Black/White social – Chams, Feb Friday 13th

6 Jan 2009

The Black Guys for White Fems room on server 3 will be having a social get-together on Friday the 13th of February at Chameleons. This is an open invitation to all room regulars. Most, if not all you would have heard about previous socials. Those known in the room that would like to attend, will be added to the list automatically. The rest will need to be verified by known members.
Please note that this is a get-together for ladies, couples and black guys. Keep that in mind when you decide to reply to this post.
As this is the closest Friday to Valentines Day, the club is likely to be very busy, so get your names down as early as possible. If you are not already a member of Chameleons, you will only be able to attend if your name is included in our list.
Entrance fees are as follows:
Costs for couples before is £20 after £25
Single ladies £5
Single gents £30
Non members with your party, single gents £35.
UPDATE!
The following was contained in an e-mail I received from one of the site moderators.
"Don't forget to edit the first post to say that non-members of the site would be on the invite list and that you are willing to provide names of those attending to anyone who asks."

6 Jan 2009

hiya
were going this night so you can add us to the list please
thanks jo and lee x

6 Jan 2009

Can you add me to the list too please as hoping to be there.

6 Jan 2009

:P You know I'll be there hun!

7 Jan 2009

gingerjo-lee,
redgirlmanc,
Mememe20065 kiss

,
your names have been added. biggrin

7 Jan 2009

Can I be on the list please.
Single male already with membership at chams.
thanks
Ian

7 Jan 2009

OK Ian, it's done.

7 Jan 2009

can u put us down as a possible plez

7 Jan 2009

Oh... chams socail on the thursday... and one on the friday...
if you could put my name do i'd like to join ya all.

7 Jan 2009

pumkin16542, your names have been added.
Jiggle, I have no idea who you are, sorry. After looking at your pics, I'm wondering why you would want to attend this particular social.
If you can find someone I know to verify you, your name will be added.

7 Jan 2009

Quote by Lawr
pumkin16542, your names have been added.
Jiggle, I have no idea who you are, sorry. After looking at your pics, I'm wondering why you would want to attend this particular social.
If you can find someone I know to verify you, your name will be added.

the reason WHY i put my name down was because i have been to many of the SH socails at chams, and they have always been a good evening. as i find its nice to go and get to know new people from the site. i am rather offended though that you have commented that you are suprised i would want to go.. just by looking at my Pics, if you was to read my profile it does clearly stat that i enjoy the SOCIAL side of the scene.
and on that note, i think i'll give that night a miss..

7 Jan 2009

Quote by Lawr
pumkin16542, your names have been added.
Jiggle, I have no idea who you are, sorry. After looking at your pics, I'm wondering why you would want to attend this particular social.
If you can find someone I know to verify you, your name will be added.

thank u for adding me hun xxx

7 Jan 2009

Quote by Jiggle
pumkin16542, your names have been added.
Jiggle, I have no idea who you are, sorry. After looking at your pics, I'm wondering why you would want to attend this particular social.
If you can find someone I know to verify you, your name will be added.

the reason WHY i put my name down was because i have been to many of the SH socails at chams, and they have always been a good evening. as i find its nice to go and get to know new people from the site. i am rather offended though that have commented that you are supprised i would want to go.. just by looking at my Pics, if you was to read my profile it does clearly stat that i enjoy the SOCAIL side of the scene.
and on that note, i think i'll give that night a miss..
Yeah im not bein funny but u guys stated room regulars, so wether its a black guy white fem room, there are still white men that go in and also ill be attending the club on that night when i dont really fancy black guys to be honest. so does that count us out? ?????

8 Jan 2009

hi we are not chat room regulars, but can you add us to the list too (providing Mr Domino can time off work)

8 Jan 2009

Quote by Lawr
Jiggle, I have no idea who you are, sorry. After looking at your pics, I'm wondering why you would want to attend this particular social.
If you can find someone I know to verify you, your name will be added.

Bet if jiggle had an ops hat on he would have gone straight on the list :giggle: wonder if optix would? :giggle:

8 Jan 2009

Dare I comment?

