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if you got invited to an ''exclusive'' house party where tickets were say would you make more effort with appearance than if you were going to a free house party as a guest of someone here?.. and why?
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Sex God
If i got invited to a party where i was expected to pay £200 to attend it, i'd make more of an effort in telling them to bugger off.
A party should have a relaxed atmosphere and i'd kind of expect to be able to dress how i wanted, with the exception of maybe a celebration of some sort for someone i already knew.
A party should have a relaxed atmosphere and i'd kind of expect to be able to dress how i wanted, with the exception of maybe a celebration of some sort for someone i already knew.
Sex God
Quote by meat2pleaseu
If i got invited to a party where i was expected to pay £200 to attend it, i'd make more of an effort in telling them to bugger off.
A party should have a relaxed atmosphere and i'd kind of expect to be able to dress how i wanted, with the exception of maybe a celebration of some sort for someone i already knew.
lets forget the right and wrongs of the price etc and just the clothes if you were attending..
trying to simplify things
Sex God
We wouldn't go. We have only been to one 'pay as you go' (elite) party and it was shite!! There was no atmosphere and just full of self important pompous arses and when the host decided to get a camcorder out we left!! We find that free and friendly house parties are the way ahead and usually a damn site naughtier 
But .... to answer your question, I have wore the same clothes that I wore to the 'elite' party, to other parties and clubs. We think that making an effort goes a long way no matter where the pulling ground!
But .... to answer your question, I have wore the same clothes that I wore to the 'elite' party, to other parties and clubs. We think that making an effort goes a long way no matter where the pulling ground!
Sex God
It matters not where I go to play, always stick with the brown pants just in case :thumbup:
Sex God
Quote by Funlovers2009
We wouldn't go. We have only been to one 'pay as you go' (elite) party and it was shite!! There was no atmosphere and just full of self important pompous arses and when the host decided to get a camcorder out we left!! We find that free and friendly house parties are the way ahead and usually a damn site naughtier
But .... to answer your question, I have wore the same clothes that I wore to the 'elite' party, to other parties and clubs. We think that making an effort goes a long way no matter where the pulling ground!
thanks for answering the question.. realy dont want this to go down the .. price issue
Sex God
Quote by tweeky
It matters not where I go to play, always stick with the brown pants just in case :thumbup:
MMMmmmmmmmm brown pants, .... they hide so many sins
I do hope they're these ones!!:giggle:
Sexlightened
Quote by HugsnKisses
I like to look nice and would choose something because I like it and it looks and feels good on. I wouldn't spend more because of the venue costing more, that would be silly .
We'll second that....
£200! Lol must be professionals involved?
Sexlightened
Quote by HugsnKisses
I like to look nice and would choose something because I like it and it looks and feels good on. I wouldn't spend more because of the venue costing more, that would be silly .
We'll second that....
£200! Lol must be professionals involved?
If it is free, Shirt and casuals, if it is £200, then it is a tux.
Actually, that is bollocks, as I have worn a tux to two social/munches, and they were free.
No, paying to go to the party wouldn't make me look at making more effort, unless as part of the price there were strict rules on dress code.
Actually, that is bollocks, as I have worn a tux to two social/munches, and they were free.
No, paying to go to the party wouldn't make me look at making more effort, unless as part of the price there were strict rules on dress code.
Sex God
Quote by essex34m
If it is free, Shirt and casuals, if it is £200, then it is a tux.
And very smart you looked too!
Sex God
Quote by Funlovers2009
It matters not where I go to play, always stick with the brown pants just in case :thumbup:
MMMmmmmmmmm brown pants, .... they hide so many sins
I do hope they're these ones!!:giggle:
Care to explain exactly how you have a picture of my pants :huh:
Was I drunk? Did I like it :twisted:
Sex God
Quote by tweeky
It matters not where I go to play, always stick with the brown pants just in case :thumbup:
MMMmmmmmmmm brown pants, .... they hide so many sins
I do hope they're these ones!!:giggle:
Care to explain exactly how you have a picture of my pants :huh:
Was I drunk? Did I like it :twisted:
I'm not quite sure to be honest
... tell ya what though, my finger didn't half stink when I woke up cuddled up to the toilet in the morning!! 
Thank you. Sex God
Quote by flower411
thanks for answering the question.. realy dont want this to go down the .. price issue
I`m interested in the question but I`m totally confused as to why you don`t want to go with the price issue .....it appears to be central to the question !
I thought I understood your point but now I`m not sure
I`ve only ever been in this situation in a vanilla enviroment and personally I dressed down as much as possible .....tux with a nehru shirt so that I didn`t have to wear a dicky bow !! And it cost a hell of a lot more than 200 quid ...
