I've been with my fiance for 10 years now, yes we should get married but that's another topic.
We obviously hit a time when sex was boring but after a holiday last year we started to liven things up.
We do many kinky things, not really worth mentioning here but trust me, it's not your average missionary.
Here's the thing. A couple of times I've pretended to be a stranger who has come to the house for whatever reason, fix the roof, whatever. I talk dirty to her and say things like, "We have to get it done quickly, when is your man home?" That kind of stuff.
Also, we watch porn together sometimes and I have sneakily put on group sex and threesomes without her batting an eyelid.
Now this leads me to believe that she has an open mind about being fucked by a) A stranger
and b) More than one guy. Preferable me and another guy who I don't feel threatened by, if you get me.
Ok, so how do really figure out if she's up for it and how do I find a guy that we can have fun with?
She won't come online because of her job.
Seems to me, from what you have said, like you have a pretty good relationship so why not just ask her?
What they all said... :thumbup:
And remember, that fantasy is just that, fantasy. There are lots of things that I have got into on a safe fantasy-level and thoroughly enjoyed that I would never actually do in practice. I enjoy them because it is make believe.
Talk to her, but just don't presume that what is okay, acceptable and indeed downright erotic at your current roleplay level will easily translate into real stuff... sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't.
Hope the two of you continue having lots of fun together.
Nola x
why ya watching porn just ask wad ya like to try that , if ya get a swift "git fooked " sorted lol .
I would say that you should listen to some Prince or Rick James.
As this has helped me with the ladies over the years.
That Rick James...what a fella.
Really listen to the words of this record & believe that YOU ARE Rick James when you put your various kinky ideas to your lady.
Am serious...it works for thee great Wunderhorse.
Time for your homework:
Please tell if my advice helps, am sure it will.
From,
Wunderhorse.
I don't know if it's just me, but I wouldn't ever have a problem broaching a new subjet like this with Den.
I would already know the answer to my question as we would have discussed it already!
I find it strange that after 10 years together you find you need to ask the forum how to broach the subject, rather than just having an open discussion with her?
Maybe we're very lucky!!!
m xx
How to introduce your fiance of 10 years to swinging...
Well number loads of roses...
number dinners next 10years..
number wedding you cant afford..
number her the truth when she isnt having a bad daqy and hope for the best..
number you tell her make sure you are wearing full body armour.
And the most important thing tell her everything....
:roll: 
