Have you ever....

23 Jun 2008

My other half has just gone home... and he knows he has some serious creeping to do....
The reason is, is that he thought I liked F1 just because he does. loon

I have suprised him today, I had recorded yesterday's race for us both to watch, as he had commitments and couldn't watch it with me. I told him things about the race, the cars and the speed taken in the pits. I have impressed him - and he admitted it.
My question is to you guys, have you ever told a new partner that you like something just because he or she does to impress them? I really would be interested to know!
Anyway... off to think of a suitable punishment.. smackbottom

(You are so going to pay hunie.. cool

)

23 Jun 2008

Quote by Misskitty_2008
My question is to you guys, have you ever told a new partner that you like something just because he or she does to impress them? I really would be interested to know!

Never. What's the point? dunno

you'd be bored stiff for weeks/months to come and then you'd look totally and utterly stupid when they find out the truth.
I'm a firm believer in "this is me, take it or leave it" and I not going to pretend to anyone otherwise.
Smacking yer bum for telling porky pies MissK smackbottom

23 Jun 2008

Quote by Misskitty_2008
My question is to you guys, have you ever told a new partner that you like something just because he or she does to impress them? I really would be interested to know!

No, why would anyone do that? You'd just end up having to pretend to be excited when really you're bored shitless. loon

23 Jun 2008

You should be smacking him Mar! I do actually like F1! I have suprised him a lot recently... I told him things today that even he didn't know....
What sort of punishment can I give him?? would appreciate your input xx

Quote by jaymar

My question is to you guys, have you ever told a new partner that you like something just because he or she does to impress them? I really would be interested to know!

Never. What's the point? dunno

you'd be bored stiff for weeks/months to come and then you'd look totally and utterly stupid when they find out the truth.
I'm a firm believer in "this is me, take it or leave it" and I not going to pretend to anyone otherwise.
Smacking yer bum for telling porky pies MissK smackbottom

:rascal:

23 Jun 2008

Nope never done that, lol

:lol:

23 Jun 2008

I guess I'd feign interest in what a new partner is interested. Hey, I might even get to like it. Long time partners are more difficult though, trying to pretend your interested in cross-stitch because they are trying to convey something to you is difficult. However it is less difficult than living with the consequences of saying "Do you know what dear, I couldn't give a fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurrrrrmmmmmmmmmonkeys biggrin

. Oh no that has far far far worse consequences :sad:

23 Jun 2008

David pretended to like olives on our first date loon

We went for an Italian, (unfortunately and Italian Meal rather than Italian Stud :twisted: ) and they brought out a dish of olives to pick at.
I bluddy love em!!! So ate one, just the one, cos was trying to make my size 20 figure look attractive and slim (although did draw the line at pretending to be full up on one olive confused

).
When I took the olive, David took one :shock:
So I took another cool

So did he :shock:
I ended up practically racing him through these olives, in case he got more than me :? :?
It wasn't until a couple of years later that he admitted to hating olives, and only eating them to impress me, by looking all diverse, worldly and exotic :hunk:
Told him I would've been a lot more impressed if he had left the buggers alone!! :lol2:

23 Jun 2008

:giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: Missy :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
Gotta say that I'm a take me as you find me kinda girl, if you don't like me for who I am then what's the point.
I couldn't pretend to like something just because my other half did.
In fact I take great delight in turning over the football when he comes over to see me cos I'm an evil cow !!!
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23 Jun 2008

Quote by bbw_wboro
In fact I take great delight in turning over the football when he comes over to see me cos I'm an evil cow !!!
:twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

Ooh i do that to, or when i know there will be a match on i scour the tv quide looking for a "one off" that il never see again and argue that ive been wanting to see this "one off" for months/years :giggle:

23 Jun 2008

Nope can't say as I have done something out of character to impress. I'm too stuck being me.
If I did something like that I'd either have to keep doing it or admit that I had done it. Either option doesn't make sense.
Having said that I am still of the opinion that that first fart shared is always difficult :twisted:

23 Jun 2008

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Good one Tankinky!!! Will have to remember that one...
:thumbup:

23 Jun 2008

Quote by Peanut
Having said that I am still of the opinion that that first fart shared is always difficult :twisted:

Depends if your sat on their face at the time :giggle: bolt

23 Jun 2008

Quote by Misskitty_2008
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Good one Tankinky!!! Will have to remember that one...
:thumbup:

Just gotta make sure, its something you are actually interested in, redface

23 Jun 2008

Ewwwwwwww! nearly saw my veggie chilli con carne again....

Quote by TanKinky

Having said that I am still of the opinion that that first fart shared is always difficult :twisted:

Depends if your sat on their face at the time:giggle: bolt

23 Jun 2008

I am Tan! When its on, my telephone is switched off, the front door is locked and a can of Red Stripe at the ready!!!

