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Hi all can anyone male or fem put my wife straight on being big size 22-24 and has rather large legs so cant wear stockings! And it gets her down seeing a lot of slimmer and even not so slim wearing them I along with other guys like bigger ladies BUT she has a thing about being too big for guys I say its ok being big and would hope others thik so too, I ask can anyone put her mind at rest.
Any ladys (no not for me) send her pics to make her see see is not TOO big (please bear in mind she is very str8) Thanks guys and girls James
I'm sure you will find a great many lovers of the larger lady on this site and others.
no worries
lp
I no of ladies larger than your wife who wear stockings or hold ups and plenty do love the larger lady ebay does a good range for larger sizes
There are loads of larger ladies / and thin ones on this site. :twisted:
Some men / women like larger ladies some like thin ones. :P
Stockings like tankinky has said are available in all sizes off the well knwn auction site, in all sorts of colours / styles / patterns as well, I suggest she gets herself on to that site for a bit, to see what is around that she might like.
I used to be a size 22 and i used to buy my stockings from asda, the size large/x large fit me fine when i was that size smile
Quote by Maggiejames52
Any ladys (no not for me) send her pics to make her see see is not TOO big

Yeah right we believe you biggrin
Quote by naughtynymphos1
I used to be a size 22 and i used to buy my stockings from asda, the size large/x large fit me fine when i was that size smile

Any ladys (no not for me) send her pics to make her see see is not TOO big

Yeah right we believe you biggrin
i was jus about to say the same thing im a size 18/20 but used to b a 24 and ive always bought my stockings at asda they go in sizes and r priced about have a look ..............good luck to u both
by the way there r plenty of bbw lovers on this site wink :wink:
Big girl here as well n used to be bigger than a size 32! I buy my holdups and stockings from marks n spencers, but my legs are still veryyyyy big at the top, so i tend to wear them a little lower xxj
Big gal here as well, have a look at my pix and u will see just how big LOL
Loads n loads of BBW lovers on here, just try the BBW cht room when u feel up to that and u will see lol
Good luck and have loads of fun biggrin
Fluck me!
Agreeing with bony twice in one evening! :doh:
Who says your gonna be shaggin when your on the site lol
The main thing is to get on here & have fun!!!
You cannot & will not please everyone at the same time so chill out be cool don't let anyone take the smile off your faces & above all else be yourselves!
The thing is & I feel I can speak for many of the forumites is that when you can sit down & really get to know a person, THAT can be far more sexually attractive than physical appearance :thumbup:
:wary:
would this be a sly way for you to get females to send you their pics?
me suspicious nooooo
as said marks and sparks, or asda are good for stokings/ holdups.
as for being bigger lady, im sure there are guys here who like that , and guys who dont.
confidence (not arrogance) and personality are the attractive things for me in a person.
welcome to sh have fun
xx fem xx
Quote by redpantherman
The thing is & I feel I can speak for many of the forumites is that when you can sit down & really get to know a person, THAT can be far more sexually attractive than physical appearance :thumbup:

Where as i just fancy the pants of RPM redface
Quote by TanKinky

The thing is & I feel I can speak for many of the forumites is that when you can sit down & really get to know a person, THAT can be far more sexually attractive than physical appearance :thumbup:

Where as i just fancy the pants of RPM redface
I'm feeling all over tingly now! :twisted:
I'm a bbw, and its taken me a while to feel comfortable in my skin as have been judged most of my life... when I met my other half, and realised he loved bbw it opened my eyes that other people don't see me as I see myself. He loves my curvy body and everything about it.
Give her compliments, don't go OTT! And show her the responses on this post... There are loads of bbw on this site, and loads of men who love them! There are sites for bbw to join.. pm me and will send you some, or google.
Hope this helps!! Mskitty xx
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Hi all can anyone male or fem put my wife straight on being big size 22-24 and has rather large legs so cant wear stockings! And it gets her down seeing a lot of slimmer and even not so slim wearing them I along with other guys like bigger ladies BUT she has a thing about being too big for guys I say its ok being big and would hope others thik so too, I ask can anyone put her mind at rest.
Any ladys (no not for me) send her pics to make her see see is not TOO big (please bear in mind she is very str8) Thanks guys and girls James

You've been here two years, just reading the forum or looking down the list of chatrooms should be enough!
Quote by Freckledbird
Hi all can anyone male or fem put my wife straight on being big size 22-24 and has rather large legs so cant wear stockings! And it gets her down seeing a lot of slimmer and even not so slim wearing them I along with other guys like bigger ladies BUT she has a thing about being too big for guys I say its ok being big and would hope others thik so too, I ask can anyone put her mind at rest.
Any ladys (no not for me) send her pics to make her see see is not TOO big (please bear in mind she is very str8) Thanks guys and girls James

You've been here two years, just reading the forum or looking down the list of chatrooms should be enough!
....to say nothing of browsing through profiles and pics here. There is a vast amount of evidence on the site!
Oh for goodness sake.......
the man makes an honest request.
Get his PM box full of your stockings and hold ups. None of this practical advice, can't you see his wife needs reassurance.
Obviously, I would help but I don't wear stockings or hold ups. I wear those fisherman thick socks with rigger boots. (being a lezzer and all that) and I am a size 12/14. rolleyes
mmmmm fisherman socks and rigger boots :twisted: :bounce: works for me!
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mmmmm fisherman socks and rigger boots :twisted: :bounce: works for me!

