Well, time for another post.
I am currently with a lady who uses expressive language whenever we are engaged in sexual activities. She uses the eff and C words without hesitation. Now I do find this an incredible turn on - especially as I love to talk during sex. The funny thing is that she would almost never swear outside of a sexual situation.
I'd just like to find out what the good people here think of using such language during sex? Good, bad , horny or not?
Paul
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Expressive words (or, "talking dirty" during sex)
I must confess that my uses of the ol' A,B,C's dramatically increases when i am having a good session! I don't know what it is but there is nothing sexier in my book than being told what a (i'll be polite lol) naughty girl i am! And in return the verbals fly out 
Have been with guys who didn't like/feel comfortable with sex talk and i must say that it wasn't as much fun for nice guys beware :twisted: lol
Have been with guys who didn't like/feel comfortable with sex talk and i must say that it wasn't as much fun for nice guys beware :twisted: lol
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In my experience, telling someone that they're a dirty little slut generally makes them behave like one.... here's hoping anyway :twisted: :twisted:
ops: Love talking dirty/being dirty talked at during sexual activity :oops: :oops: 
Sex God
i have been told that i mutter complete nonsense when i have an orgasm, i have never been able to remember afterwards though! 
i sometimes feel the need to be told what a naughty bad girl i am, and am often found graphically describing what i want in colourfull language!
but the rest of the time i am sweet and polite......so let me off!
i sometimes feel the need to be told what a naughty bad girl i am, and am often found graphically describing what i want in colourfull language!
but the rest of the time i am sweet and polite......so let me off!
:cry: Poor Dawn
I am sure that the combined intellect of the Swinging Heaven membership can come up with some ways to work through what must be a frustrating barrier for you.
Try this simple one for starters
Practice one - commit this phrase to memory, then close your eyes and attempt to say it out loud.
Fuzzy Duck - Fuzzy Duck - Fuzzy Duck - Fuzzy Duck - Fuzzy Duck - Ducky Fuzz - Ducky Fuzz - Ducky Fuzz - Ducky Fuzz - Ducky Fuzz - Ducky Fuzz - Fuzzy Duck -
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Kat
I am sure that the combined intellect of the Swinging Heaven membership can come up with some ways to work through what must be a frustrating barrier for you.
Try this simple one for starters
Practice one - commit this phrase to memory, then close your eyes and attempt to say it out loud.
Fuzzy Duck - Fuzzy Duck - Fuzzy Duck - Fuzzy Duck - Fuzzy Duck - Ducky Fuzz - Ducky Fuzz - Ducky Fuzz - Ducky Fuzz - Ducky Fuzz - Ducky Fuzz - Fuzzy Duck -
lhk
Kat
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:Quote by KitKat
Practice one - commit this phrase to memory, then close your eyes and attempt to say it out loud.
Fuzzy Duck - Fuzzy Duck - Fuzzy Duck - Fuzzy Duck - Fuzzy Duck - Ducky Fuzz - Ducky Fuzz - Ducky Fuzz - Ducky Fuzz - Ducky Fuzz - Ducky Fuzz - Fuzzy Duck
OMG Kat
:shock: :shock: :shock: you made me do dirty talk!!! :shock: :shock: :shock:
It made me jump!!!! :scared: :shock:
Dawn, I'm with you on this one. I love it done to me but it sounds so stupid when I try to say anything and then turn into MissShy! ......
.....Until now!!!! Will take me a minute or so of Fuzzy Ducks and Ducky Fuzzes but after that its all :censored: all the way :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
any tips for how to say other words Kat? :twisted:
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Dawn, I'm with you on this one. I love it done to me but it sounds so stupid when I try to say anything and then turn into MissShy!
I know MISSCHIEF which is such a turn off but those words just won't come out no matter how much I practice saying them in my head.
Gggggggggrrrrrrrrr someone teach me to talk dirty :!: Fuzzy Ducks not working
:x :x Dawn :silly:
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PHEW!!! So glad it's not just me!
I find it a huge turn on to have bad things said to me, but if I try to return with my own dirty talk, my mind goes completely blank and I can't think of a thing to say.
If I'm in a situation where I'm being sub and he tells me what to say I don't find it quite so difficult, but I generally just feel silly if I try talking dirty. Whispered fantasies are one thing, but name calling etc just don't come naturally to me at all.
I love this place, all of my insecurities seem far less important once I realise I'm not alone in having them!
