their own "groupies" who would eagerly await the arrival of their "greedy girl" of choice. In fact, you could set your watch by them, it was so regular. 
When the numbers of single guys started to dramatically increase, the bangers acted as a bit of a pressure release valve :lol: . The guys were told in no uncertain terms that "rubbering up" wasn't an option, "take it or leave it". A surprising amount "took it"
. Many of the guys that had earlier "slated" the couple for such carefree abandon were later in the night taking their place in the queue 
.
Such was the hypocrisy, at least one male partner of a couple took to taking notes of who was indulging in unprotected sex. He would stand by one of the tables in disquise, then await a later date where true to form, a grinning face would make an introduction by their car and assure them he'd have little to do with such cavalier behaviour His charm was then given short thrift :lol: . Given that most of the girls will give unprotected oral sex, it was something to consider . It was also the factor that "grounded" us into "exhibitionism only" at a very early stage. The notebook partner wasn't so much interested in who was having unprotected sex with gang bangers, but was focusing his attentions toward those that were refusing it
On another occassion, a dogger was watching mrs dirty at play. On realising she was "natural" but neatly trimmed :lol: he suggested "you should shave that off love, you'll spread crabs in a place like this :shock: ". We declined his next offer :lol: , but he was later seen shuffling in the queue, pants around his ankles like a penguin :? And it was supposed to be US that wasn't giving consideration to the doggers health :lol: Fuck me :roll:
A visiting couple, the girl of which was about 25, once "had" six guys down what was then, a quiet track. Again, all of it was bareback. A token mop with a wet wipe and she left, as did everybody else. We ourselves located to the main car park, where, due to the very busy nights, a mob that was then known as "the mafia" had grouped so as to gain a heavy handed advantage over rival doggers, oblivious to the scenario that had been acted out only moments earlier. :lol:
The lady that earlier had recieved six shots of "dogger joy juice" entered, was surrounded, and subsequently escorted to one of the tables by the mobsters. One of the higher profile Casa Nostra members sunk to his knees, and went at her jack like a rottweiller at a bowl of porridge. The lads were aghast, and withdrew in disqust, giggling like embarrased schoolboys :lol: Some even clutching their hands to their mouths as the "imagery" conspired to tickle their gag reflex :lol: whereupon our gangster cunningliquist announced "The trouble with this game, too many watchers, not enough doer's" :twisted: One lad muttered, "fuck me mate, you fill your boots son." as he walked off leaving the pack hounds to their seminal feast :shock: :twisted:
It was quite evident from an early stage, that in general, the women were getting nothing from the "exchange". In a moment of subdued conversation, one openly told me she hated dogging and she hated doggers. She did it for her partner because she loved him. For many , it is a male homo erotic submission fantasy, the desire of which can often negate all other considerations. That "desire negating ALL other considerations" is something a woman, specially a child bearing one, needs to look at. She of course, being one of the negated considerations :wink:
There are "other" considerations. We once saw a single girl doggette "have" several doggers, in ANY hole. The usage of condoms wasn't brought up, and as the girl was at one point leaning over a picnic table, those fucking her from behind were just "entrusted" by her to rubber up. When one fella shagged her in the arse without protection, I felt maybe I should make her discreetly aware that twenty percent of her playmates weren't using condoms. She looked at me and said "oh no, can you believe it?", then just carried on :shock: :lol:
On another website we use, a couple were advertising an intent to "show" that week in a given area. They had four replies. In the same area, and on the same website, a guy was advertising a bareback gangbang for his slut girlfriend. The interest was substantially greater, and the posts comprised of many mmmmmmmmmmm's :lol:
The high incidence of unprotected sex with complete strangers in car parks certainly suprised us..I recal watching a mate of mine with a stunningly attractive girl of about 25. The husband sidled up to me and whispered "you can spunk her if you want". Asking what "spunking" meant? He advised me she was clean, and he would have no problem with me "cumming" inside her :? I'm a watcher, not a player,so for me at least, it wasn't an issue, but it makes you wonder how many guys are put in situations where they are made to feel "uncomfortable" in their desire for safer sex, once the wheels are in motion kinda thing?
