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Do men sexually prefer women who dress like a tart?

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I have been perusing the swiinger's stories section and have also been chatting to a few people about it. It might just be the stories I have read and the type of people I have chatted to but I get this impression that SEXUALLY, men do sometimes appreciate a woman who dresses like a tart. Now, what dressing like a tart actually entails varies but it seems to involve low cut tops, short skirts and tottering in high heels. I for one, never wear short skirts (my thunder thighs will simply not allow it) and the last time I wore a very low top, my tits spilled out onto the snooker table, much to the delight of my lesbian friend. (Edited to say as it was not apparent: this happened about 10 years ago)
Now that I have written all this, I suppose what I would like to know is, what do you ladies wear normally and does this differ to when you are errm, out pulling and men, does less really mean more?
I can onlly answer for myself but .......... no lol
I do appreiciate a woman in nice underwear..... but thats for later........ before that seeing a well dressed woman and imagining whats underneath, thats a very powerfull stimulant.... if they have a skirt up their arse and a top open to the belly button it takes that away........
sad OMG Maia, you been looking at my pics again? :(
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the last time I wore a very low top, my tits spilled out onto the snooker table

sillyhwoar:
Wear it again and come and play with me, I won't care who wins..
As an answer, think Nora Batty and Marina off Last of the Summer Wine - both were extremes, but you get the drift
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sad OMG Maia, you been looking at my pics again? :(

Ermm no, I think you are mighty fine, Vix. biggrin :D
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I can onlly answer for myself but .......... no lol
I do appreiciate a woman in nice underwear..... but thats for later........ before that seeing a well dressed woman and imagining whats underneath, thats a very powerfull stimulant.... if they have a skirt up their arse and a top open to the belly button it takes that away........

I'm with sleazy :thumbup:
And I don't think H is into women anyways confused
Normally, I will wear a lowish top, as i find it amussing watching mens funny when they cant talk to my face !! Do they really think my tits will answer them?
For work situations I will wear a slightly higher neckline that just hints at my cleavage.
Socially, if it is not work related then it will be very low indeed!!! (suppose it could be classed as tarty, but who cares)
I dont do short skirts in any situations, I would feel rediculous in them at my age but often wear a long skirt with a slit at the back
Most men respond to the obvious. That is more or less predictable.
However its quite an undertaking to live with a woman who is a constant eye catcher. Particularly if she plays up to it and runs the full schlemozel. Some women do this because they like men who are full on and lecherous, and possibly won't have it any other way. Then it becomes habitual and expected by the admirers.
Many women also play the tart for a brief period in a relationship. This is often brought about by wearing various items of clothing which are bought for the purposes of enhancing sexual behaviour and performance.
All of which I am happy to indulge in.
Mr KC likes me to dress smartly if we go out special - usually skirt - and yes I wear long skirts cos my figure does not lend itself to short ones - he likes to know I don't have pants on. I must say that he likes men to be able to see some of my cleavage - it turns him on to think that others are looking at it. lol
I think that most people are turned on by sexiness - and that isn't always shown by what soemone wears - it's how people wear their clothes, attitude, conversation etc. And of course the clothes someone wear has to be in keeping with the place that they are in.
I've seen girls who think they look sexy and they look bloody awful - too much on show.
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Normally, I will wear a lowish top, as i find it amussing watching mens funny when they cant talk to my face !! Do they really think my tits will answer them?

I've not had any tits answer me back but a few slaps redface
Well, if the woman puts them on show, it's difficult for a red blooded male not to look. rolleyes
Depend how you define tarty. And also the location. If were going for a night out in Newcastle, then Shel won't wear miniskirts, but if were going to Cupids or another club then its the shortest skirt possible!! (mind I think she still has the legs for it).
John
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As an answer, think Nora Batty and Marina off Last of the Summer Wine - both were extremes, but you get the drift

Sorrry Phoenix, am not a native of this country, have no idea what they look like. confused
Dam right I like women to dress tarty and provocatively. It is a turn on for me. I do like to be with a woman and have other man look longingly at her. Oh I am awful!!!
lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
Today I managed to make a much younger (than me) bloke blush most beautifully whilst dressed for something dull and boring. It was SUCH a joy and gave me a little tingle. And not even a hint of any cleavage or leg.
Mind you my thunder thighs would never have the same effect anyway.
:happy: :happy:
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Normally, I will wear a lowish top, as i find it amussing watching mens funny when they cant talk to my face !! Do they really think my tits will answer them?

