drugs and swinging

6 Dec 2003

hello ther i have been looking at the profiles of some of the other swinging sites and it seems to me that quit a few of the members are doing the drug thing sad people i was wondering if people on this site had to smoke the dope shoot themselves up or pop pills to enjoy them selves in the swinging scene if so they should be ashamed of themselves why kill yourselves slowly when a bus will put you out of your suffering faster and why get stoned to enjoy yourself when being compis mentis is better and you can remember what you got up to and if you enjoyed yourself?

6 Dec 2003

FRED!!! Need you again...

6 Dec 2003

I agree with you mostly Lesmond. I have to say; at least they are stating they are doing drugs so you won't be completely shocked if you met up with them.
However I don't believe your phrase:

Quote by lesmond
kill yourselves slowly when a bus will put you out of your suffering faster

I do not condone the use of illegal substances and the 'pushing' onto others but I do believe in the right of free will and the freedom to experiment. Why should they be ashamed of their own actions? Who is to say what is right and what is wrong? Who says they are suffering?
I personally inject twice a day, but before you all damn me to hell; this is only medication and never recreation. Practically everybody in the UK has taken drugs, caffeine, parracetamol etc.. All of these can be lethal if taken to the extremes, the same goes for the illegal substances. Except in the extreme cases they tend to be an awful lot less volume needed.
If the drug scene is not your scene then just stay away. I don't want to be dragged into anything like that but I do like the option of choice if I wanted to do it.
A nice quote from

Quote by Stephen Wright
"24 hours in a day, 24 beers in a case. Coincidence? I think not."

Drink is the only recreational drug for me.

6 Dec 2003

Quote by lesmond
i was wondering if people on this site had to smoke the dope shoot themselves up or pop pills to enjoy them selves in the swinging scene if so they should be ashamed of themselves

The answer to your question is NO!!! Quite the opposite in fact.
Who the hell would want to swing with somebody that was stoned, pissed or not fully compos mentis for whatever reason?
Sure, I've seen seen people having a 'smoke' on occasion but no more so than you might find in a town centre pub on a Saturday night......probably less. I'm not condoning it but I accept it happens......it's got nothing to do with swinging though.....it's the society we live in.

6 Dec 2003

yes i no its personal choice but they are shuving it in peoples faces when they meet up for swinging you would of thought they would stay compis mentis if they were meting people for fun at least that way they are not involving people and they would be able to remember what they got upto prescribed medicine saves lives drugs do serious harm why do they bother

6 Dec 2003

hello there you nice people i have looking through the profiles and noticed that about 4 in ten have to take drugs whats the point in that if you cant have fun without them what is the point if you cant remember what you got upto and if you enjoyed it or not this is just my opinion life is for living and enjoying what is the point of killing your self slowly just as well step in front of a bus save years of pain and delusion
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Just thought I'd insert the post of the same subject that you put on Dirty-David...................
So, which mission are you on today ?
My reply is the same you will be reading on DDs' site.
Which game are you playing than ?

6 Dec 2003

Just wanted to say Steveg_NW,
Really looking forward to your problem and solution today. You've kept us all waiting.

6 Dec 2003

im not playing any games just stating an opinion incase anyone else isnt on the other sites

6 Dec 2003

If the posts from lesmond and jomu hadn't been posted at the same time from different IP addresses I'd have sworn they'd both come from the same person.

Quote by jomu
hello there you nice people i have looking through the profiles and noticed that about 4 in ten have to take drugs

I strongly disagree with this. The policy of this site is that reference to drugs (or any other illegal activity) is not allowed. The moderators have recently put a lot of effort into cleaning up the ad system and it is now closely monitored.
Each ad now has a "report this ad" option. The purpose of this option is to give people browsing the ads the facility to bring ads containing reference to illegal/dubious activities to the notice of the moderators. Once reported to the moderators these ads will be dealt with in the appropriate manner, including in some cases banning the poster from using the site altogether.

6 Dec 2003

Steve is right - ALL ads/postings making reference to drugs, non-consensual acts, offering or requesting money etc are removed immediately. Obviously us mods can't monitor things 24 hours a day so all you lot have to pitch in and help - if you read such a thing then report it or PM us. Same with dodgy stories.
I don't think you realise the amount of effort which goes on behind the scenes.
banghead

6 Dec 2003

Quote by Jags
Steve is right - ALL ads/postings making reference to drugs, non-consensual acts, offering or requesting money etc are removed immediately.