8 Jan 2009

Oh Jiggle, look at what you've gone and started!!! I'll make no more comment on your reply except to say, READ everything I have written! I have been quite specific at to who the social is aimed at for obvious reasons.
FoxyChick83, thank you for your input ...... I think. Again I'll repeat READ!! And no, you are not being funny, just plain provocative. If you do not fancy black guys, why would you want to be part of this social?
It's an open invitation to room regulars, because I've met most of them personally at socials. Those that I have not yet met, I've seen enough of in the room to convince me they are genuine.
domino_2, your names will be added as soon as I receive official verification, till then I'll just pencil you in.
two-4-more, wrong! Having an ops hat on would have made no difference. I'm following instructions from the club. I am providing a list of people attending as part of this particular social. I will not add ANYONE I do not personally know, unless I have received verification from someone I know and trust.
Chameleons is open as usual so anyone who wants to attend is free to do so. But, if you are not currently a member of the club and you wish to attend as part of the social I am trying to organise, you will need to be verified. If the ops have a problem with that, then so be it.
Can I finish of by saying that someone I know verified Jiggle last night and his name was added. The verification was done by e-mail, so I felt the polite thing to do was to reply by e-mail.
Capt Ahabs ............ get lost! lol

8 Jan 2009

Please can little old me come? Rooms booked ready to party!!!!!
Thank you lawr and mememe for organising this, I love these nites xxxxxxx

8 Jan 2009

Ohhhh ya can feel the electricity in this here thread!!!!!!! Hello Law :sparring:

8 Jan 2009

Quote by Lawr
pumkin16542, your names have been added.
Jiggle, I have no idea who you are, sorry. After looking at your pics, I'm wondering why you would want to attend this particular social.
If you can find someone I know to verify you, your name will be added.

can we just say that jiggle is one hell of a guy,one of the best your likely to meet off here..suppose weve just verified him lol...lawr we'd have loved to have come but were gonna be busy..will have to catch up another time x

8 Jan 2009

Poor jiggle, I know him hes a nice bloke!!
witty

8 Jan 2009

As jiggle has over 400 posts and yet Lawr less than twenty, I think that maybe he could be seen as more 'genuine' than you Lawr dunno

Anyway, I am really struggling as to get my head round the need to fancy a black bloke here. Ian (him in doors) has been to a black for white social because because he is known by many chatters, and Ian is very much a white bloke. Stop making it so much about colour, it should be about people having fun and getting to know each other rolleyes

After all, this is advertised as a social, not a shag-a-thon :thumbup:
Oh and please respect each others privacy and take your verifications private :thumbup:

8 Jan 2009

oooppppsssssss lol

8 Jan 2009

can you add me (thevills) and foxylady to the list please

8 Jan 2009

Oh Jiggle, look at what you've gone and started!!! I'll make no more comment on your reply except to say, READ everything I have written! I have been quite specific at to who the social is aimed at for obvious reasons.
two-4-more, wrong! Having an ops hat on would have made no difference. I'm following instructions from the club. I am providing a list of people attending as part of this particular social. I will not add ANYONE I do not personally know, unless I have received verification from someone I know and trust.
Yup and yet there is no difference between jiggle and ian, both white males, last time i looked neither one was bi so neither would necesserily be interested in any male let alone black, white or green with yellow spots... as far as i can see both just want to attend for the social aspect and yet your quite happy to let the op go, but were offended and didn't think jiggle should attend! Btw i dont think there are too many genuine users on here who would not know that jiggle is a genuine guy who loves the social side of the site has been on the site longer then we have and in fact almost as long as you!
FoxyChick83, thank you for your input ...... I think. Again I'll repeat READ!! And no, you are not being funny, just plain provocative. If you do not fancy black guys, why would you want to be part of this social?
Finally you can be right on something, looking at her profile i would agree quite provocative! :giggle: :giggle:

