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Following on from a bit of a conversation at the weekend, when arranging a meet do you dress to impress?
Are you a raunchy lingerie person or a take me as you find me kind? Do you spend hours and a small fortune getting ready?
(I'm not talking personal hygiene/grooming here - am going to presume for the purposes of the thread that everyone makes an effort in that department at least! :shock: wink )
Me: dependent on who am meeting, then yes there is usually new underwear purchased (finances allowing) and then sometimes specific items of clothing... like sexy shoes or maybe latex gloves etc are taken to add to the meet.
I like to derss smartly but more importantly to me is to feel comfortable....
If I'm not comfortable then the meeting will probably not go as planned/expected as I wont feel at ease...
It made sense in my head anyway :lol2:
Anyone turned on by PJ's?! :giggle:
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Anyone turned on by PJ's?! :giggle:

I could be innocent
I make every effort.
Not only do I turn my y-fronts inside out, I give them a spray with the "Old Spice" and put on my least holey cardigan.
I have even been known to brush my teeth a week in advance, and bathe a good month or so beforehand. I also like to cover myself from head to toe in Talcum powder so when de-bagged, I look like a bon-bon.
Form an orderly queue ladies.
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Oh Res that made me giggle! kiss
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I make every effort.
Not only do I turn my y-fronts inside out, I give them a spray with the "Old Spice" and put on my least holey cardigan.
I have even been known to brush my teeth a week in advance, and bathe a good month or so beforehand. I also like to cover myself from head to toe in Talcum powder so when de-bagged, I look like a bon-bon.
Form an orderly queue ladies.

I think we've already met confused
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Anyone turned on by PJ's?! :giggle:

Stripy, or with little cutesy animals on them?
Quote by Mmmaybe
Anyone turned on by PJ's?! :giggle:

Stripy, or with little cutesy animals on them?
Both?! :giggle:
Depends what kind of meet really. If it's a meet for sex then I'd wear suitably pretty/naughty undies. If it's a social or a first meet, then whatever I feel comfy in.
If it's for an upcoming photography session I'd buy new undies and maybe some PVC boots.
I went shopping yesterday innocent
Quote by Dirtygirly
Anyone turned on by PJ's?! :giggle:

Stripy, or with little cutesy animals on them?
Both?! :giggle:
Stripy please. Never mix your stipes with your pink eflunts. For goodness sakes girl, who is your bedroom fashion consultant??!
I wouldn't wear my favourite, greying, holey up-to-the-armpit thermals on a first meet but do need to feel comfortable in myself. Like Steve says, if I'm not at ease/relaxed then the meeting probably won't be either.
Never been a 'girlie girl' and you wouldn't catch me in stockings etc. And I gave up trying to pretend for others' sakes years ago. But I do like to know there's something nice under there to be removed if I'm meeting someone - even if I have no intention of doing any removing that day! Makes me feel sexier which makes the 'energy' work well - and you never know...
It depends how I feel.
Normally I wear whatever I fancy and it won't be stockings. I feel like a trussed up turkey in them and really feel as far from sexy as I can in them. Unless they are covered by clothes - I wear them for work for example. I don't actually like being undressed by people either.
I do avoid those profiles where the men say 'I like women who dress to impress' it puts me off. I am a woman not a mannequin the only person I dress to impress is myself and if I feel good then I think that I will look good.
I fuck naked so whatever I have on is ending up on the floor/chair/bed etc anyway.
Quote by Dirtygirly
Anyone turned on by PJ's?! :giggle:

Yep definitely!!!
I'm always in them, along with fluffy bedsox...it's essential comfortwear and also they're not too difficult to gain entry to are they!! innocent
Quote by splendid_
It depends how I feel.
Normally I wear whatever I fancy and it won't be stockings. I feel like a trussed up turkey in them and really feel as far from sexy as I can in them.
... if I feel good then I think that I will look good.