I have a distinct feeling that Lesmond here wasn't talking about this site at all. Especially since Jomu has pulled Lesmonds thread of another site which, we can only assume, has the talked about drug references on.
Are you just wanting to have a debate about drug use Lesmond?
Do you think that swingers are more prone to drug use?
Are you just airing some past unfortunate scenarios that have happened to you and you are wanting to talk about them?
As far as I know, this whole site is as clean as a whistle, which has just been polished. Please elaborate on your first post in this thread to clear any misunderstanding.

6 Dec 2003

Quote by Jags
FRED!!! Need you again...

Sorry Jags, Fred's in the Tub right now.
But maybe I can Help.
Wilma throws Lesmond her sequined bag brimming with full stops, commas and copious amounts of other punctuation.
Hope that does the trick!!!
Love
Wilma xx
"Drugs - who needs em?" :smoke:
NOT ME I HASTEN TO ADD
(me thinks the lack of punctuation indicates the man is on speed - lol)

6 Dec 2003

Thanks Wilma - here's hoping they all fall in the correct place!
Does Fred need his back scrubbed?? wink

x xx

6 Dec 2003

Quote by Jags
Thanks Wilma - here's hoping they all fall in the correct place!
Does Fred need his back scrubbed??
x xx

Thought you were never gonna ask hun!
What do i have to do? - I know - send you a picture of my dick! - on it's way Jags.......... rotflmao

Please get here soon - Wilma is out of action and I am burstin'!
Fred xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

6 Dec 2003

Quote by lesmond
hello ther i have been looking at the profiles of some of the other swinging sites and it seems to me that quit a few of the members are doing the drug thing sad people i was wondering if people on this site had to smoke the dope shoot themselves up or pop pills to enjoy them selves in the swinging scene if so they should be ashamed of themselves why kill yourselves slowly when a bus will put you out of your suffering faster and why get stoned to enjoy yourself when being compis mentis is better and you can remember what you got up to and if you enjoyed yourself?

I was going to say I read the first sentence and gave up - but even that is not true! It is one bloody long sentence!
I have to say that my recent studies have begun to show that it is the little brain taking over the typing from the big brain. I have also discovered that you can tell the size of the penis by the typing....
If the todger is less than 4 inches you always get an "a" and a "z" after every "q" and an "l" and a "," after every "p". This is because they cannot reach far enough across the keyboard.
If it is between 4 inches and 6 inches you only get an "a" and an "l" after the corresponding letters.
If it is greater than 6 inches then the typing is perfect but the spelling, grammer and punctuation are all still pants!
There now follows a short message from my own tadger
QAZuit PL,l,aying azbout Fred
Right - question that was asked - do we need drugs?
Why - we got the forum and single males - what more do we need!
Cannot say I have ever laughed as much under the influence of anything as much as I have in here!
Fred

6 Dec 2003

Free punctuation lesson for all the single males letting their small brains type messages for them.
How do you punctuate the following sentence?
no worry no worry worry worry worry
Answer:
.no worry. no worry worry, worry, worry!
How do I get that answer I hear the purists amongst you say.......
Think about it.....
period - no worry - period - no worry - no period - worry, worry, worry! :twisted: :twisted:
Too difficult? rotflmao

Keep up guys!
Fred

6 Dec 2003

To: Steveg_nw.
The inserted piece was not written by me.
It was from a dirty-david forum posted by "Les".
Hence the familiarity.
I, presonally, I am in favour of all drugs.
The Lord knows where we would be without penicillin...not to mention aspirin, paracetamol and the contraceptive pill.

6 Dec 2003

Quote by Flintstones
Thanks Wilma - here's hoping they all fall in the correct place!
Does Fred need his back scrubbed??
x xx

Thought you were never gonna ask hun!
What do i have to do? - I know - send you a picture of my dick! - on it's way Jags.......... rotflmao

Please get here soon - Wilma is out of action and I am burstin'!
Fred xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Get a mirror and the pick it!!!
AND you get a slap for the pic sentence.... SLAP!!
x x

6 Dec 2003

My mistake Jomu :doh: didn't catch on the first time round. Thanks for pointing it out. smile

Quote by Jomu
I, presonally, I am in favour of all drugs.
The Lord knows where we would be without penicillin...not to mention aspirin, paracetamol and the contraceptive pill.

Maybe in the right hands Jomu. It's when they get in the wrong hands that the problems start.

