I know excatly what you mean. we`ve got on our profile that we are looking for single guys but that we only want to play together, but they still try their luck to try and get me to play alone. Guys it just ain`t gonna happen.
Not all single guys are rude or abusive, and some can even read.
I do appreciate that people can be annoying and even upsetting at times, but if somebody is breaking the rules then report it to a chat Op or Admin, stating the persons unsername, time, room etc and it will be dealt with.
Nobody can do anything unless people report the trolls/twats.
Unfortunately, there are many who are just playing the numbers game, and sending out the same cut-and-paste email to as many people they can.
We recently placed a photo ad, and a post in 'lets meet up' - plenty of responses but so far around 70% have gone straight into the ignore list because they obviously haven't read our ad.
There are a lot of genuine, trustworthy guys on here - we've met a number so we know they're out there. Same old story though that the good ones get tarred with the same brush as the A-holes.
Good advice, we agree, is to report the abusive ones, and block guys from contacting you if that's not what you're looking for.
Mr and Mrs C xx
i think the chat rooms are only for full members. But like its been said payong doesnt mean your not a prat.
sadely there are always going to be the ones who dont read a profile, they are driven by blind lust.
there will always be the ones who are rude and ignorant, report them and hopefully it will mean less of them.
i have my in box set to delete any winks.
the new thing im experiencing is couple profiles who whisper in chat and attempt to excusse this by saying its..... ( fill in any female name) as if cuse its the female, or a guy pretending to be one, they can break the rules.
welcome to the site or at least the forums and if you stick around long enough you will find the good uns out there.
xxxx fem xxxx
My profile is, as ever, very specific (it even tells you not to continue reading if you can't be arsed! i can't say fairer than that!) but still they ignore it or, as frequently happens, because they don't fit my preferences they actually get very abusive towards me.
It's not just single guys. Just last night a couple nagged and bugged me to death in a chatroom. I had stated very clearly that i am not interested in meeting couples, or one half of a couple, or that particular couple - but still they persisted and then got quite abusive towards me and other room members when we told them to back off.
I believe they were given a ban in the end.
Earlier on in the evening, another couple commented on my profile that "it wouldn't be so bad if you were good looking". Wft? I really don't know where people get off talking to others like that.
Some people are just like that. I don't intend to tolerate them any more than i would if it was a "real life" situation and neither should anyone else, but you do have to appreciate that it will still happen, regardless.
I'll be honest, if i was in the street or in the pub and someone spoke to me the way some people do on this site, I'd knock their feckin teeth down their throat. I have no problem reporting abuse or anyone breaking site AUP.
As for winks, one liners and general unwanted crap .. just delete and ignore - it's part of the site, unfortunately.
Just to put my two peneth in, baring in mind im out of it now ex single male ect, for gods sake couples just put up with it, if you enjoy the lifestyle its one of the parts that are a bugger to put up with, im not saying its right or fair but let me tell you for all the single males that are wankers out there, theres plenty of couples who are just as bad.
Until there is a way, hard and fast that can make sure that a fella (or couple for that matter) is gen, its one of the ball aches of swinging.
I wish i had a pound for every pic collector that tried it on.
lol its cos every1 is so dam horny lol!!
i dont think it is just in here though, how often are you out at a club with your partner and a guy tries to pull her, even though she points over and says that my boyfriend..lol...some very persistant guys out there!!
l/we used to have 2 profiles on for myself as a single male,the other as a my partner and me swung regular.
as myra not just guys that pester you.l got rid of the couples shaz decided to just swing now and then,kept my "single male" mentioned my partner in it.
just to let people know that ,l swing and am an attached male,but has full permission to swing.
to date lve contacted several couples where l do fit,what they are looking for,yet not had a single reply,just to say no thanks,
so now l just get to know people either in chat or the forums. and think this route is working better than answering ads.
plus why is it that some single men think its funny to rude and nasty when your having a play on cam its happen afew times and im a bit put off about going on cam at all now am i the only one who has noticed this or does it happen to others let me no :crazy: that im not going mad lol 
you're soooooo ladylike :giggle:
