Good question!
I think I'd expect it to lead to sex (or that HE'D expect it to lead to sex!)
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Do you want to come back for a coffee ?
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Sex God
To be honest, because of the swinging link, I would make sure what was intended. Swingers are likely to assume sex is on the cards more than vanillas and it's always best to be sure first.
Sex God
to be honest I have never been able to take that line seriously at all... so regardless of where I'd met them I'd be suspicious!! 
But from an SH meet point of view, I wouldn't go back to someone's house on a first meet... so we'd have to find an all night caff for coffee or carry on chatting in the pub!
Nola xx
But from an SH meet point of view, I wouldn't go back to someone's house on a first meet... so we'd have to find an all night caff for coffee or carry on chatting in the pub!
Nola xx
Sex God
i have to be honest here and if i meant want to come back for sex i would say just that! do we really need to mince our words..
if i sed coffee i would mean coffee
anyway
if you wanna get your hands on our coffee you are gonna have to work for it.... :lol:
staggy
if i sed coffee i would mean coffee
anyway
if you wanna get your hands on our coffee you are gonna have to work for it....
:lol: staggy
Sex God
did they /she / he get the coffee or were they duped into having just sex?
a whole new topic would be what kind of coffee was on offer...black, white , camp, with chocolate sprinkles?
you wouldnt get me falling for the old 'come back for coffee' routine only to find i was being offered a straight nescafe without consideration for Rose and her fondness for Tea ...
seriously it shouldnt be necessary to hide what you want here should it, but i suppose to a degree many of us still do.
staggy
a whole new topic would be what kind of coffee was on offer...black, white , camp, with chocolate sprinkles?
you wouldnt get me falling for the old 'come back for coffee' routine only to find i was being offered a straight nescafe without consideration for Rose and her fondness for Tea ...
seriously it shouldnt be necessary to hide what you want here should it, but i suppose to a degree many of us still do.
staggy
Quote by foxylady2209
To be honest, because of the swinging link, I would make sure what was intended.
Just wanna hi-lite what foxy posted
I have been invited back for coffee on many occasions & I neverassume sex in on the cards unless it has blatantly hinted at, panties stuffed in my mouth & the girl on the floor in front of me frothing at the mouth with a wide-on!
A swift kick in the balls will leave me with a missing link never mind swinging link
Sex God
Ive just realised where Iv been going wrong all these years
Sex God
Quote by redpantherman
But then foxy you know your always welcome to my place for ...ahem, 'coffee' :rascal:
Awww thank you gorgeous. Of course it's that same distance driving North as it is driving South.
:wink: :wink: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: Tea for me please
I have met *some* guys who think that an invite back for coffee means back for sex........ and are actually a bit taken back when asked how they take it
Coffee I mean!! Tut! :lol: :lol: :lol:
Then you come back from the kitchen coffee in hand and they are sat nakkid on ya sofa
:? :?
I have met *some* guys who think that an invite back for coffee means back for sex........ and are actually a bit taken back when asked how they take it
Coffee I mean!! Tut! :lol: :lol: :lol:
Then you come back from the kitchen coffee in hand and they are sat nakkid on ya sofa
:? :? 
Sex God
From experience the question really should be:
Do you want to come back for a coffee which will then stand for ages and get cold while we find something much more exciting to get on with instead?
Do you want to come back for a coffee which will then stand for ages and get cold while we find something much more exciting to get on with instead?
Sex God
Come back for coffee to me means come back for coffee :-)
Sex God
Quote by Steve
Come back for coffee to me means come back for coffee :-)
and me too
Orgasminator
“come back for coffee” to me means “ Hey I’m enjoying your company and I don’t want you to go home just yet” – It doesn’t necessarily mean “come back for sex” – but neither does it rule it out !!
Orgasminator
Quote by Phuckers
HJ may i borrow your brain for the rest of the week
Of course you can my friend -- you can have the two cells at the front and I'll keep the two at the back
Sexlightened
For me a lot depends on how the evening went prior to the invite. No sexual tension what so ever I’d take it as coffee. Lots of sexual tension, flowing from both directions, I’d take it as coffee and perhaps some more time for things do move on a level.
The above applies to people out with here. I’d expect someone from here to be honest/straight to the point and ask for sex if that is in fact what they want.
The above applies to people out with here. I’d expect someone from here to be honest/straight to the point and ask for sex if that is in fact what they want.
Quote by HJ
“come back for coffee” to me means “ Hey I’m enjoying your company and I don’t want you to go home just yet” – It doesn’t necessarily mean “come back for sex” – but neither does it rule it out !!
:thumbup:
I'll put the kettle on and if I want sex I'll let you know
If I don't mention it, you ain't getting it! :evil2: 
:rascal: 