maybe the people who fit the criteria for your meet from this site are all busy with meets that have been arranged in advance. we have an event advertised on here and another site, we have 63 people from off here saying they will attend and only 8 from the other site. its all swings and roundabouts really.
Did you use the photo ads as well? I ask because I think (IMO) more members trawl the adverts and less look in the LMU forum.
Guys.
Dont think for one min your unattractive cause your not. If you lived closer to us I'm sure we'd have fun week in, week out.
There is ALOT of time wasters and morons here but I'm afraid they are everywhere.
Keep smiling!
L&G xx.
I think maybe its because we are respectful, and read ads and profiles. I find yourself attractive and fairly local, and wouild love chance to meet....but I am a bit of a wuss, and not into pain to much, and so didn't reply myself as I didn't feel I fitted the criteria. Your ad is very good and tells us what exactly you look for and therfore if we don't fit criterea we dont reply. Hopefully this saves you time weeding out the replies from guys that are just trying their luck.
You're a long way away from me but with adequate time to organise it, I'd certainly love to meet you two. I didn't contact you yet as I wouldn't be free until later in September.
i would love to meet up with you as well and im willing to travel and can accom but didint post because some people prefer closer to there home. dont worry about the attractiveness because that is certainly not a problem x
Thanks to everyone for the nice comments and advice, we understand what you are saying and we know that the big thing against us when seeking couples is the age gap, if we were both in our 50s we would do fine, if we were both in our late 20s we would do fine but we aren't and we know that is the biggest reason for couples not wanting to meet us, this we understand and accept, but come on, 1.3 million members, 6 years on site, available 24/7, can accommodate advertise available on the 24 hours list everyday, update our advert 3-4 times a day (sounding desperate aren't we) use the chatrooms occasionally, use the forums, and we could only find one couple interested in coming to a party (then didn't turn up on the night) let alone get a private meet, there has to be something in what I am saying.
Lying in a profile surely not, giggles very true though but we have many ways of doing our best to make sure we dont play with cheats, each to thier own, they have the choice to cheat though we do wonder why they choose to use swingers site to do it when there are so many "married and cheating" sites that welcome the practice (some even ban swingers who are not cheating"
Surely they would get a better response on such sites, some people like to meet cheats because they believe they are likely to be more discreet or less likely to be "clingons" etc.
My pet hate is when thier profile says "wife doesn't know I swing but at least I am honest" be honest with your wife not us she deserves your honesty
You have been critising but when someone does send you a message you do not even open it. If this is the way for everyone that sends you a message then how are you to meet anyone off this site anyway. Im not saying you would meet me, but you have been having ago about various things but then dont have the decency to open the mail and say no thanks. I have been swinging as a couple and as a single and always replied even if it was to say no thanks although i know this is cetainly not the case on here with 99% of the members (thanks to the couple of members who have replied). I hope you find what you looking for because you are a good looking couple but manners are a 2 way thing. Yes i know there are alot of 'liers' out there and this makes it harder for the genuine ones who are here for the right reasons and if you are turned down, you respect the decision. Good luck and i hope a few idiots and lack of replies havent turned you off sh. just an after thought, maybe they thought you were too good looking and didnt want to get turned down again so didnt send you a message.
That is a damning statement for one who does not have access to my account, how could you possibly know if we open mails or not ? you yourself have never sent us a mail, I checked my inbox back to oct 09 and have never recieved one from you.
We always open our mails and always reply, politely and respectfully in the positive or negative.
When you send someone a message, if you go into your sent mail folder it tells you if they have opened the message or not.