6 Dec 2003

Yes, I can imagine that the "pill" in the wrong hands could present problems.
Personally, I had a few years on the socially acceptable drug, alcohol.
I seem to have a six year gap in my memories, punctuated by things like police cells and hospitals etc.
Not to mention waking-up one morning in Brighton and wondering how the hell I was to get a drink with no dosh...since I live in Bedford..no problem..got a small job and eventually got home...about a month late.
So, what happens now ?
No alcohol, no money.
Why ?
Married, 2 kids, then divorce.
No problem, more dogging time.
Brighton again this summer, sod work

6 Dec 2003

Here are a few sayings from some all time greats:
Jack Handy
"Sometimes when I reflect back on all the beer I drink I feel ashamed.
Then I look into the glass and think about the workers in the brewery and
all of their hopes and dreams. If I didn't drink this beer, they might be
out of work and their dreams would be shattered. Then I say to myself,
"It is better that I drink this beer and let their dreams come true than be
selfish and worry about my liver."
Frank Sinatra
"I feel sorry for people who don't drink. When they wake up in the morning, that's as good as they're going to feel all day."
Ernest Hemingway
"An intelligent man is sometimes forced to be drunk in order to spend time
with his friends."
Brian O'Rourke
"When we drink, we get drunk.
When we get drunk, we fall asleep.
When we fall asleep, we commit no sin.
When we commit no sin, we go to heaven.
Sooooo, let's all get drunk and go to heaven!"
Henny Youngman
"When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading."
Benjamin Franklin
"Beer is proof that God loves us and wants us to be happy."
Dave Barry
"Without question, the greatest invention in the history of mankind is beer.
Oh, I grant you that the wheel was also a fine invention, but the wheel
does not go nearly as well with pizza."
lol

And, saving the best for last, as explained by Cliff Clavin, of Cheers. (Loved that show)
One afternoon at Cheers, Cliff Clavin was explaining the Buffalo Theory to
his buddy Norm.
Here's how it went:
"Well ya see, Norm, it's like this... A herd of buffalo can only move as
fast as the slowest buffalo. And when the herd is hunted, it is the slowest
and weakest ones at the back that are killed first.
This natural selection is good for the herd as a whole, because the general
speed and health of the whole group keeps improving by the regular killing
of the weakest members.
"In much the same way, the human brain can only operate as fast as the
slowest brain cells. Excessive intake of alcohol, as we know, kills brain
cells. But naturally, it attacks the slowest and weakest brain cells first.
In this way, regular consumption of beer eliminates the weaker brain cells,
making the brain a faster and more efficient machine.
That's why you always feel smarter after a few beers."
:beer:

6 Dec 2003

Quote by lesmond
hello ther i have been looking at the profiles of some of the other swinging sites and it seems to me that quit a few of the members are doing the drug thing sad people i was wondering if people on this site had to smoke the dope shoot themselves up or pop pills to enjoy them selves in the swinging scene if so they should be ashamed of themselves why kill yourselves slowly when a bus will put you out of your suffering faster and why get stoned to enjoy yourself when being compis mentis is better and you can remember what you got up to and if you enjoyed yourself?

Is this post also available in English?

6 Dec 2003

Personally I refuse any if offered. The only thing I need to get me hot is a young guy.

8 Dec 2003

i was reffering to illeagle drugs i have known one or to i no this site is goods but profiles on other sites suggest there are a lot of drug users in the swinging scene which gives it a bad name if they have go to use drugs to have fun they should staY away from swinging

8 Dec 2003

:doh:

8 Dec 2003

Quote by Jags
Get a mirror and the pick it!!!

Is anyone able to translate this for me?
Can someone get me a pint of whatever she is drinking? What are you on woman? :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Fred

8 Dec 2003

Quote by Flintstones

Get a mirror and the pick it!!!

Is anyone able to translate this for me?
Can someone get me a pint of whatever she is drinking? What are you on woman? :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Fred
It was my usual Pinot Grigio - though I might just move onto Merlot soon.
Sharpens wit for later when Fred sees what I've written elsewhere
x xx

8 Dec 2003

Quote by Jags
Sharpens wit for later when Fred sees what I've written elsewhere

She is bluffing - I am not gonna blink first!
Tell me she is bluffing?
........Just gonna go have a look see.
BRB!
Fred

8 Dec 2003

I NEVER EVER EVER bluff!!!
evil

:twisted:

8 Dec 2003

Nope, not needed here either, Fred is quite able to get himself in deep trouble!
Onward and upward!
lhk
Kat