When the numbers of single guys started to dramatically increase, the bangers acted as a bit of a pressure release valve :lol: . The guys were told in no uncertain terms that "rubbering up" wasn't an option, "take it or leave it". A surprising amount "took it"
. Many of the guys that had earlier "slated" the couple for such carefree abandon were later in the night taking their place in the queue .Such was the hypocrisy, at least one male partner of a couple took to taking notes of who was indulging in unprotected sex. He would stand by one of the tables in disquise, then await a later date where true to form, a grinning face would make an introduction by their car and assure them he'd have little to do with such cavalier behaviour His charm was then given short thrift :lol: . Given that most of the girls will give unprotected oral sex, it was something to consider . It was also the factor that "grounded" us into "exhibitionism only" at a very early stage. The notebook partner wasn't so much interested in who was having unprotected sex with gang bangers, but was focusing his attentions toward those that were refusing it
On another occassion, a dogger was watching mrs dirty at play. On realising she was "natural" but neatly trimmed :lol: he suggested "you should shave that off love, you'll spread crabs in a place like this :shock: ". We declined his next offer :lol: , but he was later seen shuffling in the queue, pants around his ankles like a penguin :? And it was supposed to be US that wasn't giving consideration to the doggers health :lol: Fuck me :roll:
A visiting couple, the girl of which was about 25, once "had" six guys down what was then, a quiet track. Again, all of it was bareback. A token mop with a wet wipe and she left, as did everybody else. We ourselves located to the main car park, where, due to the very busy nights, a mob that was then known as "the mafia" had grouped so as to gain a heavy handed advantage over rival doggers, oblivious to the scenario that had been acted out only moments earlier. :lol:
The lady that earlier had recieved six shots of "dogger joy juice" entered, was surrounded, and subsequently escorted to one of the tables by the mobsters. One of the higher profile Casa Nostra members sunk to his knees, and went at her jack like a rottweiller at a bowl of porridge. The lads were aghast, and withdrew in disqust, giggling like embarrased schoolboys :lol: Some even clutching their hands to their mouths as the "imagery" conspired to tickle their gag reflex :lol: whereupon our gangster cunningliquist announced "The trouble with this game, too many watchers, not enough doer's" :twisted: One lad muttered, "fuck me mate, you fill your boots son." as he walked off leaving the pack hounds to their seminal feast :shock: :twisted:
It was quite evident from an early stage, that in general, the women were getting nothing from the "exchange". In a moment of subdued conversation, one openly told me she hated dogging and she hated doggers. She did it for her partner because she loved him. For many , it is a male homo erotic submission fantasy, the desire of which can often negate all other considerations. That "desire negating ALL other considerations" is something a woman, specially a child bearing one, needs to look at. She of course, being one of the negated considerations :wink:
There are "other" considerations. We once saw a single girl doggette "have" several doggers, in ANY hole. The usage of condoms wasn't brought up, and as the girl was at one point leaning over a picnic table, those fucking her from behind were just "entrusted" by her to rubber up. When one fella shagged her in the arse without protection, I felt maybe I should make her discreetly aware that twenty percent of her playmates weren't using condoms. She looked at me and said "oh no, can you believe it?", then just carried on :shock: :lol:
On another website we use, a couple were advertising an intent to "show" that week in a given area. They had four replies. In the same area, and on the same website, a guy was advertising a bareback gangbang for his slut girlfriend. The interest was substantially greater, and the posts comprised of many mmmmmmmmmmm's :lol:
The high incidence of unprotected sex with complete strangers in car parks certainly suprised us..I recal watching a mate of mine with a stunningly attractive girl of about 25. The husband sidled up to me and whispered "you can spunk her if you want". Asking what "spunking" meant? He advised me she was clean, and he would have no problem with me "cumming" inside her :? I'm a watcher, not a player,so for me at least, it wasn't an issue, but it makes you wonder how many guys are put in situations where they are made to feel "uncomfortable" in their desire for safer sex, once the wheels are in motion kinda thing?
What was I going to say.....or is it possible to say anything after that.....
Oh yes, unprotected thingy.
Well, I have been part of that.
Infrequently.
More a case of being unwilling to risk a "collapse of confidence" (and other things) than a lack of self_and_otherperson safety (try to fit a rubber on the appropriate part at 10 at night, in the rain)
Fortunately, I got older and wiser, or maybe older and less interested.
Plus, having caught a case of "oral clap", I got my brain in gear. Nothing like a few weeks where your breath smells like a rotting fish carcase to engage cerebral functions.
A regular attendee at "the local layby" was The Cock Slut. Protection usually consisted of a raincoat in the wet, and little else. The reason for this, it became apparent,was to give her man something to lick out of her.....obviously this gave some guys an attack of the hand-to-mouth, but they still stood around waiting....
I note she, and he, are "in attendance" at the A43 laybys of a weekend nowadays. Along with several tvs (one asian) and sundry gay guys. Who seem to rotate allegiance.
Some things never change, they just rotate faster...
Oh yes, unprotected thingy.
Well, I have been part of that.
Infrequently.
