Hello there,
Long time reader, occasional poster...
Just wondering if the world turns in strange enough circles that there are single females who want a partner or ouples who wish to play and actually take notice of this forum...
I certainly hope this is the case, and if so, that you are open enough to reply to me; if not, have fun and stay as shy as I am...
there are
and we do meet single guys - trouble is there is not a mention of where you are from - always helps if you want to meet
yes we do if they can put some thing about them selfs up
and not send cock shots
2s
It does happen but expect to have to put a lot of effort into it before reaping any rewards. Keep going and every now and again a little gem will come up ;)
It can be demoralising at times but stick to it. The worse thing is when you do get contacted and start up an email conversation then the thing just dies for no reason.
when i was a single it was only single guys i met and they have all been off this site.
i do agree with Shireen though, its just as bloody hard as a couple as there has to be 3 or 4 of you that have to click not just 2, saying you can find anyone.
Earthy xx
Another response to the original question: YES.
I had better say yes too :giggle:
I am only interested in single guys, as my partner is strictly a watcher..................but I don't do one-on-one meets.
Even though our profile says 'No Singles' - we do occasionally meet singles, but these have to be quite special.
By special, we mean that they have taken the time to chat and get to know us a little.
The majority will not get past the first stage, due to pushiness, arrogance and rudeness and generally behaving as if they are doing us a favour.
The one liner will not work with us, nor will the whisper - these are discounted straight away.
The other category that lets singles down, with us anyway (couples do this also) You have a nice first chat, begin to think "yes, maybe" but because you have not fallen at their feet straight away, the next time they see you in chat, you dont even get a "Hi" and they have moved on to another target - this just re-iterates that our waiting was the right choice.
Hey there,
I think that this is a really interesting thread. I'm a single bi female and even as a genuine and reasonably friendly one ( I hope!) it's never that simple.
I've met a few single guys, one was great the other was fine, but it's a bit nerve wrecking the first time you do it. I think it can take a lot of courage for anyone, couple or single to build up to meeting up with a stranger in the flesh.
I think that for anyone it makes a big difference if you make the effort to get to know the other people a bit before going in for the 'kill' as it were.
I haven't yet reached the stage where I've met up with a couple, simply because I've not established a sufficiently strong connection - and to be honest I havent' looked that hard. I've had a look at the adds mostly and good god they can be intimidating, they're all a bit random and someone displaying their cock - well is likely to be one!!
I think that the chat rooms are interesting but it's a bit off-putting to be bombarded with whispers when you kind of want to just get involved in a bit of banter. I think that having a lot more about yourself as a person in the add will get you a long way with anyone 'normal'. This is rather ironic coming from me as my profile is rather barren - the last fella I met up with told me he was convinced I was a man.. what am I doing wrong!!!
Any hoo - any advice on my ramblings and a good way to go about meeting a sexy friendly couple while on the site would be appreciated.
Amber x
so have a good one all of you and hope to speak and meet later... 
and a good chat...