I was thinking about this one.
I the thing is some like to some don't. I like to start slow, but kissing is something I like, when I get there.
The truth is if the right two people come together they fit like 'tongue in grove' If they have different ideas about what they want...
Hi everyone
Having just spent about 45mins reading all 7 pages of this thread, I have to agree with you all !
We are very touchy/feely/kissy people, and consider kissing a very important part of "sex"
Donna will not swing with anyone who says no to kissing - end of. She considers it a essential part of sex, and needs a good snog to "get going"
I have as a single male swung with 3 couples MMF, two with kissing / snogging etc, one with rule up front "no kissing"
Its hard to describe, but kissing = passion = great sex, it does not mean emotional attachment or love. The swings with kissing went on for 2 or 3 hours.
The swing with no kissing was fun, but just sex, it was passionless (for me), and once I came once that was it, end of.
It makes no sense why kissing is more intermate than oral sex etc, but I have to agree that it is, dont know why.................
TTFN
Richard.
I love kissing and I don't think I could get turned on without a good long snog first. Theres a time and a place for it though and I would really really hate someone sticking their tongue down my throat within minutes of meeting them!
I do not generally kisss the stangers who have sex with me until after sex when I usually kiss them as a thankyou if they have made me cum. Men that I go with regularly get kissed a lot though - my husband says he is often turned on more seeing me kiss other men than watching them go inside me. I love to kiss a man's nipples (and ladies)during sex, even with people I have just met, but not on their lips - thy often tsake this for an invitation for deeep tonguing - I have to have had sex with a man many times before I enjoy this type of kissing.
I love kissing, but I couldnt just kiss anyone, there has to be some sort of attraction there. Otherwise it just feels wrong.
Louise xx
I love a good snog but never use tongues untill I know its ok to do so..
I love kissing; from brushing my lips over a nose to deep passionate ones. I love breathing in the scent of a woman as I do so. It is so varied too. Mmmmm, parting the hair from the shoulder from behind and kissing from the shoulder to the back of the neck. Wow!
I was with one couple and the woman didn't want to do fellatio. No problems, she was a deeply sensuous woman and she kissed like an angel for hours. I was with another couple and she loved fellatio and taking semen in her mouth but would only give me a peck on the cheek. People are different. I know I like kissing though.
I met a 'no kissing' couple once and I respected their wish but it felt like something was missing especially as we were so intimate in other ways!
The sooner the better hunnie, can't wait.
:inlove:
And breathing gently into an ear. Does nuzzling with a nose count as kissing? I like that.
Kissing the back of the knee and working up the back of the thigh towards.....
Kissing eyelids.
Pulling your partner's top or bottom lip with your own.
That first tentative touching of tongue tips.
Finding what your partner is most sensitive about her body and kissing that.
And, er, um, kissing a pussy. That ain't bad too.
We once had a PM from a couple that said they don't do passionate kissing whilst in the throes of sex but do do it as a "warm up" activity. Their view was that it was 'too dangerous' whilst in the heat of passion for emotions to run riot (each to their own and all that!)
Like others have said before me, I don't see sensual kissing as an emotional attachment at all but it IS essential for us to get turned on and ready for more activity. Our profile states I adore kissing and require equally enthusiastic erotic kissers. :lickface:
pink x