More a case of being unwilling to risk a "collapse of confidence" (and other things) than a lack of self_and_otherperson safety (try to fit a rubber on the appropriate part at 10 at night, in the rain)
Fortunately, I got older and wiser, or maybe older and less interested.
Plus, having caught a case of "oral clap", I got my brain in gear. Nothing like a few weeks where your breath smells like a rotting fish carcase to engage cerebral functions.
A regular attendee at "the local layby" was The Cock Slut. Protection usually consisted of a raincoat in the wet, and little else. The reason for this, it became apparent,was to give her man something to lick out of her.....obviously this gave some guys an attack of the hand-to-mouth, but they still stood around waiting....
I note she, and he, are "in attendance" at the A43 laybys of a weekend nowadays. Along with several tvs (one asian) and sundry gay guys. Who seem to rotate allegiance.
Some things never change, they just rotate faster...
Warming the Bed
This is possibly the most intelligent and interesting read on this site and most others like it!
The problem with all this is men’s inability to control their brain once the cock stiffens and interferes with the logic bit.
I am a guy, I love dogging but the sheer number of guys at sites compared to the number of couples does intimidate me and I too have seen cosy little cliques at most of them. These cliques (as with all male gangs) have a leader or two who in normal circumstance wouldn’t be anyone most folk with mix with.
This activity is going to die a death soon. Good, discreet locations are running out, good honest people (both cpls and guys) seem to be running out as they opt to stay at home for fun or go to clubs for fear of intimidation, the medias portrait of dogging and doggers as perverts of the worst kind, increased police activity as a consequence of the public hysteria from the media and fucking chav teenagers who spoilt my first attempt with my gf last night.
Sites like this help and stifle the fun in equal measure so it’s a paradox we type here how great and or bad it all is, whilst still loving every moment when we find an attractive cpl who want you to watch them fuck!
Bit off the original topic, but I feel better for having said it!
G
The problem with all this is men’s inability to control their brain once the cock stiffens and interferes with the logic bit.
I am a guy, I love dogging but the sheer number of guys at sites compared to the number of couples does intimidate me and I too have seen cosy little cliques at most of them. These cliques (as with all male gangs) have a leader or two who in normal circumstance wouldn’t be anyone most folk with mix with.
This activity is going to die a death soon. Good, discreet locations are running out, good honest people (both cpls and guys) seem to be running out as they opt to stay at home for fun or go to clubs for fear of intimidation, the medias portrait of dogging and doggers as perverts of the worst kind, increased police activity as a consequence of the public hysteria from the media and fucking chav teenagers who spoilt my first attempt with my gf last night.
Sites like this help and stifle the fun in equal measure so it’s a paradox we type here how great and or bad it all is, whilst still loving every moment when we find an attractive cpl who want you to watch them fuck!
Bit off the original topic, but I feel better for having said it!
G
My advice is to always go safe.
That way you (and others) will be around for much longer and will be alive to enjoy the wonders of dogging and swinging for many years to cum.
For a guy the bareback thing is much better than using a condom (at the time), but one the action is over you will always have that doubt and possible regret.. which would last for more than the shag :-)
stay safe folks ...
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Always open to offers and suggestions.
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That way you (and others) will be around for much longer and will be alive to enjoy the wonders of dogging and swinging for many years to cum.
For a guy the bareback thing is much better than using a condom (at the time), but one the action is over you will always have that doubt and possible regret.. which would last for more than the shag :-)
stay safe folks ...
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Always open to offers and suggestions.
:P sorry i flicked through most of the replies on this topic safe sex has to be a priority for anyone who cares about their health even oral sex carries a risk of infection and believe me i talk from experience fortunatly it was easily treated but its made me far more carefull its a real wake up call
The only form of safe sex, is no sex.
So, the safe form of "safe sex" is not an option.
Fortunately, having received Health and Safety education, I always do a risk assessment
This of course assumes the lack of "stiff-dick" syndrome.
In the presence of said syndrome, safe sex always seems to be on the back burner.
The recent presence of two guys in "the layby", one hiv+ the other with fb aids, has focussed peoples attention of the subject.
especially as many doggers cross the line occasionally.
So, the safe form of "safe sex" is not an option.
Fortunately, having received Health and Safety education, I always do a risk assessment
This of course assumes the lack of "stiff-dick" syndrome.
In the presence of said syndrome, safe sex always seems to be on the back burner.
The recent presence of two guys in "the layby", one hiv+ the other with fb aids, has focussed peoples attention of the subject.
especially as many doggers cross the line occasionally.
You can never be too careful where health is concerned. I don't like condoms but wouldn't dream of barebacking anyone other than a regular partner or spouse.
