Behaviour at Munches

5 Nov 2007

Right, Im going on my first munch (look out Wigan!!! lol

) on 1st Dec, and need to know the correct behaviour.
(Cherrytree if you DARE put a link to an old thread i will look for the oldest, dodderiest, most toothless slobbery bald guy and tell him u want a kiss under the mistletoe :lol: :lol:
thats reminds me...Mr B is late in tonight :lol: :lol: :lol: :laughabove: :laughabove:
anyways....imagine I was a complete idiot....whaddaya mean not such a stretch of the imagination!!!!
and tell me in words of one syllable or less, whats allowed and whats a no-no.....I dont wanna end up the subject of a thread on here for committing a gross faux pas...nor end up on the front page of the Wigan Gazette for inapproprate relations with the statue of the towns founder!!!
anyways enough of my secret fantasies redface

ops: :oops: :oops:
cameras allowed?
kissing allowed?
snogging with tongues allowed?
copping a feel (outside clothes) allowed?
flashing of bra and /or tits?
can I bring mistletoe and tinsel?
basically just need to know whats allowed and what isnt...had a look at a very long thread which went round in circles about peoples perceptions of what was too much, and got a bit confuzzled.
Not that I am gonna do any of this, I will be the one glued to the wall like the shy retiring wall flower that I am....a bit like, a rabbit startled in the head lights....so look out of me and throw me a kindly word, and a smile ( :lol: ) oh and PLEASE come and take MR B off my hands for a dance....pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaasssssssseeeeeeee!!
anyway thanks for your help...and i think it will be good to let newbies and munch virgins to know exactly in plain english whats acceptable and whats not.

5 Nov 2007

As a munch Virgin, and also a completely inexperienced type anyway innocent

...whose name is down for Notts, I'll be watching this with interest :thumbup:

5 Nov 2007

mrs bone hun will see you there .......... and how to behave ermmmmmmm think of a family 40th birhday that relitives will be at and you wont go far wrong lol

5 Nov 2007

cameras allowed? Up to the organisers and it would be better if the person whose pics you are taking knows you are taking their pic and are ok with it
kissing allowed? yep within reason but not anything that will bring the party in to disrepute
snogging with tongues allowed? see above
copping a feel (outside clothes) allowed? wouldn't advise this as it could lead to other things
flashing of bra and /or tits?nope
can I bring mistletoe and tinsel? yep don't see why not, but again check with organiser of munch
People who have attended munches before should keep the "virgins" on the straight and narrow folks

5 Nov 2007

omfg Sara...u havent met my rellies haha.....that means i wont move off me seat unless its for a foxtrot round the dance floor with old uncle ernie haha!!
cant wait to see u thete hun...this time i wont be too shy to talk toy ya like i was at sugs kiss

5 Nov 2007

Quote by Bonedigger
(Cherrytree if you DARE put a link to an old thread i will look for the oldest, dodderiest, most toothless slobbery bald guy and tell him u want a kiss under the mistletoe :lol:

Oh good! That's one snog I'm getting, then :bounce:

5 Nov 2007

Quote by Bonedigger
omfg Sara...u havent met my rellies haha.....that means i wont move off me seat unless its for a foxtrot round the dance floor with old uncle ernie haha!!
cant wait to see u thete hun...this time i wont be too shy to talk toy ya like i was at sugs

woooooooo you bringing a cram cake as well mmmmmmm save eating it till later tho ermmmmmm no plates lol and see woohoos point about boobs on show lol
will foxtrot with you anytime hun biggrin

5 Nov 2007

Sara hun, i will make a cake if Mrs NWC says its ok...and i will make u your own special one...and i will hold u to that........foxtrot babes, and the cake thing too lol

:lol:
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

5 Nov 2007

OMG now i cannt wait for the beginning of december :bounce: :evil2: look i even got my fork ready mmmmmmm and its only a week b4 my birthday :bounce:

5 Nov 2007

double clebrations then babes, and u can have a birthday and a christmas kiss off me and mr B passionkiss

6 Nov 2007

am exercising my lips in readyness as i type innocent

(<<< meant to look like i am puckering up not whistling lol)

6 Nov 2007

what have i let meself in for wink

6 Nov 2007

Quote by thornback
what have i let meself in for

a dam good time with friendly peeps........ why what u got in mind lol

6 Nov 2007

Quote by thornback
what have i let meself in for

Seriously, it's just like an evening wedding party, all you have to do is turn up, collect your name badge from the desk as you walk in, get yourself a drink, find a seat with some friendly folk (which is everybody) or walk about and mingle, say hi to all and sundry, join in or laugh at the dancing, lol

and that's about it.
There's no playing, you might see a lot of affectionate hugging or kissing, but that's what friends do when they meet at weddings! :lol:
:thumbup:

