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I have a friend who is a gay man. Just recently he has been overly atentive towards me and showing all the 'signs' that a hetro man would show if he fancied me. Should i risk it and ask him if i'm right or am i totally off my rocker.
Could he be bi? I know someone who thought he was gay for most of his adult life and all of a sudden hes sleeping with women too confused He said he was curious and hes now satisfying his curiosity and enjoying every minute.......makes ya wonder eh?
Thanks for that. I don't know. It just seems unusual that he would go through all that he did when he came out, reach the age of 39 and not really know who he is.
maybe u keep puttin your chest in his face.... itd make most men wanna get close to em...
people question their sexuality all the time.............. not unusual from where im sat.... but even if thats the way he is... hes bound to be unusual anyway..... cos hes an individual and totally unique.......
i have always found gay men to be total flirts with anyone with a pulse lol
personally i'd say nothing, if he wants to take things further i'm sure he'll say you coming onto him knowing hes gay could just turn out embarresing for both of you
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i have always found gay men to be total flirts with anyone with a pulse lol
personally i'd say nothing, if he wants to take things further i'm sure he'll say you coming onto him knowing hes gay could just turn out embarresing for both of you

I have a gay friend who flirts with everything that moves including me!! He is in a long term happy relationship and I don't have a big enough ego to think he actually fancies me. He just loves flirting.
It's always fun at parties watching strangers reaction to him.
My advice is enjoy the flirt but go no further.
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i have always found gay men to be total flirts with anyone with a pulse lol
personally i'd say nothing, if he wants to take things further i'm sure he'll say you coming onto him knowing hes gay could just turn out embarresing for both of you

:thumbup:
I'll have you know i wax!! Hehehe!!
Thanks for all your replies. He actually isn't a flirty kind of person, hes actually quite shy, which just adds to my feelings. Anyway, i guess i will just have to suffer in silence until he makes a move-or not. confused
And they say that women are confussing??!!!
How right you are. Basically its all labels right?
Its not just gay people who flirt with people/genders they aren't interested in. I'm a complete tart wink and I bet quite a few of you are too.
This has gone a little further than flirting-i don't flirt with other women and i am interested in some?!
Oh and Keene- my ego is not inflated loveevil
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i have always found gay men to be total flirts with anyone with a pulse lol

That sounds like Bloke rolleyes
'Do I ask him and get rejected or do I just wonder'
Should the question be, 'Do I ask him and he say yes or never give him a chance to say yes.'
Which is more important to know or risk rejection.
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i have always found gay men to be total flirts with anyone with a pulse lol

That sounds like Bloke rolleyes
I thought it sounded exactly like me! biggrin
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I have a friend who is a gay man. Just recently he has been overly atentive towards me and showing all the 'signs' that a hetro man would show if he fancied me. Should i risk it and ask him if i'm right or am i totally off my rocker.

I don't think gay men fancy women but they appreciate women if that makes sense?
That or he may be bi, I guess.
I think the real question is, say he 'asked you out' as in a proper date - what would your answer be? Then from there it's whether you wait for him to make the move or you do it ... if you're good mates etc, it may be he's wondering whether such a move would risk the friendship.
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I'll have you know i wax!! Hehehe!!
Thanks for all your replies. He actually isn't a flirty kind of person, hes actually quite shy, which just adds to my feelings. Anyway, i guess i will just have to suffer in silence until he makes a move-or not. confused
And they say that women are confussing??!!!

Well I like girls, but best of all I like girls who look like boys! If I was gay might I not be tested by a boyish tomboyish kind of a person, do you fit that bill?
............if so, err, can we meet? lol
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I have a friend who is a gay man. Just recently he has been overly atentive towards me and showing all the 'signs' that a hetro man would show if he fancied me. Should i risk it and ask him if i'm right or am i totally off my rocker.

You could always try, "Pity you're gay otherwise I'd like to hump the arse off you" and see if you get a result :shock:
Well neither of us 'fancy' women in the sexual sense but will quite regularly say to one another things like 'she's really attractive'.... or..... 'she looks great' biggrin
I tend to notice a good french manicure, a new hair doo or cool dress before I notice tits but then I guess that's why I am like I am... :P
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... but then I guess that's why I am what I am... :P

Oooohhhh.........I sense a song coming on from Bloke :karaoke:
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... but then I guess that's why I am what I am... :P

Oooohhhh.........I sense a song coming on from Bloke :karaoke:
Well I gave you that one wink
.... I've also just thought of something - we much prefer straight porn over gay stuff... dunno why? dunno
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Well neither of us 'fancy' women in the sexual sense but will quite regularly say to one another things like 'she's really attractive'.... or..... 'she looks great' biggrin
I tend to notice a good french manicure, a new hair doo or cool dress before I notice tits but then I guess that's why I am like I am... :P

Ok so I've just booked an appointment to have my hair done, my nails done and then I'll buy a new dress!
Whatever it takes!
:P
Hope you know i'm Blokes unofficial 'Lady Fluffer' wink
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Hope you know i'm Blokes unofficial 'Lady Fluffer' wink

You've gotten so familiar and above yourself all of a sudden... have you experienced cock? :rascal:
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This has gone a little further than flirting-i don't flirt with other women and i am interested in some?!
Oh and Keene- my ego is not inflated love evil

I didn't mean to suggest you had an inflated ego, sorry. I seem to have a great knack for saying the wrong thing. :doh:
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Hope you know i'm Blokes unofficial 'Lady Fluffer' wink

You've gotten so familiar and above yourself all of a sudden... have you experienced cock? :rascal:
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
The last time I saw Meaty run away as quick as that was when he realised it was his turn to pay for dinner!
:P
smackbottom i didn't run away, i broke my fekin pc mad :x :x
now if i could just combine Blokes attraction to men with Kiss me's body it might not be a bad thing at all
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smackbottom i didn't run away, i broke my fekin pc mad :x :x
now if i could just combine Blokes attraction to men with Kiss me's body it might not be a bad thing at all

I dread to think what fluid wrecked your computer - it's probably all this excitement about you and Bloke! :giggle:
Glad you seem to have fixed it now :therethere:
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smackbottom i didn't run away, i broke my fekin pc mad :x :x
now if i could just combine Blokes attraction to men with Kiss me's body it might not be a bad thing at all

I dread to think what fluid wrecked your computer - it's probably all this excitement about you and Bloke! :giggle:
Glad you seem to have fixed it now :therethere:
not this one, i've broke the really important one i need for work :cry: :cry: :cry:
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not this one, i've broke the really important one i need for work :cry: :cry: :cry:

Don't worry Meaty..... I've heard that they are phasing out computers for males strippers in gay clubs.
(A bit like computers for schools - only much camper!)
wink
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not this one, i've broke the really important one i need for work :cry: :cry: :cry:

Don't worry Meaty..... I've heard that they are phasing out computers for males strippers in gay clubs.
(A bit like computers for schools - only much camper!)
wink
Ooooooooooo I might suggest strippers instead of computers for the ICT budget :twisted: