Excuse me.
I know Brighton quite well, I occasionally "winter" in upper-portslade, the situation down there is not representative of the UK.
Quite simply, most people are bored with it down there, it's too "in yer face" (nice time in the pride event though....30 june 'til 6 august next year)....oh, and the gay clubs and pubs are frequented by straight girls because they get a better night, without being bothered by the "Hi luv, I've got a bellyful and want to empty my sac" type of tosser....that doesn't mean that wandering about hand-in-hand with your same sex boyfriend is going to go unnoticed or un-commented....the same rules apply....watch your back (no pun)
In other areas of Britain wearing a pink ribbon will get your face re-arranged very quickly.
Accepted ?
Yeah....
"A 1998 survey of 202 lesbian, gay and bisexual Londoners aged 16 to 25 - conducted by GALOP (the gay London police monitoring group) - found that 47 percent had been attacked by queer bashers and 84 percent had suffered homophobic threats or abuse.
But only 19 percent of the victims reported the attack to the police, and only one-third of those said the officers were supportive. Thirteen percent found the police to be homophobic and hostile towards them.
These survey results highlight the anti-gay attitudes that still persist, even in a relatively liberal force like the Metropolitan Police. They help explain why so many lesbians and gay men lack confidence in the police and why, as a consequence, so much homophobic crime goes unreported - despite monitoring schemes being now well established in most major cities.
A study of over 4,000 lesbian, gay and bisexual people -published by the gay lobby group Stonewall in 1996 - found that in the previous five years:
* 34 percent of gay men and 24 percent of lesbians had been beaten up by queer-bashers
* 32 percent had experienced harassment, such as threats, graffiti, vandalism or blackmail
* 73 percent had been subjected to homophobic taunts or abuse "
Try googling "gay violence"
Are but is newcastle indicitive of the UK due to its "hard as girders" attitude....
Heck even when its -20 the blokes still go out in t-shirts... not like the rest of the UK where once its 0 degrees the blokes all wear jackets and laugh at the women in skimpy clothes hugging their arms to their bodys trying to keep warm, yet still trying to attract the sexual attention of the men lauging thinking "dizzy mare", lol.
When i was swinging as a couple, My wife told me she'd wanted to see me with another man for a while. i allways said no! but then one day i felt a hand on my balls and new it wasnt hers. i let it go and enjoyed the experience. Since then i enjoy sucking Cock as much as licking clit. Though i would never meet a single male on his own, but i enjoy the intimacy you can get as a FMM action. licking Clit whilst theres a cock up there. So i have changed to bi since i started and no probs with it. So if theres any bi couples in the Leeds LS14 area ???????
im with you.....i havent ever met a single guy on his own....much prefer to do M -m with a woman watching/helping
With me: its more a case of feeling more relaxed with a girl or a couple. I know im probably wrong but i feel that if i met a guy on his own there is so much expectation that something would definately have to happen..........whereas with a girl or a cpl i seem to feel that i have some control over the situation......
I cant say ive ever had a bad meeting with a guy 1-1 because i havent done it. Its just a case of what i feel it might be like.........
What you have to watch for is that (and ive seen a guy do this...) is that the hornier they get the more likely they are to do things with a guy. But then when they blow their load - they freak out and feel rotten.....and then the whole 3some or moresome grinds to a halt as the guy spends ages winging about how he doesnt like what he did..
thats why (right or wrong) i wouldnt ever meet a guy who was bi-curious....as those are more likely to freak out.........
i was once in a 3some, and when the guy came he just stormed out the room, his wife came back a while later saying that "he doesnt feel right" and the whole damn thing ground to a halt............I know that its a risk we all take with groups and meetings but still a pain in the butt though isnt it....
I got through my "Curious" faze a few years ago, and am now in the happy position of enjoying both sexes, I wouldn't walk down the high street hand in hand, because I would not feel comfortable, in a private group situation (and that includes clubs, 3somes or parties) I will let passion take its course. I think (IMHO) that most men have thought about it and wondered....... some will try and others won't Thats life that is!
I prefer a female to be around because it can take the pressure off nervous guys, I suppose it is a feeling of "I have touched this guy and just to remember I am masculine I am going to touch this gal as well so there ! :P " personally it is just the feeling of different flesh. A good suck or sucking goes a long way.
P.S! all offers considered providing my busy schedule allows.
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.. i am soooo looking forward to it 