6 Nov 2007

cant help hun never been to one, hope you have a great time though kiss

6 Nov 2007

ooohhhh Sara, pucker up buttercup passionkiss

LOL

6 Nov 2007

Quote by Bonedigger
Right, Im going on my first munch (look out Wigan!!! ) on 1st Dec, and need to know the correct behaviour.
(Cherrytree if you DARE put a link to an old thread i will look for the oldest, dodderiest, most toothless slobbery bald guy and tell him u want a kiss under the mistletoe :lol: :lol:
thats reminds me...Mr B is late in tonight :lol: :lol: :lol: :laughabove: :laughabove:
anyways....imagine I was a complete idiot....whaddaya mean not such a stretch of the imagination!!!!
and tell me in words of one syllable or less, whats allowed and whats a no-no.....I dont wanna end up the subject of a thread on here for committing a gross faux pas...nor end up on the front page of the Wigan Gazette for inapproprate relations with the statue of the towns founder!!!
anyways enough of my secret fantasies ops: :oops: :oops:
cameras allowed?
kissing allowed?
snogging with tongues allowed?
copping a feel (outside clothes) allowed?
flashing of bra and /or tits?
can I bring mistletoe and tinsel?
basically just need to know whats allowed and what isnt...had a look at a very long thread which went round in circles about peoples perceptions of what was too much, and got a bit confuzzled.
Not that I am gonna do any of this, I will be the one glued to the wall like the shy retiring wall flower that I am....a bit like, a rabbit startled in the head lights....so look out of me and throw me a kindly word, and a smile ( :lol: ) oh and PLEASE come and take MR B off my hands for a dance....pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaasssssssseeeeeeee!!
anyway thanks for your help...and i think it will be good to let newbies and munch virgins to know exactly in plain english whats acceptable and whats not.

Id just go the whole hog! Afterall, may as well be hung for a sheep as a lamb

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Have fun and enjoy and report back to my office with a with a smile on your face :lol:

6 Nov 2007

oooohhhhh heln, u trying to get me into trouble??? u want me to be :smckbottom: for being naughty lol

6 Nov 2007

Just think of it as a night out with your mates.
Second thoughts, i don't know your mates or what they get up to on a night out so best treat it like a family wedding lol

G xx

6 Nov 2007

Quote by Bonedigger
oooohhhhh heln, u trying to get me into trouble??? u want me to be :smckbottom: for being naughty

Of course I am....you'd love it you know you would innocent

:giggle:

6 Nov 2007

heehee, Heln, well I AM hoping someone WILL lead me astray on the night lol

:lol:

6 Nov 2007

Quote by Bonedigger
heehee, Heln, well I AM hoping someone WILL lead me astray on the night :lol:

Any offers to lead Mrs B astray to my inbox for vetting 1st.....she deserves the best and as I wont be there.....

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

6 Nov 2007

** cups hand to ear listening for stampede of replies......hears only tumbleweed blowing through** lol

:lol:

6 Nov 2007

Basically munch behaviour should be pretty much the same as the behaviour you would expect in a pub..
Camera's....
I would say No personally as not everyone there will be comfortable with pictures being taken..
General behaviour should not be overtly sexual really..
A few kisses here and there is just fine and dandy but flashing of tits and groping are really not the done thing..
Hopefully an experienced organiser will be along to give a more detailed explanation...
The main criteria is to Enjoy Yourself :thumbup:

6 Nov 2007

TY mal

6 Nov 2007

as a complete munch virgin going to the big M, i totally expect to shag every female on the dancefloor!
:shock: What dunno

Ah, ok, have just recieved instructions fom V HQ, aparantly i'll have to wait rolleyes

well ffs how was I supposed to know :dunno:
time will tell lol

6 Nov 2007

Quote by Mallock2006
Basically munch behaviour should be pretty much the same as the behaviour you would expect in a pub..
Camera's....
I would say No personally as not everyone there will be comfortable with pictures being taken..
General behaviour should not be overtly sexual really..
A few kisses here and there is just fine and dandy but flashing of tits and groping are really not the done thing..
Hopefully an experienced organiser will be along to give a more detailed explanation...
The main criteria is to Enjoy Yourself :thumbup:

Agree with that, pretty much. Whoever is organising a munch will usually include details about dress, behaviour and such, in the invitation you'll receive.

6 Nov 2007

I would say "No" to camera's personally cause it's a bit of a sticky area like what if you get someone in the background who didn't want to be on film...but again the Organiser should say yay or nay to this.
Yep, Snogging is allowed but nothing too amorous that will get you noticed....like don't try lying someone across a table and snogging them wink

Dress Code is usually pretty much what you want but something that you would normally be able to wear on a night out in the town...so no nipples bared or anything like that.
But really it's just a night to chill out with friends that you have seen write stuff on here but that you have never met...
DOn't worry, you'll have a blast!!!

6 Nov 2007

Well done Bonedigger for raising these things, we are off to our first munch in Coventry on the 17th. Now I know I have to be on my best behaviour

6 Nov 2007

cameras allowed? IMO should not be allowed
kissing allowed? yes
snogging with tongues allowed? yes
copping a feel (outside clothes) allowed? yes
flashing of bra and /or tits? no
can I bring mistletoe and tinsel? yes

All the kiss and snogging etc Must be done with the consent of the other person, and remember the bar staff are vanilla.........
Above all have a good night out and chat, dance, drink, flirt, xxx