Ok the story
Baz was in chat and got a whisper from a couple.
It was the female half of the couple.
She asked Baz about the possibility of a meet, when Baz looked at their profile, he said "you are a tad under our age limit, her answer "We Know".
He explained the reasons for our lower age limit, her reply was "We know that too and?"
Then baz said he would talk to me about it.
Her next reply was "ffs you've got to ask her!!!"
Im sorry but in my view if a couple is looking to have a meet, both partners should be in agreement.
To say I was annoyed is an understatement.
Was I right in being annoyed?
Vicky xxx
Well, I'd have been annoyed. Her attitude completely negated your feelings and consequently alienated 50% of the very 'couple' she was asking about!
I hope she was told where to get off.
It seems to us that this is just plain rude and therefore you have every right to be annoyed. Even being new to the scene would be no excuse.
Respecting peoples boundries was always a theme that was repeated throughout when doing our research (before joining SH). If they can't accept these things when they are written in black and white then what would they be like when being told 'no' in a club/party or meet? We would want people to respect our boundries so we have to respect theirs.
Guess it's for people like that the ignore button was invented!
P&H
course ya right wadnt dare sort a meet out without her say som we were in a club in blackpool once and a cpl who were on the tv about the scene we were chatting to her in a sauna and he come in and said "you upstairs in 2 mins i sorted us a meet out" ffs she wada went mental if i said that to her
you are right to feel annoyed .this person should have just taken no for the answer .no need to explain to anyone why you don't wont to meet and in my opinion if some one say to me are mr they would speak to there partner that would be fine as a couple we play for all to enjoy not just one so i would just put it be hide u and move on .
with you on this one vicky....
Everyone has a like or dislike its not personal just a preference and if other people cant see that, then they are in the wrong place now i am of a certain age we wont play with people that are young enough to be my children (because Dave a bit younger lol ) or old enough to be our parents....also I don't like facial hair, but this is all a preference like i said and everyone's preference's should be respected!!!!
Aren't we all here for the same thing!!!!FUN
Sam xxx
yes,lve got to agree,your right to be annoyed.
It never ceases to amaze me what some people feel they can ligitmately say online to someone who is part of a couple. We had a disasterous meet with a couple last year ... she had said some stuff before we met that made me uneasy and, with hindsight, I should've gone with my instincts and cancelled the meet.
nah, she is on another planet if those are her true thoughts, so she is either one sandwich short of a picnic OR she is deliberatel;y looking to cause a row, either way, you did the right thing.
Yeah I would have been annoyed, but mainly I would have pitied her stupidity, tbh
Whilst it's right that your annoyed by this Vicky. It is also quite annoying for those of us who have either one or both of us being young(er). They just generally make it more difficult for people to take us seriously.
Aah well cest la vie!!
P&H
Well yes you have every right to be angry ..
To disrespect the other person in the couple you are hoping to meet,is well out of order,
and i know if my partner saw that on my screen ,she wouldnt be very happy at all..
That person attitude was totally out of order..
And i wonder if that person get to meet anyone from the site with that attitude..
I must say anyone with that type of attitude shouldnt be on the site..
name and shame this annoying couple
does that make any sense? i know what i mean lol
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