I have been perusing the swiinger's stories section and have also been chatting to a few people about it. It might just be the stories I have read and the type of people I have chatted to but I get this impression that SEXUALLY, men do sometimes appreciate a woman who dresses like a tart. Now, what dressing like a tart actually entails varies but it seems to involve low cut tops, short skirts and tottering in high heels. I for one, never wear short skirts (my thunder thighs will simply not allow it) and the last time I wore a very low top, my tits spilled out onto the snooker table, much to the delight of my lesbian friend. (Edited to say as it was not apparent: this happened about 10 years ago)
Now that I have written all this, I suppose what I would like to know is, what do you ladies wear normally and does this differ to when you are errm, out pulling and men, does less really mean more?
I can onlly answer for myself but .......... no lol
I do appreiciate a woman in nice underwear..... but thats for later........ before that seeing a well dressed woman and imagining whats underneath, thats a very powerfull stimulant.... if they have a skirt up their arse and a top open to the belly button it takes that away........
Normally, I will wear a lowish top, as i find it amussing watching mens funny when they cant talk to my face !! Do they really think my tits will answer them?
For work situations I will wear a slightly higher neckline that just hints at my cleavage.
Socially, if it is not work related then it will be very low indeed!!! (suppose it could be classed as tarty, but who cares)
I dont do short skirts in any situations, I would feel rediculous in them at my age but often wear a long skirt with a slit at the back
Most men respond to the obvious. That is more or less predictable.
However its quite an undertaking to live with a woman who is a constant eye catcher. Particularly if she plays up to it and runs the full schlemozel. Some women do this because they like men who are full on and lecherous, and possibly won't have it any other way. Then it becomes habitual and expected by the admirers.
Many women also play the tart for a brief period in a relationship. This is often brought about by wearing various items of clothing which are bought for the purposes of enhancing sexual behaviour and performance.
All of which I am happy to indulge in.
Depend how you define tarty. And also the location. If were going for a night out in Newcastle, then Shel won't wear miniskirts, but if were going to Cupids or another club then its the shortest skirt possible!! (mind I think she still has the legs for it).
John
Today I managed to make a much younger (than me) bloke blush most beautifully whilst dressed for something dull and boring. It was SUCH a joy and gave me a little tingle. And not even a hint of any cleavage or leg.
Mind you my thunder thighs would never have the same effect anyway.
:happy: :happy:
Nope don't like it at all and actually find it an embarassment to be around. There's a world of difference in being sexy and tarty and I've very rarely seen the two combine well.
Most blokes love tarty women on a night out, as long as it isn't theirs. Tarty women due to society and stereotypes are seen as easy and dirty, therefore more likely to shag you because you're a man rather than because you're attractive.
On the buffet of life, tarts are the great big chocolate cake that everyone's drawn to.