I've not had any tits answer me back but a few slaps redface
Well, if the woman puts them on show, it's difficult for a red blooded male not to look. rolleyes
And just why should woman not "put them on show"? bet your the first to whip your shirt of in the summer. and do you ever find women leering at you chest? i bet not, (lol)
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Today I managed to make a much younger (than me) bloke blush most beautifully whilst dressed for something dull and boring. :happy: :happy:

DO tell, what did you do??
Yes,I like the tarty look because it has its place and I find it sleazy and therefore erotic and inspirational. wink redface surprisedops: :oops:
:rascal: :rascal:
Nope don't like it at all and actually find it an embarassment to be around. There's a world of difference in being sexy and tarty and I've very rarely seen the two combine well.
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Today I managed to make a much younger (than me) bloke blush most beautifully whilst dressed for something dull and boring. :happy: :happy:

DO tell, what did you do??
Just told him to stop flirting with me... :rose: :rose: I didn't expect such a reaction and it was lovely. Fair perked up this jaded Jags!
:happy: :happy:
Nora Batty

Well, you did ask redface
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Nora Batty

Marina

My chest

Well, you did ask redface

I don't get it. confused
It suddenly just struck me, one person's definition of what's tarty is probably another person's definition of what's sexy, which makes it virtually impossible for us to even start on a common ground. Do we need to come to a decision as to what constitutes tarty?
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My chest

Well, you did ask redface

Ok I take it back, maybe you do get women leering at your chest!!!!!
god i hate people who show off just cos they can post pics on here!!
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It suddenly just struck me, one person's definition of what's tarty is probably another person's definition of what's sexy, which makes it virtually impossible for us to even start on a common ground. Do we need to come to a decision as to what constitutes tarty?

Good god, don't think that I say Nora Batty is tarty :doh:
She was the epitomy of how not to look femine, while Marina overdressed as a tart .
You had to see the TV series to appreciate it.
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god i hate people who show off just cos they can post pics on here!!

My first attempt and I was gobsmacked it worked.
ES you continue to amaze me with your every growing range of sexy underwear! No theres tarty for you!
wink
lol :lol: :lol:
Do men sexually prefer women who dress like a tart?

confused A tart is a professional who dresses in a way that appeals to men's sexual preferences. An advertising function that they have honed to perfection over thousands of years.
So of course men sexually prefer women who dress like tarts, because a tarts business relies on her ability to dress in a way that men want. dunno
lhk
Kat
Most blokes love tarty women on a night out, as long as it isn't theirs. Tarty women due to society and stereotypes are seen as easy and dirty, therefore more likely to shag you because you're a man rather than because you're attractive.
On the buffet of life, tarts are the great big chocolate cake that everyone's drawn to.
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Most blokes love tarty women on a night out, as long as it isn't theirs. Tarty women due to society and stereotypes are seen as easy and dirty, therefore more likely to shag you because you're a man rather than because you're attractive.
On the buffet of life, tarts are the great big chocolate cake that everyone's drawn to.

So everyone loves a tart! :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
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Most blokes love tarty women on a night out, as long as it isn't theirs. Tarty women due to society and stereotypes are seen as easy and dirty, therefore more likely to shag you because you're a man rather than because you're attractive.
On the buffet of life, tarts are the great big chocolate cake that everyone's drawn to.

So everyone loves a tart! :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: But they never seem to to quite fill you up ..... :twisted:
TART 1... informal sexually provocative or promiscuous woman
TART 2... pie or flan with sweet filling
I prefer number 2 after nice main meal and number 1 after 10 pints and a kebab lol
Seriously though it depends on the occasion every hot blooded guy likes a short skirt and nice legs!