So I suppose I`d have to say that wherever I go ...I just go as me ...
Mrs flower will dress up for any occasion
because i was trying to avoid the irrelevant .. '' i wouldnt pay that much'' and '' who the fuck would pay that much'' and '' pay £200 to go to a do like that '' as opposed to just saying if you would make more effort or not for a do like that.. i dont care if you would pay 200 quid.. save that for another thread..
and in edit.. i havent made a point ive asked a question.. dont read anything into it..dude
Sex God
ok forget 200 quid you awkward sod and replace it with '' whatever you call silly expensive for a house party'' type of exclusive party.. in my experience it tends to be around the 200 quid mark for what i am trying to describe so i used that figure ..
dont read anything into the dude comment its a habit dude
dont read anything into the dude comment its a habit dude
I'd try to dress to the occasion. If it was a formal thing (regardless of whether I know the people attending/organising the event) then I'd dress appropriately. If it's an occasion where it's with people I know well, and just a get together, I would at least look presentable. I wouldn't come looking like a ratbag.
Sex God
Quote by flower411
ok forget 200 quid you awkward sod and replace it with '' whatever you call silly expensive for a house party'' type of exclusive party.. in my experience it tends to be around the 200 quid mark for what i am trying to describe so i used that figure ..
dont read anything into the dude comment its a habit dude
Ok ...let`s take price out of the equation
How about being invited to a party in a private house that has an indoor swimming pool and a gym and a jacuzzi .....the hosts are obviously well off ....would you make more of an effort ?
Is that more the point ?
no
have you seen any other thread that may occupy/ amuse you flower..lol
Sex God
Quote by flower411
ok forget 200 quid you awkward sod and replace it with '' whatever you call silly expensive for a house party'' type of exclusive party.. in my experience it tends to be around the 200 quid mark for what i am trying to describe so i used that figure ..
dont read anything into the dude comment its a habit dude
Ok ...let`s take price out of the equation
How about being invited to a party in a private house that has an indoor swimming pool and a gym and a jacuzzi .....the hosts are obviously well off ....would you make more of an effort ?
Is that more the point ?
no
have you seen any other thread that may occupy/ amuse you flower..lol
Well ... I did consider the five word story but I`m infinately more verbose than that...
Then the song thread caught my eye ....... but hey dude
Then word association ...but ...you know ...I remembered that I possessed brain cells ...
Oh god ...I could go on ...no it`s a fact I like this thread :lol:
Where were we again ? :lol:
Staggy abandons own thread and says fuck it ill run with Flowers madness..
Sex God
Ok, I've been thinking about this and at first I was a bit... they'll take me (or not) as I am and they'll just have to like it or lump it regardless, free or payment party. :lol:
But then I know how I am and wouldn't want to upset the hosts of said party, nor show ourselves up, nor feel like a fish out of water; so I reckoned I'd ask loads of questions about what was usual derigour regarding dress codes/appropriate attire etc before booking in. But then I'd probably do that if it was a free house party too... ask questions.
And then I'd probably take several back up plan outfits in the boot of the car, just in case I'm so wide off the mark I feel uncomfortable. :)
I'd probably opt to not wear my most expensive stuff either way though because I've managed to loose shoes and knickers to collectors at previous parties/clubs we've been to and been furious they were expensive/nice/notwashdaygrays/posh/fancy/matching etc. :lol:
Although if it was a good excuse to get something new and shiny that I probably wouldn't normally treat myself to, I'd probably be less reluctant if it was an expensive party because we'd be very conscious of costs escalating, especially if I was only wearing it for half an hour! :lol: But I will admit the higher the price of entry the more inclined I'd be to wear designer stuff, but saying that I've worn designer stuff to nearly every house party I've been to, free or not.
Ok, I'm clear as mud, as usual!
Ok who wants to come to our next party ???
For you get
Hot Tub ............Yes we have `big one` lol
Swimming Pool ......Will ask the kids if the inflatable had the puncture fixed.
Gym ................a few weights ,curcuit training & you can run round the garden
Not bothered what you wear ....just dont scare the neighbours !
For you get
Hot Tub ............Yes we have `big one` lol
Swimming Pool ......Will ask the kids if the inflatable had the puncture fixed.
Gym ................a few weights ,curcuit training & you can run round the garden
Not bothered what you wear ....just dont scare the neighbours !
Quote by Leics
Ok who wants to come to our next party ???
For you get
Hot Tub ............Yes we have `big one` lol
Swimming Pool ......Will ask the kids if the inflatable had the puncture fixed.
