I know that some men don't like wearing condoms for what ever reason and I was just wondering what most men on swinging heaven prefer and would they go bareback?
Also if they go bareback how do they gaurantee being disease free?
Also are they not concerned about the risk of the woman getting pregnant?
just very curious.
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condoms v bareback
I'm not a man but my opinion on this is i think more people will go bare back than will admit to on here, most would fear the 101 question and being looked at down their noses by other for admitting it but i know a lot of people that are willing not to use condoms that wouldn't admit to it on here, as for not catching anything.....well as adults it a choice we make if we want to risk it its our choice and i don't think many men are planning on seeing the women again so the pregnancy thing prob don't even concern them 
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I know that some men don't like wearing condoms for what ever reason and I was just wondering what most men on swinging heaven prefer and would they go bareback?
Also if they go bareback how do they gaurantee being disease free?
Also are they not concerned about the risk of the woman getting pregnant?
just very curious.
Caylil
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Simple answer to that == You can't.
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I know that some men don't like wearing condoms for what ever reason and I was just wondering what most men on swinging heaven prefer and would they go bareback?
Being perfectly honest, I doubt there's many blokes on the planet who'd say that wearing a condom improved sex, but personal preference isn't the only thing that dictates behaviour. Therefore, just for the record, the only person I don't use condoms with is Mrs. DP.
Also if they go bareback how do they gaurantee being disease free?
They don't.
Also are they not concerned about the risk of the woman getting pregnant?
Possibly, but considering that they don't seem concerned with their own health and welfare then I guess thinking about anyone else is probably beyond them.
Being perfectly honest, I doubt there's many blokes on the planet who'd say that wearing a condom improved sex, but personal preference isn't the only thing that dictates behaviour. Therefore, just for the record, the only person I don't use condoms with is Mrs. DP.
Also if they go bareback how do they gaurantee being disease free?
They don't.
Also are they not concerned about the risk of the woman getting pregnant?
Possibly, but considering that they don't seem concerned with their own health and welfare then I guess thinking about anyone else is probably beyond them.
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I know that some men don't like wearing condoms for what ever reason and I was just wondering what most men on swinging heaven prefer and would they go bareback?
Also if they go bareback how do they gaurantee being disease free?
Also are they not concerned about the risk of the woman getting pregnant?
just very curious.
Caylil
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Almost all the guys we have meet on this site ask can I go bareback, the answer is always the same NO.
There is no disease free guarantees if you go bare back.
We ask they wear a condom not because of the fear of pregnancy but because of the fear of a disease. Most guys are not really concerned about the female getting pregnant
once they have come. In fact although they ask to go bareback not one of them has ever asked me if i am taking or using any protection against pregnancy.
Remember diseases can be a two way thing, from man to woman or from woman to man.
As DP said - No man likes condoms - I'm at that age where putting one on, often kills the moment, and I have to 'work up to things again'.
If you think you can trust someone who's going to be a regular partner to tell you if they ever sleep with other people bareback during your relationship, I ask them to go get an HIV test, I do the same, and then we can have unprotected sex (I've also had the snip which helps with the pregnancy thing.)
Having said that, I was in the position to go bareback with a new partner last week, and she didn't seem to be bothered whether I put on a condom or not, so it works both ways... (I did, of course, put the condom on...)
If you think you can trust someone who's going to be a regular partner to tell you if they ever sleep with other people bareback during your relationship, I ask them to go get an HIV test, I do the same, and then we can have unprotected sex (I've also had the snip which helps with the pregnancy thing.)
Having said that, I was in the position to go bareback with a new partner last week, and she didn't seem to be bothered whether I put on a condom or not, so it works both ways... (I did, of course, put the condom on...)
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I know that some men don't like wearing condoms for what ever reason and I was just wondering what most men on swinging heaven prefer and would they go bareback?
Also if they go bareback how do they gaurantee being disease free?
Like Medic said there is no guarantee...thats the risk they take!
Also are they not concerned about the risk of the woman getting pregnant?
Well excuse me.....but shouldn't the woman also take the responsibility here as well, not just the guy ...i mean she has the final word doesn't she!!
just very curious.
Caylil
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Quote by Dlep
I dont have a problem using condoms....if Im in a LTR (which Im in the beginnings of) then I wouldnt necessarily see the need....with other women then I would. Not because Im suspicious of them, but because it makes sense to and ensures everyone stays safe.
also i think using a condom, even if you feel the other person is clean, shows respect for them, but thats just my opinion
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I dont have a problem using condoms....if Im in a LTR (which Im in the beginnings of) then I wouldnt necessarily see the need....with other women then I would. Not because Im suspicious of them, but because it makes sense to and ensures everyone stays safe.
also i think using a condom, even if you feel the other person is clean, shows respect for them, but thats just my opinion
Thats true NN.....
don't think anyone mentioned the fact that condoms are not only to protect and respect the woman but also to protect the guy.I can honestly say that I have never gone bareback unless in a long term relationship, however I have friends who have never worn a condom regardless!!!
We all have to make informed choices and live by the consequences and do what you and your partner(s) are comfortable with.
As for killing the moment it can be worked in....I find it quite personal and horny for partners to shrinkwrap me.....ooo er missus
Now I would always use a condom unless I had known the person a long enough time to know there habits etc...... but one thing seems to be slipping everyones minds here, things can also be caught woman to woman and lets all be honest theres a few Bi ladies out there! Not to mention Oral....... do all you girls insist on a condom for oral too??
Chriky lol..... I'm packing in while I still have my health intact..... then again we might just carry on being as careful as we can getting to know a couple and (as best you can) take things at a steady pace.... may not suit everyone but does us!
Mike and Julie xx
Chriky lol..... I'm packing in while I still have my health intact..... then again we might just carry on being as careful as we can getting to know a couple and (as best you can) take things at a steady pace.... may not suit everyone but does us!
Mike and Julie xx
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things can also be caught woman to woman and lets all be honest theres a few Bi ladies out there! Not to mention Oral....... do all you girls insist on a condom for oral too??
Call me dumb but how would a girl use a condom on a girl for oral?
Well thats the point I'm making lol............ If someone has a nasty something the chances are you may well end up with it anyway! If a girl gives a guy oral without and a little girl on girl stuff its still swapping a few fluids eh........
But if you want to get techie (and I get to call you dumb lol) theres also Femidom!! Ooerr!
Mike xx :thrilled:
One other angle, if you are in a LTR where you don't use condoms, you would be mad to consider having sex outside that relationship without them. Then you are playing not only with your own life, which is your own choice, but someone elses as well.
As for the condoms killing the moment, depends how much of a moment it is. I have used condoms a lot through my life, and although bareback is better in terms of spontanaiety, I have had some of my best orgasms and sex in a condom. All down to the passion making you forget you wearing it. Hell lets face it sex is a pretty mucky business anyways by design
If you can let a condom get in the way how do you cope with the noises n squelching, hehe...
As for the condoms killing the moment, depends how much of a moment it is. I have used condoms a lot through my life, and although bareback is better in terms of spontanaiety, I have had some of my best orgasms and sex in a condom. All down to the passion making you forget you wearing it. Hell lets face it sex is a pretty mucky business anyways by design
If you can let a condom get in the way how do you cope with the noises n squelching, hehe... Quote by Sassy-Seren
things can also be caught woman to woman and lets all be honest theres a few Bi ladies out there! Not to mention Oral....... do all you girls insist on a condom for oral too??
Call me dumb but how would a girl use a condom on a girl for oral?
Dental dam, rubber sheet made of latex that you put over the lady to prevent contact with her juices...
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things can also be caught woman to woman and lets all be honest theres a few Bi ladies out there! Not to mention Oral....... do all you girls insist on a condom for oral too??
Call me dumb but how would a girl use a condom on a girl for oral?
Dental dam, rubber sheet made of latex that you put over the lady to prevent contact with her juices...
Its catching on lol!!
Master of Sex
Lik everyone else has said, I use them. It would suicide in this day and age to go without them. Sadly, now that I'm a mature student, I meet young people (18 - 21 year olds) who don't see them as necessary and I have had a very heated argument with a woman at Uni who started spouting bullshit about the risk of HiV/AIDS - she seemed to think the risks were too small, until I started quoting the various reports I saw when I did Outreach work.
And has also been said, it's not just up to the man - the woman can (and should) say yes to using them!
And has also been said, it's not just up to the man - the woman can (and should) say yes to using them!
Quote by phil_osopherI do :shock:
As DP said - No man likes condoms...
I will always swear by them rubbery fiends... I don't like playing with anyone new without them.
But more & more often the girl will ask me to remove them!
I have 2 partners who I have no problems going bareback with.
I feel safer coz trust them & I've known them for the past 8 yrs...
Quote by redpanthermanI do :shock:
As DP said - No man likes condoms...
I will always swear by them rubbery fiends... I don't like playing with anyone new without them.
But more & more often the girl will ask me to remove them!
I have 2 partners who I have no problems going bareback with.
I feel safer coz trust them & I've known them for the past 8 yrs...
OK... OK... Well, all except those with a latex fetish... :twisted:
Quote by phil_osopherI do :shock:
As DP said - No man likes condoms...
I will always swear by them rubbery fiends... I don't like playing with anyone new without them.
But more & more often the girl will ask me to remove them!
I have 2 partners who I have no problems going bareback with.
I feel safer coz trust them & I've known them for the past 8 yrs...
OK... OK... Well, all except those with a latex fetish... :twisted:
Like I said earlier I dont have a problem with them either
And no I dont have a latex fetish.....