pervert :shock:
Quote by splendid_
mmmmm fisherman socks and rigger boots :twisted: :bounce: works for me!

pervert :shock:
I know, and they make my legs itch like mad..oh well , the things we do for love.... rolleyes
Don't get down about your size I was at one time 35stone and couldn't even buy clothes to fit me. I am now 20yrs later still a 26-30 (Size 22 top size 26 waist and a size 30 hip a perfect traingle) depending on where I buy clothes and am now saggy as well but what the heck I am still me. I came to realise that big is sexy (amd in 30 yrs never have worn stockings or tights) to others not just my husband. Your personality and mind are what matters and those who only look at size are not worth worrying about as they are in my book totally shallow. biggrin
Quote by Kacee4aliscat54
Don't get down about your size I was at one time 35stone and couldn't even buy clothes to fit me. I am now 20yrs later still a 26-30 (Size 22 top size 26 waist and a size 30 hip a perfect traingle) depending on where I buy clothes and am now saggy as well but what the heck I am still me. I came to realise that big is sexy (amd in 30 yrs never have worn stockings or tights) to others not just my husband. Your personality and mind are what matters and those who only look at size are not worth worrying about as they are in my book totally shallow. biggrin

Or, entitled to have a preference and state it.
Quote by splendid_
Oh for goodness sake.......
the man makes an honest request.
Get his PM box full of your stockings and hold ups. None of this practical advice, can't you see his wife needs reassurance.
Obviously, I would help but I don't wear stockings or hold ups. I wear those fisherman thick socks with rigger boots. (being a lezzer and all that) and I am a size 12/14. rolleyes

Actually, there was once a lezzer on this site who would have loved that! I remember being coerced into sending her a pic of me in hiking boots & a cowboy hat lol
I miss her :cry:
Quote by winchwench
I remember being coerced into sending her a pic of me in hiking boots & a cowboy hat lol
I miss her :cry:

I bet many more would like a picture like that as well ;-)
Quote by winchwench
Oh for goodness sake.......
the man makes an honest request.
Get his PM box full of your stockings and hold ups. None of this practical advice, can't you see his wife needs reassurance.
Obviously, I would help but I don't wear stockings or hold ups. I wear those fisherman thick socks with rigger boots. (being a lezzer and all that) and I am a size 12/14. rolleyes

Actually, there was once a lezzer on this site who would have loved that! I remember being coerced into sending her a pic of me in hiking boots & a cowboy hat lol
I miss her :cry:
ffs... you can send me the picture if it bothers you that much. :roll:
Quote by Stormwalker
mmmmm fisherman socks and rigger boots :twisted: :bounce: works for me!

pervert :shock:
I know, and they make my legs itch like mad..oh well , the things we do for love.... rolleyes
mmm yeah, I could tell you about the time I almost booked dinner at a Japanese restaurant for love.
the moment passed. confused
(I loathe Japanese food it makes me blerk)
Quote by splendid_
Oh for goodness sake.......
the man makes an honest request.
Get his PM box full of your stockings and hold ups. None of this practical advice, can't you see his wife needs reassurance.
Obviously, I would help but I don't wear stockings or hold ups. I wear those fisherman thick socks with rigger boots. (being a lezzer and all that) and I am a size 12/14. rolleyes

Actually, there was once a lezzer on this site who would have loved that! I remember being coerced into sending her a pic of me in hiking boots & a cowboy hat lol
I miss her :cry:
ffs... you can send me the picture if it bothers you that much. :roll:
It's in my facebook photos, you perve. :roll: But I was wearing clothes too, you know :roll: :roll:
Quote by winchwench
It's in my facebook photos, you perve. rolleyes But I was wearing clothes too, you know :roll: :roll:

clothes ???
clothes !!
nah, I can't be doing with you being fully dressed. What is the use of that ? confused
Quote by splendid_

It's in my facebook photos, you perve. rolleyes But I was wearing clothes too, you know :roll: :roll:

clothes ???
clothes !!
nah, I can't be doing with you being fully dressed. What is the use of that ? confused
Agreed :thumbup:
Quote by Freckledbird
Don't get down about your size I was at one time 35stone and couldn't even buy clothes to fit me. I am now 20yrs later still a 26-30 (Size 22 top size 26 waist and a size 30 hip a perfect traingle) depending on where I buy clothes and am now saggy as well but what the heck I am still me. I came to realise that big is sexy (amd in 30 yrs never have worn stockings or tights) to others not just my husband. Your personality and mind are what matters and those who only look at size are not worth worrying about as they are in my book totally shallow. biggrin

Or, entitled to have a preference and state it.
i have to agree with FB on this one, all because your on a swinging site that does not mean you have to like everyone on here, its perfectly ok to say to someone sorry your to big for me, that does not make you shallow it mean we all have choices and are allowed to state them, we all have our likes and dislikes i bet even Kacee4aliscat54 has looked at peoples pics and though....not for me wink i know i have.
Sorry you misunderstood what I meant about being shallow I didn't mean to imply or offend anyone in that people can't have likes and dislikes about size that would be totally unreasonb;e. What I should have said I think was that those who ridicule the larger people in a cruel and unfeeling way and it applys to larger men too, are the ones who create the insecurity problems. Yes I have likes and dislikes about people but I hope I would not offend or upset anyone.