Guilty for not feeling guilty

3 Dec 2007

After a great weekends swinging (bragging hmmm, maybe biggrin

) I was as is my want, thinking about the whole swing thAng. I get the apres swing guilt feeling occasinally. You know the one? Oh, should we have done this, it aint right and proper is it,etc. (having the kids find a large stash of condoms probably got me thinking this way mind lol

)
I always come to the conclusion that I dont feel guilty confused

Anyone know what I mean ? Feeling guilty for not feeling guilty. I think it makes sense.
We are also very fortunate that we have swung, swang, swinged with some top drawer people, who while i am on the stage, I would like to thank for letting me be here today. And that the good friendships that have been made are great and that the NSA sex is always guilt free is testament to mutual respect and understanding - oh yeah and being horny helps.
Does anyone else get to feeling guilty about not being guilty?

3 Dec 2007

I don't have guilt trips at the time of fun, but I have to admit now and then I get this overwhelming feeling we're doing something wrong. I think it's my upbringing and kind of relate it to the "marriage is a vow of abstinance" that type of thing. I often think I don't want to share Jay or be shared any more, but it passes.
At the end of the day I know deep down that swinging isn't exactly the norm or I wouldn't keep it a secret from my friends and family would I?

6 Dec 2007

All our life we are told do this do not do that. Then one day we realize that so long as we do not hurt others there is nothing wrong with what we do. All those rules as we grew up just stopped us doing too much damage until we learnt not to hurt others.
...but those rules still sit there in the back of our mind, nagging us.
As for keeping the whole swing thing secret, why confuse others?
...but I still dream of a time and place....

6 Dec 2007

I have zero guilt... but afraid of societies judgement!

6 Dec 2007

I dont know man. It's not the swinging, its the fact that i have a wee taste for cock... thats the judgement i'm scared of. I wouldn't share that info with my friends either. Doesn't matter anyway, its more fun in secret. biggrin

6 Dec 2007

Compulsory??? Yikes!
:shock: :shock: :shock:

6 Dec 2007

Quote by de_sade
Compulsory??? Yikes!
:shock: :shock: :shock:

So I am led to believe, but not all amateur dramatic societies are like that. wink

:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove:
Thank god! Made my eyes water just thinking about it!
:shock:

6 Dec 2007

Quote by jevad
i have a wee taste for cock..

Thats funny....so do I but not for wee confused

7 Dec 2007

Nope never feel guilty redface

But helps on a monday morning when peeps are giving you grief...
And u can just think if only you knew what i did this weekend/night :shock: wink

7 Dec 2007

i've felt guilty after meets sometimes, but not because i met them, because in my mind i wasnt ready to do that or this or what ever and felt i couldnt say no after it had got to that point :cry: just the way i am tho, but guilty for swinging never

7 Dec 2007

my thought is this, if it turns u on it aint wrong lol

plus it puts a smile on my face that my "normal" friends have no idea why!! keep on swinging and share the love wink

7 Dec 2007

Quote by jaymar
I don't have guilt trips at the time of fun, but I have to admit now and then I get this overwhelming feeling we're doing something wrong. I think it's my upbringing and kind of relate it to the "marriage is a vow of abstinance" that type of thing. I often think I don't want to share Jay or be shared any more, but it passes.
At the end of the day I know deep down that swinging isn't exactly the norm or I wouldn't keep it a secret from my friends and family would I?

You never know, your friends and family might want to be in on the act :!:
Plim :bounce:

7 Dec 2007

Quote by Plimboy
I don't have guilt trips at the time of fun, but I have to admit now and then I get this overwhelming feeling we're doing something wrong. I think it's my upbringing and kind of relate it to the "marriage is a vow of abstinance" that type of thing. I often think I don't want to share Jay or be shared any more, but it passes.
At the end of the day I know deep down that swinging isn't exactly the norm or I wouldn't keep it a secret from my friends and family would I?

You never know, your friends and family might want to be in on the act :!:
Plim :bounce:
blink

I can guarantee they very much wouldn't! x

12 Dec 2007

Quote by jevad
I have zero guilt... but afraid of societies judgement!

I have no guilt ,i fear no judgement,society is sick not me.

12 Dec 2007

i must be an odd one... i have terrible guilt.. i cant do what some do an meet a different person every night.. or every week.. it messes my head up, i enjoy what im doing when im doing it.. lots.. but then i feel ashamed that ive shown my self up, or done something wrong.... its very annoying an stops me having fun !!!!!!!!!! anyone have a magic pill for the shames after????????