Quote by TanKinky
:giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
Good one Tankinky!!! Will have to remember that one...
:thumbup:

Just gotta make sure, its something you are actually interested in, redface

23 Jun 2008

Quote by TanKinky

Having said that I am still of the opinion that that first fart shared is always difficult :twisted:

Depends if your sat on their face at the time :giggle: bolt

Oh God been there redface

And the other one is going for gold on the vinegar strokes and you can feel one building up... then orgasm hits and along with it the loss of ability to keep the fart in. Add to that the desperate attempt to squeeze the sphincter to keep it in just results in a more resonant release.
rolleyes

23 Jun 2008

Quote by Peanut

Having said that I am still of the opinion that that first fart shared is always difficult :twisted:

Depends if your sat on their face at the time :giggle: bolt

Oh God been there redface

And the other one is going for gold on the vinegar strokes and you can feel one building up... then orgasm hits and along with it the loss of ability to keep the fart in. Add to that the desperate attempt to squeeze the sphincter to keep it in just results in a more resonant release.
rolleyes

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: so very true :giggle:

23 Jun 2008

Sometimes i've pretneded to be interested in what a guy is saying rotflmao

Trix xx

23 Jun 2008

Quote by Trixie_female
Sometimes i've pretneded to be interested in what a guy is saying
Trix xx

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23 Jun 2008

Quote by Misskitty_2008
My question is to you guys, have you ever told a new partner that you like something just because he or she does?

Cats.
Not even a new partner. I kept that one up for about a year and a half. She REALLY loved/loves cats. Thank God we broke up before she got one, or I would have ended up having to negotiate to keep the bloody thing from sharing our bed.

23 Jun 2008

Am I being a bit thick here? dunno

I don't quite understand MissKitty... confused

Did you pretend to like F1 or do you like it? Either way I don't understand why your other half has creeping to do if you both enjoyed watching the race together?
:? Maybe just me...
In answer to your question however, no. I don't think I've ever really pretended to like something for someone. I am a bit too strong willed for that!

23 Jun 2008

Quote by Whipsnspurs
i've never faked an orgasm either just to please a guys ego!

I have... :shock: sorry sad

not for the ego boost but only to have the sex over and done with. Defo not Jay, was a long time ago and the relationship was doomed but I just didn't want to hurt him and used to fake. Not proud of myself for doing so mind.

23 Jun 2008

Quote by jaymar
i've never faked an orgasm either just to please a guys ego!

I have... :shock: sorry sad

not for the ego boost but only to have the sex over and done with. Defo not Jay, was a long time ago and the relationship was doomed but I just didn't want to hurt him and used to fake. Not proud of myself for doing so mind.
Ditto that.
Scary thing is I'm incredibly good at it. Forget the men- I've convinced women when they've been twixt my thighs! confused

23 Jun 2008

I like to show and interest - especially if it's something he is doing himself (judo, golf, music etc). And it isn't faked, but I'm interested in what/how they are doing not necessarily the subject itself.
If he wanted to watch something I had little interest in - I may well watch it with him. But if I hated it (BB, any soap etc) I would find something else to do.
But there is a difference between faking personal interest (or, God forbid, any skill) in a subject and enjoying your partner's enjoyment of it.
I think I know what I meant there biggrin

24 Jun 2008

I can put up with most things except golf!
I'll support a partner in something I'm not fond of but that doesn't mean I have to live an breath it. Gives me time to follow things I like...
If its a telly programme I'm happy snuggling up while reading a book or relaxing.

24 Jun 2008

Hi Nola! I really do like F1 - have been watching it a few years now, that's what suprised my other half! The reason why he is creeping, is that he didn't believe me... thought I was just liking it to make him happy.
It was when I told him that he'd upset me, by suggesting that I was pretending... he understood he'd made one hell of a booboo..
So I am still trying to think of a suitable punishment... and he's buying lunch and G'n'T's in London tomorrow... wondering what else I could do...

Quote by noladreams30
Am I being a bit thick here?
I don't quite understand MissKitty... Did you pretend to like F1 or do you like it? Either way I don't understand why your other half has creeping to do if you both enjoyed watching the race together?
:? Maybe just me...
In answer to your question however, no. I don't think I've ever really pretended to like something for someone. I am a bit too strong willed for that!

24 Jun 2008

OK so you pretend to like something just because they do. In fact you pretend to like everything they like, but that is all you do. You do nothing you like doing! Perhaps they are just pretending. Better to get it out-there; I like left, you like right, let us meet in the middle! cool

... and if that does not work, perhaps you would both be happier else where.
Travis

24 Jun 2008

Quote by flower411
Sometimes i've pretneded to be interested in what a guy is saying
Trix xx

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Yeah ... sometimes I`ve pretented that I give a shit what colour her nails are or even if her bum looks big in that !!! rolleyes

:shock: :shock: :shock:
Suddenly see headline "Male Swinger Bludgeoned By Group of Angry Women with Coloured Nails and Big Bums"
I think I'm in trouble now!
bolt

24 Jun 2008

Had a think about this and I don't think I've ever pretended to like something because my partner/other half has. I think having different views, different likes and dislikes makes the relationship healthier and more interesting.
Of course it is also useful to have similarities which creates a common platform for the relationship, whatever that might be, friend/partner/significant other etc., but I don't think it's necessary to be a clone of the other person, so keeping your own character traits and tastes is important.
:P