Hi,
Dont know if this has been discussed before, i did a search but couldnt find anything.
I am a single guy, who like others, like to play with couples.
I have now had quite a few conversations with married guys who would like to meet and "they hope to get their wife involved in the future".
Truth be told, their wives dont know they are on here and arranging meets.
Is this swinging or adultery?? what are your views and where does men dogging fit into it.
Look forward to hearing from all you peeps x
A few views here
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/281405.html?highlight=Cheating
Thanks for that. Maybe I shouldve headed it up Cheating
I'm a single guy looking for cples, str8 & bi as I'm looking to experiement with my bi side. I have been lucky and had a couple of gr8 experiences which have made it all worthwhile, but it does drive me mad how many times I've arranged meets and then it turns out the wife doesn't exist even though the profile has loads of pics of her or some other woman and that only the man can meet as the wife is away!
That is exactly my experience.
Whilst i try not to be judgemental of people, these action do make me wonder .......
More often than not when I chat to couples about meeting for fun, even when they contact me, we swap pics talk about what I'd like to do with their wife etc, but when it comes to actually meeting then it all goes quiet. I think for these people its all about the fantasy of a guy playing with their wife, they enjoy single guys perving and sending pics. I guess that's fine if that's how they add extra excitment to their sex life, but it does get frustrating when you put a lot of time and effort into the correspondence. I'm not going to moan too much about it though as it makes it all the more worthwhile when you do find the right cple.
Can I ask how can it be adultery if both parts of the couple are there? if you are a single man playing with a couple, both are fully aware (well i hope they are) of what is going on...
But a married man playing away behind his wife's back, I am not sure what that is called I guess it is adultery and I am sure a divorce could be cited for it.
Personally I am not happy playing with married men because I know how I would feel if it was done to me and I found out....
Sam x
Having been involved in previous discussions about this, and subsequently thought a bit more about it; I am more of the opinion that adultery is something which comes into effect when one half of a couple wishes to invoke divorce proceedings on their cheating partner.
Cheating does not automatically mean that you will lose your partner, they may put up with it for years. The law does not step in to put things right it is only interested in the profit in divorce proceedings.
So its cheating whilst its going on, but it becomes adultery when you and the law want to make a divorce.
I wonder why it's called Adultery when there's no such thing as "Childery"?