Gym ................a few weights ,curcuit training & you can run round the garden
Not bothered what you wear ....just dont scare the neighbours !
can you promise I can roll naked in the snow... lol
Sex God
Quote by Andy_Jules
lets forget the right and wrongs of the price etc and just the clothes if you were attending..
trying to simplify things
But you're making the price an issue by quoting both the term 'exclusive' and £200 in the same sentence. Remove the price tag and ask the same question again and I suspect some of the answers would be a little different.
In what way do you mean Exclusive? as in invite only, or a 1 off venue or a free Chiuaua for every couple attending? exclusive usually means something a little...well, exclusive which without any explanation as to what is so exclusive makes it difficult as to how you'd approach the party but essentially we'd turn up the same as we would for any party as in it doesn't matter if it's hosted by the Marquess of Blandford or Busty Betty from the Kebab shop, same clothes, same degree of cleanliness and probably the same attire (although if it the venue was Busty Betty's static van (with an extension) just off the a46 we'd consider wellies)
Fabulous Dahling! When can we expect and invite and can we pay with Nectar Points.
Andy
ok samne question again without the price tag
would you make the same effort for a house party and another house party? is that better.. cos it now makes fuck all sense to me.. others on here have grasped where im coming from with this andy.i originally put exclusive in speach marks as it is the way these rather expensive house parties are described.. have you never seen an ad for one of these? this forum is way too pedantic at times for me.
Sex God
if you have been invited staggy because of the person you are, and the money is to cover expenses like a few single girls nice venue etc etc then you would attend this party as your self and not put on any special airs and graces
if your invited because someone`s on a little earner and think you can afford 200 quid for a night out, then avoid this party at all costs as its gonna be all show and no go
on another note we`ve seen both you and wild rose on cam and you both would look equally at home at any party :rascal:
if your invited because someone`s on a little earner and think you can afford 200 quid for a night out, then avoid this party at all costs as its gonna be all show and no go
on another note we`ve seen both you and wild rose on cam and you both would look equally at home at any party :rascal:
Sex God
Quote by flower411
lets forget the right and wrongs of the price etc and just the clothes if you were attending..
trying to simplify things
But you're making the price an issue by quoting both the term 'exclusive' and £200 in the same sentence. Remove the price tag and ask the same question again and I suspect some of the answers would be a little different.
In what way do you mean Exclusive? as in invite only, or a 1 off venue or a free Chiuaua for every couple attending? exclusive usually means something a little...well, exclusive which without any explanation as to what is so exclusive makes it difficult as to how you'd approach the party but essentially we'd turn up the same as we would for any party as in it doesn't matter if it's hosted by the Marquess of Blandford or Busty Betty from the Kebab shop, same clothes, same degree of cleanliness and probably the same attire (although if it the venue was Busty Betty's static van (with an extension) just off the a46 we'd consider wellies)
Fabulous Dahling! When can we expect and invite and can we pay with Nectar Points.
Andy
ok samne question again without the price tag
would you make the same effort for a house party and another house party? is that better.. cos it now makes fuck all sense to me.. others on here have grasped where im coming from with this andy.i originally put exclusive in speach marks as it is the way these rather expensive house parties are described.. have you never seen an ad for one of these? this forum is way too pedantic at times for me.
Are you this easy to wind up in real life ??
If so, we gotta have a beer some time :giggle:
muppet
Sex God
Just to get back on track.......
Think the question all hinges on the £200 "contribution".
We cheerfully pay £100 per couple to get into fun4two......because we know it's worth it. We also know the dress code and standard of dress that the attendees of fun4two wear and of course go with the dress code.
If someone wanted £200 off us to attend a party we'd have to know that the party would be worth the money. Having decided to go and pay £200 then we'd make enquiries to find out the dress code at that party and be in line with that dress code. Which we'd expect to be of a higher standard than if we were going to a standard club in the UK.
But if someone asked us to pay £200 to attend a party that we knew nothing about............no way !!
John & Shel
Think the question all hinges on the £200 "contribution".
We cheerfully pay £100 per couple to get into fun4two......because we know it's worth it. We also know the dress code and standard of dress that the attendees of fun4two wear and of course go with the dress code.
If someone wanted £200 off us to attend a party we'd have to know that the party would be worth the money. Having decided to go and pay £200 then we'd make enquiries to find out the dress code at that party and be in line with that dress code. Which we'd expect to be of a higher standard than if we were going to a standard club in the UK.
But if someone asked us to pay £200 to attend a party that we knew nothing about............no way !!
John & Shel
