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how do you no if your a good fuck ????

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hi there had a few rather great times as a swinger but always thought to myself , am i any good?
i have made men cum with what am told are mind blowing bjs but a man will say anythink to get you to suck them lol, i got told by my most recant fuck buddy i needed to teach woman to give bjs as he has had some bad ones but the one a gave was amazing , but again can we belive men ? as for sex never had anyone say god that was bad , i think am a dam good fuck BUT the big question is :
HOW DO U KNOW IF YA A GOOD FUCK ??
dunno :dunno: :dunno:
love tinksXXX
If you have enjoyed yourself and your partner seems happy, then you're probably a good fuck.
If someone comes back for more, you must be a _fantastic_ shag :>
I always seem to get asked for a return visit so i must be doing something right biggrin
As with a lot of things how longs a piece of string. Maybe its all about self confidence and being self assured. People can make or break with words. Maybe its just great to think you get and give great sex. You get what you put in to it.
Compliments are great and constructive and while someone is being complimentary thats good. The other side is that if someone is feeling aggreived or left out put down etc. Then sometimes the first line of defence is too say something offensive or nasty just to try and convey their own feeling of hurt or rejection.
Maybe, or maybe they just come back out of morbid curiosity? Happens to me all the time...
well thank u all , first of all if she tells u , u r so good she has to leave she is bullshi... as far as am concerned am sorry , thats as bad as i fell out of love with you or its not you its me bad excuses , then as for making a man fall to the bed then ya i have done that many times , but i do belive that there has to be summit there to , as if they dont turn u on you can be the bst fuck in the world but if they dont do it for you its rubish sex do u no what am talkin about or is it just sex is sex hhmmmm
banghead
dunno
It's only good if they like it.
We're all different and to be a fantastic fuck for one person is great but you could be pretty mediocre to someone else 'cos that's just not their thing.
To be honest, everyone I've met has wanted to meet again so I must be doing something right there. Maybe not necessarily that I'm any good, just that I'm willing to be open-minded, try different things ...? confused
My blowjobs are (according to a bi male I met) better than our gay friend's and could teach him a trick or too, yet, one meet I had has never cum through oral and I too failed at it so I can't be that good? Or just not good for everyone?
You know how the rumour mill works on here (so much for discretion blah blah) and I've heard that other people are good/crap and discovered for myself that it is in fact the opposite - but that's just me isn't it?
I wouldn't worry about it - actually, I don't worry about it lol just get on and enjoy what you do.
Sorry - I'm rambling a bit. I've just woke up! :lol:
Blue told me just last night I'm a great fuck, but I guess he may be just a tad biased? dunno wink
pink x
One man's meat is another man's poison dunno
Whats good for one may not be so good for others
so you all say if you get asked back then you must be good ? well i have been asked back by most men and woman i have been with so if thats true am a good fuck !!!! BUT what if it just as simple as your not that good but none else will fuck them on that day so u will do? most men and woman i have fucked want more and i always put a smile on there faces so i think am a good fuck lol
:bounce: :bounce:
tinks xxxxx
Quote by Marya_Northeast
It's only good if they like it.
We're all different and to be a fantastic fuck for one person is great but you could be pretty mediocre to someone else 'cos that's just not their thing.
To be honest, everyone I've met has wanted to meet again so I must be doing something right there. Maybe not necessarily that I'm any good, just that I'm willing to be open-minded, try different things ...? confused
My blowjobs are (according to a bi male I met) better than our gay friend's and could teach him a trick or too, yet, one meet I had has never cum through oral and I too failed at it so I can't be that good? Or just not good for everyone?
You know how the rumour mill works on here (so much for discretion blah blah) and I've heard that other people are good/crap and discovered for myself that it is in fact the opposite - but that's just me isn't it?
I wouldn't worry about it - actually, I don't worry about it lol just get on and enjoy what you do.
Sorry - I'm rambling a bit. I've just woke up! :lol:

Nothing to add. Just amazed that you are up at 8am on a Sunday :shock:
Did you pee the bed? bolt
Dave_Notts
each to their own and all that.
id never be so bold to say anything like "im a good fuck". and i wouldnt want to know anyones opinion on the matter either.
as long as ive had fun, theyve had fun and theres smiles all round......surely thats what counts biggrin
if someone looked bored, unenthusiastic, uncomfortable or i felt like they were only here just for the shag, any shag....i wouldnt be shagging them.
:P
good point sexkitten , i always have fun and always make sure my man smile and your right at the end of the day thats all that matters
tinks xxxx
Quote by meat2pleaseu
I always seem to get asked for a return visit so i must be doing something right biggrin

Yeah but thats so you can return the ladys underwear ya perve!
Quote by de_sade
Shame the World isn't full of people who are all the same...