Barebacking with strangers is risky enough, but if you know they are swingers who do bareback? its like Russian roulette only there are more bullets than empty chambers.
Barebacking with strangers is risky enough, but if you know they are swingers who do bareback? its like Russian roulette only there are more bullets than empty chambers.
As a couple we've always practiced safe with others with the exception of oral sex (which seems to be the norm), but we'd both like to do the bareback thing, especially in a group. The thought of getting Sammy filled with different loads of cum is kinda horny... Obviously the issues of std's etc bring us back to reality, but hey, we can dream... lol. Maybe one day in a perfect world... ???
You would think that more guys would think with there heads for a change and not there balls.....
Im astounded to think that anyone would go with a stranger without using a condom let alone a pregnant one!!!
These men should be ashamed of themselves, and I hope they catch everything thats going, afterall all they want is a quickie, Im not a dogger or into it, but I dont think it matters if you are or not....Safe sex is a must, especially if you are a swinger, whether you are in a club at home or in the woods...
I was at a club sometime ago, there was a gorgeous blonde that had been walking around the club alone....I saw a few guys obviously all mates eyeing her up....next she was in a room with these same guys and a load of others, touching her and taking it in turns to fuck her....none of which wore a condom!!
So it just goes to show that not only men can be very irresponsible but some women too.
I just hope that none of them gave there wives or girlfriends at home an unexpected present!!!
Keep it covered and stay safe
Im astounded to think that anyone would go with a stranger without using a condom let alone a pregnant one!!!
These men should be ashamed of themselves, and I hope they catch everything thats going, afterall all they want is a quickie, Im not a dogger or into it, but I dont think it matters if you are or not....Safe sex is a must, especially if you are a swinger, whether you are in a club at home or in the woods...
I was at a club sometime ago, there was a gorgeous blonde that had been walking around the club alone....I saw a few guys obviously all mates eyeing her up....next she was in a room with these same guys and a load of others, touching her and taking it in turns to fuck her....none of which wore a condom!!
So it just goes to show that not only men can be very irresponsible but some women too.
I just hope that none of them gave there wives or girlfriends at home an unexpected present!!!
Keep it covered and stay safe
Sex God
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We can't believe that 80 (as of now) people have voted to have unsafe sex with strangers. This poll has made us very wary of meeting anyone off this site. Pity there is no way to see who has said they prefer unsafe sex.
like this site is different to any others ffs, if you really think there is a difference between peoples attitudes here to safe sex than any other swinging site wise up now.
Quote by wild rose and the stag
We can't believe that 80 (as of now) people have voted to have unsafe sex with strangers. This poll has made us very wary of meeting anyone off this site. Pity there is no way to see who has said they prefer unsafe sex.
like this site is different to any others ffs, if you really think there is a difference between peoples attitudes here to safe sex than any other swinging site wise up now.
Not saying this site is any different to others. Maybe we are a little bit "naive" for being surprised that so many people would risk unprotected sex in this day and age. But we choose not to play russian roulette with our lives and health, what you choose to do is up to you.
How can anyone even consider going bareback, with complete strangers i presume, as its a 6/8 guy thing, when you have sex with someone unprotected, you are also having sex with everyone they have had sex with, and so on and so on. Its irresponsible anyway, but even more so when there is a baby at risk. Wake up to reality for gods sake
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Sex God
Quote by m-s
We can't believe that 80 (as of now) people have voted to have unsafe sex with strangers. This poll has made us very wary of meeting anyone off this site. Pity there is no way to see who has said they prefer unsafe sex.
like this site is different to any others ffs, if you really think there is a difference between peoples attitudes here to safe sex than any other swinging site wise up now.
Not saying this site is any different to others. Maybe we are a little bit "naive" for being surprised that so many people would risk unprotected sex in this day and age. But we choose not to play russian roulette with our lives and health, what you choose to do is up to you.
Quote by m-s
We can't believe that 80 (as of now) people have voted to have unsafe sex with strangers. This poll has made us very wary of meeting anyone off this site. Pity there is no way to see who has said they prefer unsafe sex.
It's a poll asking about preference, so whilst 80 people might prefer bareback it doesn't prove that 80 people are having unprotected sex. Or any sex at all
Quote by Serendipity
We can't believe that 80 (as of now) people have voted to have unsafe sex with strangers. This poll has made us very wary of meeting anyone off this site. Pity there is no way to see who has said they prefer unsafe sex.
It's a poll asking about preference, so whilst 80 people might prefer bareback it doesn't prove that 80 people are having unprotected sex. Or any sex at all
:lol: Thats correct.......maybe we have been charging off in the wrong direction on our very high horse.