8 Jan 2009

Quote by Dawnie
As jiggle has over 400 posts and yet Lawr less than twenty, I think that maybe he could be seen as more 'genuine' than you Lawr
Anyway, I am really struggling as to get my head round the need to fancy a black bloke here. Ian (him in doors) has been to a black for white social because because he is known by many chatters, and Ian is very much a white bloke. Stop making it so much about colour, it should be about people having fun and getting to know each other
After all, this is advertised as a social, not a shag-a-thon :thumbup:
Oh and please respect each others privacy and take your verifications private :thumbup:

Just a couple of things I'm confused about:
1) Does number of postings prove an individuals legitimacy/ability to organise a social, much less "suitability" to the social? (ie, Jiggle's 400 to Lawr's 20? If so might as well let Jiggle organise the social then, even though, no offence, I doubt he ever set foot in the BlackGuys4Fems room?)
2) The "need to fancy a black bloke" has always been the theme/nature/preference of the room and the ladies that have become known to be regulars of the room (likewise, the black guys that attend the room also) - hence the social bringing these people who share the same interest together. Its not strictly about colour, but about preference - you wouldn't find me debating a "right" to attend a Bi/Gay/CD/TV room social if I have no interest in the preference of the room whatsoever. As far as Ian being invited to the social, I would suspect its simply because he, a notable number of other Ops/Mods as well as other SH members (for example, DebbieAndyEssex) whilst neither being black have always assisted the room to maintain order as well as its socials. Again, sympathising with Jiggle (unless I am mistaken) is unknown to most people who regularly visit and interact in that room. It has not been an issue in the past as has been run past admins by myself and given the seal of approval, as this is not the first, second nor third social, so I don't see why it should inviting controversy now.
3) About it being a social and not a shag-a-thon, well, I was almost certain that munches were "no hanky panky" whereas socials could take any form depending how organised, and in the past (as the risk of outing people) there HAS been lots of playing taking place (sometimes, within an hour of entry till almost following morning when Chams staff have had to drag some out of the playrooms as the place was closing). My guess is anyone not there supporting the theme of the room runs the risk of being left sitting like billy-no-mates (sometimes, even if they WERE black - hence why verification BY A ROOM REGULAR is usually requested)
I really can't see what the problem is here - unless ofcourse it suggests Lawr (who is a known REGULAR member of the BlackGuys4Fems room for several years, irrespective of his number of posts) hence has to make the social open to ALL of SH, irrespective of what theme or preference or reason the people attending want to come .. but it would make for a darn cheap way to get into Chams without membership for a fair few.
It should also be noted that the issue of whether

8 Jan 2009

to all the comments being made, when i read the reply to me i did read it as i thought it was wrote...
lawr explained the reasons explained why he posted the reply to me... and probably on both parts it was miss communicated... which i have accepted. and sorry if i did cause offecne to anyone.
now.. i didn't post my reply to start a debate. or to great an angry mod style thread and i for one would hate if, if it was me that put a black cloud over this socail so if we could draw a line under it here. as anyone who is thinking of attending this socail now reads the thread, they may think twice.. and i for one don't want to be the cause of people thinking like that.
anyway... for those that do attend the socail, i hope you all have a good night.

8 Jan 2009

Hiya Jiggle,
Am sure no offence was intended, but sometimes with these things (ie, an issue potentially involving "race") people have to be careful with choices of words used: too strong and its quickly branded racist, in this case, too soft and a completely wrong idea is taken.
I personally feel in no way is the social supposed to suggest "You're not welcome", but merely more of "you realise the theme right?", hence my example to the Bi/Gay/CD/TV room.
I also (personally) don't think there was a question about your legitimacy, chin up mate.
Now, back to the party .... smile

8 Jan 2009

we never said it was a question of race merely that an op was accepted without questioning his reasoning behind attending where as a normal member had the validity of his genuinality and reason for attending questioned.

8 Jan 2009

Hey
This is a black/white meet.
Can we lighten the whole thing up?
If you are a black man who would like to meet white women, or a white woman/couple who is looking for fun with a black man, then sign up for the party!!!!!!