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Help! I have a stalker!

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I have this guy who messages me regularly, always includes his phone number asking me to go for coffee/drink ( no pressure to go further bla bla ) and I really have to find some way to tell him it ain't gonna happen but without hurting his feelings.
Don't get me wrong, he's always very polite and complementary about my body and stuff and whenever I put up an ad for guys, he's there like a bleeding shot! He's had the Dear John about 6 times now and still doesn't get it :doh: He's so unbelievably NOT my type that I don't even want to have coffee with him fearing this could give him false hopes. I'm just starting to find it all a bit creepy now.
Short of telling him to bugger off ( which I could easily do if he was a tosser which he's not ) I'm at a loss of what to say to him dunno
Help! :giveup:
appologies
lp
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appologies
lp

smackbottom you just don't stalk me ENOUGH!!! :smackbottom:
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Maybe he reads the forums ...

crap :doh:
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He's had the Dear John about 6 times now and still doesn't get it :doh:

Ooooh, I so know what you mean - I've had this problem. After politely saying no several times and then several times less politely confused am afraid I had to do the whole 'ignore button' option - but, to be fair, he didn't sound as pleasant as your blokey.
Dunno - is a tricky one.
Nola x
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Maybe he reads the forums ...

crap :doh:
yes... and it hurts
lp
Have you thought about adding him to your ignore list ?
This way you won't ever see an email from him again.
Just a thought........ smile
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Maybe he reads the forums ...

crap :doh:
yes... and it hurts
lp
you are so gonna get a spanking in my tent young man! smackbottom
If you need help getting the message over just let me know!! confused :? :? wink
Thanks Sarge but don't think it's serious enough to send the troops in rotflmao
Oh honey... I hope he has read this and gets the message but if not... restraining order might be the way... do they do that sort of thing on SH?
Email me if you want a chat xx
:rose:
Quote by Jess9
Have you thought about adding him to your ignore list ?
This way you won't ever see an email from him again.
Just a thought........ smile

Why didn't I think of that? rolleyes
Just be straight with him. Tell him hes gorra face like a box o frogs and you arent looking for a prince just yet!
Send him a picture of Bilko lol If that does'nt put him off nothing will :lol:
lol he will probally read this and message you saying... oh saw the thread saying about a stlker, if i can be of any help let me know.
some people dont take polite hints and brush offs.
jut be honest and say you are not interested and frankly are finding his persistnce beyond flattery and now creepy.
if he does get to much ask admin or mods to send a word of caution to him maybe ?
xx fem xx
I would just block him.
Thanks for the advice folks. I don't think I need Bulko wading in all guns a-blazing but have sent him a 'now look here' Dear John type thingy and put him on ignore.
Hate to do it as he's never been anything but polite and courteous............persistent but polite all the same rolleyes
Now, the seriously sexy guys form an orderly queue and I'll get to you as soon as :twisted:
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Thanks for the advice folks. I don't think I need Bulko wading in all guns a-blazing but have sent him a 'now look here' Dear John type thingy and put him on ignore.
Hate to do it as he's never been anything but polite and courteous............persistent but polite all the same rolleyes
Now, the seriously sexy guys form an orderly queue and I'll get to you as soon as Winchy's finished with you:twisted:

innocent
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I would just block him.

cold... so cold
lp
Quote by winchwench
Thanks for the advice folks. I don't think I need Bulko wading in all guns a-blazing but have sent him a 'now look here' Dear John type thingy and put him on ignore.
Hate to do it as he's never been anything but polite and courteous............persistent but polite all the same rolleyes
Now, the seriously sexy guys form an orderly queue and I'll get to you as soon as Winchy's finished with you:twisted:

innocent
That goes for the women too :twisted:
Quote by winchwench
Thanks for the advice folks. I don't think I need Bulko wading in all guns a-blazing but have sent him a 'now look here' Dear John type thingy and put him on ignore.
Hate to do it as he's never been anything but polite and courteous............persistent but polite all the same rolleyes
Now, the seriously sexy guys form an orderly queue and I'll get to you as soon as Winchy's finished with you:twisted:

innocent
I saw that!!!! smackbottom
My tent! Now !!!!! poke
Quote by Sassy-Seren
Thanks for the advice folks. I don't think I need Bulko wading in all guns a-blazing but have sent him a 'now look here' Dear John type thingy and put him on ignore.
Hate to do it as he's never been anything but polite and courteous............persistent but polite all the same rolleyes
Now, the seriously sexy guys form an orderly queue and I'll get to you as soon as Winchy's finished with you:twisted:

innocent
I saw that!!!! smackbottom
My tent! Now !!!!! poke
That'll be me & LP then :smug:
wave
Quote by winchwench
Thanks for the advice folks. I don't think I need Bulko wading in all guns a-blazing but have sent him a 'now look here' Dear John type thingy and put him on ignore.
Hate to do it as he's never been anything but polite and courteous............persistent but polite all the same rolleyes
Now, the seriously sexy guys form an orderly queue and I'll get to you as soon as Winchy's finished with you:twisted:

innocent
I saw that!!!! smackbottom
My tent! Now !!!!! poke
That'll be me & LP then :smug:
Ooooo a 3some! :lickface:
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Ooooo a 3some! :lickface:

Sorry , you'll have to count me out, its Pink Floyd night on BBC4 and nothing gets between me n them! lol
Just send him a mail saying you aint interested and have replied several times saying this. Then tell him you are going to block him and he wont recieve any more mail off you because you wont be getting his mails.
Keep a copy of this incase it goes further
Woo .................Joins the very long que lol
come clean with him.........tell him your a man.... rolleyes
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come clean with him.........tell him your a man.... rolleyes

rotflmao
anyone got a cloth? I just spat red wine everywhere :giggle:
Quote by Sassy-Seren
come clean with him.........tell him your a man.... rolleyes

rotflmao
anyone got a cloth? I just spat red wine everywhere :giggle:
I bet the wine is in a pint glass...... :roll: