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make sure you are both relaxed as tension and nerves can make it painful or uncomfortable. So take your time to get in the mood.
Use plenty of lubrication, and try using a finger or a very thin anal dildo first to get your wife used to anal penetration. Then when she feels that that is comfortable, graduate up to maybe two fingers or a bigger dildo, then to penetration with your cock.
Again, use plenty of lube, and take it slow, youre not poking the fire!! Be guided by your wifes comments and reactions, as to how it feels for her, as to how fast and far to progress...
Once it feels comfortable for her, the worlds your oyster, and you can experiment with different positions for anal entry, to see which ones you get the most enjoyment from.
good luck, and be patient, if it doesnt happen first time, dont be put off, and if your wife is willing, DO try agai....above all relax and have fun trying!
Use plenty of lubrication, and try using a finger or a very thin anal dildo first to get your wife used to anal penetration. Then when she feels that that is comfortable, graduate up to maybe two fingers or a bigger dildo, then to penetration with your cock.
Again, use plenty of lube, and take it slow, youre not poking the fire!! Be guided by your wifes comments and reactions, as to how it feels for her, as to how fast and far to progress...
Once it feels comfortable for her, the worlds your oyster, and you can experiment with different positions for anal entry, to see which ones you get the most enjoyment from.
good luck, and be patient, if it doesnt happen first time, dont be put off, and if your wife is willing, DO try agai....above all relax and have fun trying!
Sex God
Don't expect to have full anal sex straightaway.
Just be VERY patient and do it in stages over time. Your wife will let you know when she's ready and to what extent, and pay special attention to her reactions. Lubrication is VERY important.
Once you've both got used to the physical feeling, it will be much easier the next time, and the time after that.
:shock:
Just be VERY patient and do it in stages over time. Your wife will let you know when she's ready and to what extent, and pay special attention to her reactions. Lubrication is VERY important.
Once you've both got used to the physical feeling, it will be much easier the next time, and the time after that.
:shock:
Sex God
Lube and plenty of it............
Plus make sure your wife is up forit and it isnot just your want / wish
Good luck
Plus make sure your wife is up forit and it isnot just your want / wish
Good luck
Sex God
Quote by Sarah
Lube and plenty of it............
Plus make sure your wife is up forit and it isnot just your want / wish
Good luck
Ouch! :shock:
hmmm, it's a no no for Jude but I quite like it both receiving and performing 
We use loads of lube and a good quality one as well. We find that the Durex Play is good and lasts unlike some whichwear off after a bit.
Also take it very slow and have lots of foreplay, not just concentrating on the bottom but everywhere, work up to it, once inserted (finger) leave it for a little bit for her to get used to it then gently work deeper. Don't pull out and plunge back in again like on the porn films, that takes years of practice
We use loads of lube and a good quality one as well. We find that the Durex Play is good and lasts unlike some whichwear off after a bit.
Also take it very slow and have lots of foreplay, not just concentrating on the bottom but everywhere, work up to it, once inserted (finger) leave it for a little bit for her to get used to it then gently work deeper. Don't pull out and plunge back in again like on the porn films, that takes years of practice
Sex God
Quote by nsamick69
my wife wants to try anal for the first time, can anyone give us some advice please ?
I've got a feck off big strap on I can lend her :giggle:
What
Sex God
On a more serious note. Don't even try this with her unless she is completely relaxed and extremely turned on to start with. Loads of lube and very gently does it. I found that a little bit of passionate whispering in my ear by my husband very quickly did the trick 
Quote by firelizard
On a more serious note. Don't even try this with her unless she is completely relaxed and extremely turned on to start with. Loads of lube and very gently does it. I found that a little bit of passionate whispering in my ear by my husband very quickly did the trick
passionate whispering ??? Yeah right. Stormy is a 'are you ready? great I am starting ........now' kinda guy. Don't try and tell us he has a softer side. It just won't wash.
splendid
Quote by splendid_
On a more serious note. Don't even try this with her unless she is completely relaxed and extremely turned on to start with. Loads of lube and very gently does it. I found that a little bit of passionate whispering in my ear by my husband very quickly did the trick
passionate whispering ??? Yeah right. Stormy is a 'are you ready? great I am starting ........now' kinda guy. Don't try and tell us he has a softer side. It just won't wash.
splendid
Stormy Whispers........Brace yer self Bridget in Splendids ear....
Sex God
Quote by Bonedigger
youre not poking the fire!!
Sorry just had a vision :giggle:
Sex God
Quote by Bonedigger
make sure you are both relaxed as tension and nerves can make it painful or uncomfortable. So take your time to get in the mood.
Use plenty of lubrication, and try using a finger or a very thin anal dildo first to get your wife used to anal penetration. Then when she feels that that is comfortable, graduate up to maybe two fingers or a bigger dildo, then to penetration with your cock.
Again, use plenty of lube, and take it slow, youre not poking the fire!! Be guided by your wifes comments and reactions, as to how it feels for her, as to how fast and far to progress...
Once it feels comfortable for her, the worlds your oyster, and you can experiment with different positions for anal entry, to see which ones you get the most enjoyment from.
good luck, and be patient, if it doesnt happen first time, dont be put off, and if your wife is willing, DO try agai....above all relax and have fun trying!
No he most certainly is not!!!!! :shock:
Sex God
Its not a game of poker then I take it?
:twisted:
:twisted:
Sex God
Quote by Warmer
Its not a game of poker then I take it?
:twisted:
no more of a game of poke her
what?
Sex God
Quote by markz
tell her to go clean out the bourneville selection tube first.....
:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: sorry, that one got me funnybone
Sex God
Quote by A+D
thanks for the advice guys and girls finger and anal dildo are working just fine at the moment we are now wortking up up to inserting my penis thanks.
I just gotta ask....
are you doing this as you type?
:twisted:
Now this I've GOT to see!
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