It's been suggested a singles only social meet might be a good idea. So before anythings arraned I'd like to sound you out, see how much genuine interest there is.
As a single woman not looking for couples its sometimes hard to start talking to a man at a social only to find he has a wife/partner. I really dont want anyone else's guy so maybe it would be easier to know that everyone who attended is available for meets as a single.
Would be open to Straight, Bi, Gay. Any single would be welcome.
So, what do you think?... Would you attend??
MINXIE xx
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Only drawback I can see is that a LOT of single guys have partners who either don't know they are on here or don't know that the guys meet without them minxie 
Sounds a great idea....... except for those singles who are really attached/married/with someone blah blah blah and dont say on their profiles!!!!
Which is a shame, cos its a good idea!
And then you might have couples wanting to come and then complain that they arent allowed....
If you could pull if off, I'd come if I can...if you know what i mean!! :lol2:
Best of luck though xx
Which is a shame, cos its a good idea!
And then you might have couples wanting to come and then complain that they arent allowed....
If you could pull if off, I'd come if I can...if you know what i mean!! :lol2:
Best of luck though xx
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Quote by anais
those singles who are really attached/married/with someone blah blah blah and dont say on their profiles!!!!
Did I not just say that young lady
:lol:Quote by anais
If you could pull if off, I'd come if I can...if you know what i mean!! :lol2:
Best of luck though xx
And if she could pull it off you wouldn't have to go ffs she could just post it to you :lol:
Sex God
I (the most munchophobic of munchophobics) just might be tempted to dip my toe in the water for this idea if it became a reality.
Warming the Bed
Depending upon where and when, I would certainly consider it. If invited, of course.
Thanks for taking the initiative!
Thanks for taking the initiative!
Quote by woohoo
Only drawback I can see is that a LOT of single guys have partners who either don't know they are on here or don't know that the guys meet without them minxie
I fully understand about this risk & unfortunately there ARE plenty of guys AND girls that do this, just as they do in vanilla world. It is a risk Im prepared to take tho for the majority of genuine singles who may stand a chance of meeting likewise singles or regular swinging partners.
I would also HOPE that the majority of 'secret' singles would have difficulty spending a whole weekend evening without their partner so not apply attend.
But if there was enough interest here I would state to please respect the singles rule for this social as there are many other 'unrestricted' socials to attend.
All I could do is try to rely on the respect and honesty of those wishing to attend... And hope for the best.
So... on that note... Are you interested peeps?
Minxie xx
Sex God
Quote by redwine_lover
Great idea....would love to come..fully understand where u are comin g from....hope it comes off
suggestion...why not make it in birmingham/coventry area so thats its central for most people......just a thought..
speak for your bloody self....
:lol: :lol: :lol: I think it should be in newcastle so i don't have to bloody travel the length of the country for a change!!!!
:D :D kidding....seriously...hopefully it comes off, If the dates are ones that I am free then I would love to come along....
Sex God
Quote by fabio
Great idea....would love to come..fully understand where u are comin g from....hope it comes off
suggestion...why not make it in birmingham/coventry area so thats its central for most people......just a thought..
speak for your bloody self....
:lol: :lol: :lol: I think it should be in newcastle so i don't have to bloody travel the length of the country for a change!!!!
:D :D kidding....seriously...hopefully it comes off, If the dates are ones that I am free then I would love to come along....
OI!!!!!!!!!!
Never mind you 2!!
What about me all the way near Blackpool who DOESN'T drive???? :lol:
I too think its a great idea
Quote by Lilmiss
Great idea....would love to come..fully understand where u are comin g from....hope it comes off
suggestion...why not make it in birmingham/coventry area so thats its central for most people......just a thought..
speak for your bloody self....
:lol: :lol: :lol: I think it should be in newcastle so i don't have to bloody travel the length of the country for a change!!!!
:D :D kidding....seriously...hopefully it comes off, If the dates are ones that I am free then I would love to come along....
OI!!!!!!!!!!
Never mind you 2!!
What about me all the way near Blackpool who DOESN'T drive???? :lol:
I too think its a great idea
just find a mug*/victim*/friend* or relative* (*delete as applicable) to take you.......hahahahaha
on a serious note, personally think its a fun idea...but with the breakdown of people on this site, i am sure the single male response will prob outnumber the single fem response big time....
Orgasminator
I'm all for new ideas, so you have my full support and attendance for this one!
Sex God
I agree, for this event (if it happens) be really really REALLY !
only problem i see with this....is the ration of men to women....i can see it being at least 25:1.. now you ladies might not see that as a problem...but have to say..I think i would..lol
Orgasminator
Quote by deancannock
only problem i see with this....is the ration of men to women....i can see it being at least 25:1.. now you ladies might not see that as a problem...but have to say..I think i would..lol
I'm sure the singles night will be ratio'd as other socials and munches are.