Yes! Exactly!
I usually dress smart but relaxed (is that the same as casual?) but occasionaly dust off the Kilt for some of those more up market special nights.
I like to dress for a meet - its about the only time you'll see me in a skirt or dress! I usually take the time to find out what the man in question likes; stockings, boots etc and will always have sexy undies on. I know some will say I ought to dress for myself but when I have made an effort for a man, and the look on his face tells me that was appreciated (or the twitch in his pants!!), then THAT look is for me and worth the effort. Does that make any sense?
But I like to se that a man has taken time over his appearance for me too. As R says; annual wash & brush up!!
But when I'm at home or in bed alone- yep I'm a fan of comfort so its PJs and jeans.
Wench xx
Quote by Firelizard
Anyone turned on by PJ's?! :giggle:

Yep definitely!!!
I'm always in them, along with fluffy bedsox...it's essential comfortwear and also they're not too difficult to gain entry to are they!! innocent
Excellent!! There's hope for me yet! :thumbup:
:rascal:
DG, maybe you should form the PJ posse or the jammie mammies for similar minded peeps to yourself :giggle:
Quote by Steve
I like to derss smartly but more importantly to me is to feel comfortable....
If I'm not comfortable then the meeting will probably not go as planned/expected as I wont feel at ease...
It made sense in my head anyway :lol2:

What Steve says works for me :thumbup:
I impress myself every time I get dressed, What's even more impressive is getting my feet on the right shoes every time :giggle:
My going out PJ's are so cool though they have little teddy bears on and are flannelette (this years must have material), I have going out slippers to match, Far better than my house PJ's
My mother must be so proud lol cool
On a serious note, I make an effort I dont buy new underwear or anything though, I buy enough knickers to wear new for 5 years though :lol2: and if I feel to comfortable then I don't feel sexy
I wish I could wear my cloak of invisibility but unfortunatly its not working at the moment and as it is pink to start with, I feel a bit like a bubble gum bubble wearing it. I have several outfits all of which are the same style and colour (black).
I also do if the occasion allows like to wear a pair of yellow Bermuda shorts though there are standards of decency that have to be observed mostimes biggrin
I wear whatever makes me feel good! Bugga, anyone else......
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I wear whatever makes me feel good! Bugga, anyone else......

Wrong thread - You want the "How gay are you" topicbiggrin
Quote by anais
I wear whatever makes me feel good! Bugga, anyone else......

Have to agree with that one, I dress to impress my self!
Best way, then you've no one to blame but yourself, if your pulling pants dont work! wink
always have a mneet for a quick drink before going away and if we clicked arranging a sexy night.
for the socialmeet, its fullmade upand typically just jeans and nice top, i dont always trust myself to wear a skirt lol
depending on the person i might wear stockings and knee high pvc boots, ot tone it down to just sude knee highs and no stockings.
take about 3-4 hours preparing if im going out,longer if im accommodating,house is blitzed bedding fresh etc . this is why im so p off when stood up,im smooth and preened within a inch of my life for nowt.
xx fem xx
gotta say its nice when guys notice and when they make a effort to.
just cause its swinging dont mean you cant say "you look nice"
xx
Quote by Dawnie
I like to derss smartly but more importantly to me is to feel comfortable....
If I'm not comfortable then the meeting will probably not go as planned/expected as I wont feel at ease...
It made sense in my head anyway :lol2:

What Steve says works for me :thumbup:
Should I be worried that we're on the same wavelength :lol2:
Quote by Steve
I like to derss smartly but more importantly to me is to feel comfortable....
If I'm not comfortable then the meeting will probably not go as planned/expected as I wont feel at ease...
It made sense in my head anyway :lol2:

What Steve says works for me :thumbup:
Should I be worried that we're on the same wavelength :lol2:
You have a point :eeek: :eeek: :eeek:
Still, I don't fart as bad as you innocent
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Still, I don't fart as bad as you innocent

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I always take time to think about what to wear for a meet!
Sexy undies are a must, not necessarily stockings!!
I will have always found out what the person I am meeting likes in way of undies i.e white, black, red, pink etc, lacy, pvc and make sure I wear a suitable selction.
Mkaing this effort makes me feel sexy and gorgoeus and whilst I know what I am wearing underneath, they don't, which is s real turn on!!!
The outer layers will be dependent on where I am meeting and what we are doing!!! but will always be smart and sexy and maybe smart sexy and causual if going for a drink.
I expect the person I am meeting to have made a real effort as well and not just turn up in tatty clothes and smelling like they havent showered for weeks smile
Dress to impress I say, and first impressiosn count!!!
and it would help if I could spell!!!!! o well it is early biggrin