I find it a huge turn on to have bad things said to me, but if I try to return with my own dirty talk, my mind goes completely blank and I can't think of a thing to say.
If I'm in a situation where I'm being sub and he tells me what to say I don't find it quite so difficult, but I generally just feel silly if I try talking dirty. Whispered fantasies are one thing, but name calling etc just don't come naturally to me at all.
I love this place, all of my insecurities seem far less important once I realise I'm not alone in having them!
:lol2: daffodilbbw .... well at least when you split you, no doubt, left him with a huge complex :lol2:
Oh I am so relieved too!! I really thought I was the only one that couldn't talk dirty!
As soon as a bad word pops out I get visions of my mothers disapproving face tutting at me :shock: ..... an inside the head equivalent of a bucket of ice cold water.
Oh I am so relieved too!! I really thought I was the only one that couldn't talk dirty!
As soon as a bad word pops out I get visions of my mothers disapproving face tutting at me :shock: ..... an inside the head equivalent of a bucket of ice cold water.
I am really crappy at this. Need some practice... ;)
Actually, this is one thing that entirely passes me by. I love to hear a woman talking during sex, but whether she's using "dirty" words or "clean" words doesn't affect me; I'm much more interested in what she's saying. Love to hear a woman telling me how she feels (meaning how I'M making her feel) and what she needs (what she needs ME to do and where she wants ME to touch her... okay, yeah, I've got a huge ego :twisted: )...
Actually, this is one thing that entirely passes me by. I love to hear a woman talking during sex, but whether she's using "dirty" words or "clean" words doesn't affect me; I'm much more interested in what she's saying. Love to hear a woman telling me how she feels (meaning how I'M making her feel) and what she needs (what she needs ME to do and where she wants ME to touch her... okay, yeah, I've got a huge ego :twisted: )...
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Well, time for another post.
I am currently with a lady who uses expressive language whenever we are engaged in sexual activities. She uses the eff and C words without hesitation. Now I do find this an incredible turn on - especially as I love to talk during sex. The funny thing is that she would almost never swear outside of a sexual situation.
I'd just like to find out what the good people here think of using such language during sex? Good, bad , horny or not?
Paul
Talking dirty during sexual intercourse is a right turn on for me and especially if the Lady uses it, it makes the act so much more enjoyable, also, if she shouts loud during the sex gives me an even greater thrill.
Women who just lie there and don't say anything are a right turn off, because a man doesn't know if she is enjoying it or not, if there is no reaction from the female, it is not the same as one who will
show her passion.
I had a girlfriend who never swore . Totally sweet and polite . Her parents heard me swear once and boy did i get the damien stare !!!
One day my girlfriend and I are having sex ,when all of a sudden out of nowhere come this long list f- words c -words the lot ... now i had always wished she would , but to hear it for the first time I was pretty damn sure she had become pocessed , The thought of her head spinning all the way round ,and me getting a facefull of green slime completly turned me off!!! .......
In all serious though . It did unsettle me and I was taken aback so much so I suddenly felt insecure..why?.. i have no idea..
One day my girlfriend and I are having sex ,when all of a sudden out of nowhere come this long list f- words c -words the lot ... now i had always wished she would , but to hear it for the first time I was pretty damn sure she had become pocessed , The thought of her head spinning all the way round ,and me getting a facefull of green slime completly turned me off!!! .......
In all serious though . It did unsettle me and I was taken aback so much so I suddenly felt insecure..why?.. i have no idea..
My Ex did a similar thing, would never swear even when pissed and wouldnt even support my well executed hand gestures at other driver who were so obviously in the wrong!
One day during a good hammering i pulled back for a mighty thrust and pop out the old fella came and was making a rather rapid decent to the middle of the bumhole! (that was a no go zone anyway) and "contact" then the string of expletives that followed were to be beaten by no man.
I was told in no uncertain terms to never F*cking try that again and she even called me a C*nt!
I never again heard her swear and never had the balls to ask why she never swears.
If i wer to meet her again i would just poke he in the bum for the hell of it to make her swear, te he.
One day during a good hammering i pulled back for a mighty thrust and pop out the old fella came and was making a rather rapid decent to the middle of the bumhole! (that was a no go zone anyway) and "contact" then the string of expletives that followed were to be beaten by no man.
I was told in no uncertain terms to never F*cking try that again and she even called me a C*nt!
I never again heard her swear and never had the balls to ask why she never swears.
If i wer to meet her again i would just poke he in the bum for the hell of it to make her swear, te he.
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