Sex God
Official Munches arent ratio'd in any way..
Its a first come first served basis.
Its a first come first served basis.
Orgasminator
Quote by Mallock2006
Official Munches arent ratio'd in any way..
Its a first come first served basis.
My Mistake, Socials then.
might try chaotic.....but to be honest....we know from being around here.... there are alot more single guys looking for women...than single women looking for men.... thats just life...but would make a social dificult to organise
Sex God
If its going to be a social then I'm certain the organiser can invite who they please so they can sort a happy balance of male and female..
If organised correctly it'll work well and be a good night :thumbup:
If organised correctly it'll work well and be a good night :thumbup:
Orgasminator
At the socials I organise a lot of single females come with single guys. They are both single, have singles profiles, but come as a couple and tend to stay as a 'singles couple'
Quote by Try2
At the socials I organise a lot of single females come with single guys. They are both single, have singles profiles, but come as a couple and tend to stay as a 'singles couple'
Im all for travelling together..saves money n helps each other... as long as each are available as a single person or it could cause annimosity if an interested party, made that interest clear, but they wern't available.
And as for ratio--- more men eh? :grin: bring it on!
Seriously tho, if I were to organise one I would keep tabs on that--and make sure all the fit guys came :grin:
Dont panic peeps, I will keep track xxx
Minxie xx
Sex God
Quote by Chaotic_Spirit
Official Munches arent ratio'd in any way..
Its a first come first served basis.
My Mistake, Socials then.
Can I just add as another point of reference, that in the 3 years of munches I have been too, there have never been one where the singles have outnumbered the couples, so there never been any need to ratio or quota the number of people going....
there has always been a happy mix of everyone going...
I hope it does work... nice to see someone making an effort
Orgasminator
Quote by Ms_minxie
.... I would keep tabs on that--and make sure all the fit guys came :grin:
well that me out the running then...
but good idea for the lucky ones
Orgasminator
Quote by Try2
.... I would keep tabs on that--and make sure all the fit guys came :grin:
well that me out the running then...
but good idea for the lucky onesI think it should be arranged on the basis of first come first served, Minxie idea of fit may not be to everyones taste.
Also i think it should be arranged in colour codes, ie, different colour badges for what your looking for. Red could be used for singles looking for straight liasons. Blue for bi and Yellow for gay. I know thats using labels, which i know for a fact i'm going to be drawn and quartered for, but i would also be interested in the single women as well as men at this social and wouldn't want to offend or waste valued chat up lines :lol:
Now feel free to murder my post and idea, as i know some of you can't resist :lol:
Sexlightened
top idea that Spirit
i would be very interested in this
hopefully it will take off very soon
i would be very interested in this
hopefully it will take off very soon
Quote by Chaotic_Spirit
.... I would keep tabs on that--and make sure all the fit guys came :grin:
well that me out the running then...
but good idea for the lucky onesI think it should be arranged on the basis of first come first served, Minxie idea of fit may not be to everyones taste.
Also i think it should be arranged in colour codes, ie, different colour badges for what your looking for. Red could be used for singles looking for straight liasons. Blue for bi and Yellow for gay. I know thats using labels, which i know for a fact i'm going to be drawn and quartered for, but i would also be interested in the single women as well as men at this social and wouldn't want to offend or waste valued chat up lines :lol:
Now feel free to murder my post and idea, as i know some of you can't resist :lol:
Here is a radical thought, forget about causing someone unnecessary work in making different coloured badges, which will only serve to pigeonhole people who might like a bit of variety, and actually TALK to people at a social
OK, I know, I went too far...
Quote by Chaotic_Spirit
.... I would keep tabs on that--and make sure all the fit guys came :grin:
well that me out the running then...
but good idea for the lucky onesI think it should be arranged on the basis of first come first served, Minxie idea of fit may not be to everyones taste.
Also i think it should be arranged in colour codes, ie, different colour badges for what your looking for. Red could be used for singles looking for straight liasons. Blue for bi and Yellow for gay. I know thats using labels, which i know for a fact i'm going to be drawn and quartered for, but i would also be interested in the single women as well as men at this social and wouldn't want to offend or waste valued chat up lines :lol:
Now feel free to murder my post and idea, as i know some of you can't resist :lol:
I would like to point out that my quote, quoted above, WAS only meant in a joke, hence the :grin: & :rotflmao:
I would NEVER have the ordasity to think that my taste only, was important. As the bit underneath that quote says...
Don't panic guys... if this ever gets off the ground it WILL be arranged fairly for everyone.
And its weird you should mention the colours thing Chaos, that had already gone through my head but didn't want to 'label' peeps.
So maybe we could leave that up to choice on the night
Minxie xx
Orgasminator
Count me in Minxie -- Sounds like a good idea