Now where would the fun be in that wink
dunno they make you a cup of tea without you asking them to? lol
Quote by sexkittenhfx
each to their own and all that.
id never be so bold to say anything like "im a good fuck". and i wouldnt want to know anyones opinion on the matter either.
as long as ive had fun, theyve had fun and theres smiles all round......surely thats what counts biggrin
if someone looked bored, unenthusiastic, uncomfortable or i felt like they were only here just for the shag, any shag....i wouldnt be shagging them.
:P

:thumbup:
:color: I always worry that i dont give a good blow job, at the start of giving it that is,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, Then i forget my worries and just get stuck in (so to Speak) blast :blast: Never had any complaints, so i must be good at it. lol :lol: :lol:
Well as said.... If your asked back, or to be seen again then theres your answer!
If you see lots of different people without being asked again.. then I'd worry.
Mm Mike!!
Like everyone has said... you get invited back for seconds, maybe even thirds!! :rascal:
Well not everyone is into the same things or has the same view on what great sex is smile so if you find someone you are VERY compatible with, then your sorted and so are they :)
What ever floats your boat, comes to mind :P
i think being a good fuck is as much about the person your with than how good you yourself are, i mean we do what we do pretty much same with everyone but sometimes you come away thinking 'that was fab' and other times you think 'i was really shit' if you dont connect sexually with the person your with its never going to be good, im a firm believer of the saying your only as good as the person your shagging.
I think if you are having fun the chances are that the person or persons you are with are having fun too.
For me thats the main criteria.
Quote by Dirtygirlie
Like everyone has said... you get invited back for seconds, maybe even thirds!! :rascal:

....and then some more wink
I have no idea if I'm a good fuck, never had any complaints but then it's hardly likely someone would to your face is it confused
Maybe we should have a scorecard system?? lol
Quote by the_Laird
Like everyone has said... you get invited back for seconds, maybe even thirds!! :rascal:

....and then some more wink
I have no idea if I'm a good fuck, never had any complaints but then it's hardly likely someone would to your face is it confused
Maybe we should have a scorecard system?? lol
I'm good at setting up systems, perhaps you care to trial it with me Lairdy? :rascal:
pink x
I think that you can tell whether your partner has enjoyed it!!!!
thinking about it... and in no real order..these would be the indicators id look for ....for an idea
1) you cant fake moisture!!!!
2) You cant fake that "sex-flushing" red skin thingy
3) some women shake and gasp for a while after orgasm...
4) if you get told that you were ASKING
5) Your partner suggests tht you have another go at it.
6) your a male and you can last for more that 5 mins including foreplay)
7) you get told youre the best without asking
to be honest..... and no offence to those who have said it....... but to say that you have never had complaints is NOT an indicator youre a good shag............
if youve had compliments from more than 5 partners, or any of point 1-5 above...........you can rest assured that youre at least GOOD....
confused:
Quote by lilacgem
Practice makes perfect, and Ive been practacing a lot wink

i forgot to add that one to my list.... i agree :wink:
Quote by DeeCee
I think that you can tell whether your partner has enjoyed it!!!!
thinking about it... and in no real order..these would be the indicators id look for ....for an idea
1) you cant fake moisture!!!!
2) You cant fake that "sex-flushing" red skin thingy
3) some women shake and gasp for a while after orgasm...
4) if you get told that you were ASKING
5) Your partner suggests tht you have another go at it.
6) your a male and you can last for more that 5 mins including foreplay)
7) you get told youre the best without asking
to be honest..... and no offence to those who have said it....... but to say that you have never had complaints is NOT an indicator youre a good shag............
if youve had compliments from more than 5 partners, or any of point 1-5 above...........you can rest assured that youre at least GOOD....

You're not serious????
Surely??
confused
I can see I'm going to have to adopt the scorecard system, Pink.............
Quote by the_Laird
I think that you can tell whether your partner has enjoyed it!!!!
thinking about it... and in no real order..these would be the indicators id look for ....for an idea
1) you cant fake moisture!!!!
2) You cant fake that "sex-flushing" red skin thingy
3) some women shake and gasp for a while after orgasm...
4) if you get told that you were ASKING
5) Your partner suggests tht you have another go at it.
6) your a male and you can last for more that 5 mins including foreplay)
7) you get told youre the best without asking
to be honest..... and no offence to those who have said it....... but to say that you have never had complaints is NOT an indicator youre a good shag............
if youve had compliments from more than 5 partners, or any of point 1-5 above...........you can rest assured that youre at least GOOD....

You're not serious????
Surely??
confused
I can see I'm going to have to adopt the scorecard system, Pink.............
yeah course im serious................
try reading it again :small-print:
think about it..........
Quote by DeeCee
I think that you can tell whether your partner has enjoyed it!!!!
thinking about it... and in no real order..these would be the indicators id look for ....for an idea
1) you cant fake moisture!!!!
2) You cant fake that "sex-flushing" red skin thingy
3) some women shake and gasp for a while after orgasm...
4) if you get told that you were ASKING
5) Your partner suggests tht you have another go at it.
6) your a male and you can last for more that 5 mins including foreplay)
7) you get told youre the best without asking
to be honest..... and no offence to those who have said it....... but to say that you have never had complaints is NOT an indicator youre a good shag............
if youve had compliments from more than 5 partners, or any of point 1-5 above...........you can rest assured that youre at least GOOD....

You're not serious????
Surely??
confused
I can see I'm going to have to adopt the scorecard system, Pink.............
yeah course im serious................
try reading it again :small-print:
think about it..........
wink