If you have enjoyed yourself and your partner seems happy, then you're probably a good fuck.
If someone comes back for more, you must be a _fantastic_ shag :>
As with a lot of things how longs a piece of string. Maybe its all about self confidence and being self assured. People can make or break with words. Maybe its just great to think you get and give great sex. You get what you put in to it.
Compliments are great and constructive and while someone is being complimentary thats good. The other side is that if someone is feeling aggreived or left out put down etc. Then sometimes the first line of defence is too say something offensive or nasty just to try and convey their own feeling of hurt or rejection.
Maybe, or maybe they just come back out of morbid curiosity? Happens to me all the time...
so you all say if you get asked back then you must be good ? well i have been asked back by most men and woman i have been with so if thats true am a good fuck !!!! BUT what if it just as simple as your not that good but none else will fuck them on that day so u will do? most men and woman i have fucked want more and i always put a smile on there faces so i think am a good fuck lol
:bounce: :bounce:
tinks xxxxx
good point sexkitten , i always have fun and always make sure my man smile and your right at the end of the day thats all that matters
tinks xxxx
Well as said.... If your asked back, or to be seen again then theres your answer!
If you see lots of different people without being asked again.. then I'd worry.
Mm Mike!!
Like everyone has said... you get invited back for seconds, maybe even thirds!! :rascal:
i think being a good fuck is as much about the person your with than how good you yourself are, i mean we do what we do pretty much same with everyone but sometimes you come away thinking 'that was fab' and other times you think 'i was really shit' if you dont connect sexually with the person your with its never going to be good, im a firm believer of the saying your only as good as the person your shagging.
I think if you are having fun the chances are that the person or persons you are with are having fun too.
For me thats the main criteria.
I think that you can tell whether your partner has enjoyed it!!!!
thinking about it... and in no real order..these would be the indicators id look for ....for an idea
1) you cant fake moisture!!!!
2) You cant fake that "sex-flushing" red skin thingy
3) some women shake and gasp for a while after orgasm...
4) if you get told that you were ASKING
5) Your partner suggests tht you have another go at it.
6) your a male and you can last for more that 5 mins including foreplay)
7) you get told youre the best without asking
to be honest..... and no offence to those who have said it....... but to say that you have never had complaints is NOT an indicator youre a good shag............
if youve had compliments from more than 5 partners, or any of point 1-5 above...........you can rest assured that youre at least GOOD....