How Often do You Wank?

13 Sep 2007

Depends when I'm in the mood, sometimes I won't for weeks n weeks, then I'll be at it with my rabbit like, er, a rabbit?!
We had a 'DIY race' the other day, Den assured me he would win in minutes, but I won hands down!!! wink

M x

13 Sep 2007

Quote by Bonedigger

you werent saying that yesterday :wanker:

No but then there wasn't much by the way of actual words from both of us.
hump

:spit:

:wanker:

13 Sep 2007

Quote by bbw_lover

you werent saying that yesterday :wanker:

No but then there wasn't much by the way of actual words from both of us.
:spit: :wanker:

Puleeeeeeeesssssssssse will you two get a room! :shock:
wink

13 Sep 2007

Quote by mazandden
Depends when I'm in the mood, sometimes I won't for weeks n weeks, then I'll be at it with my rabbit like, er, a rabbit?!
We had a 'DIY race' the other day, Den assured me he would win in minutes, but I won hands down!!!
M x

DIY race, I like it!

13 Sep 2007

Quote by jaymar

you werent saying that yesterday :wanker:

No but then there wasn't much by the way of actual words from both of us.
:spit: :wanker:

Puleeeeeeeesssssssssse will you two get a room! :shock:
wink

We're working on it honest.
redface

ops: :oops:

13 Sep 2007

Quote by jaymar
Depends when I'm in the mood, sometimes I won't for weeks n weeks, then I'll be at it with my rabbit like, er, a rabbit?!
We had a 'DIY race' the other day, Den assured me he would win in minutes, but I won hands down!!!
M x

DIY race, I like it!
I like it too! But I know I'll always win, mind you, i get to use my rabbit, Den just has to make do with his hands! :giggle:

14 Sep 2007

Quote by chazxx
Silly Q I know but hey why not
I'm at it at least 3 times a day which I think might be a bit much. I have sex about 5/6 times a week on top of this.
is this normal or am I messed up?

What a body!!!! Would you mind aufully if i wank over you???? :giggle: Love And Light. Merlleena xxx

17 Sep 2007

According to my ex-wife I was wanker for most of our married life. So that means I was masterbating continuously for 8 years

17 Sep 2007

Quote by keeno
According to my ex-wife I was wanker for most of our married life. So that means I was masterbating continuously for 8 years

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

17 Sep 2007

used to be once most days but gona be a bit more now for a while lol

18 Sep 2007

Quote by Tania
Why, oh why are you wanking guys? :doh: Save it for some hungry woman, I say! :grin: Or if you are going to wank anyway, let's organise a ... well, you know... it is the B word.

Exactly....those that wank on cam must be those can't get a woman surely? How much better when it's for real.
I always thought the web cam wankers were just saddos who couldn't find themselves a woman. Perhaps I'm wrong.
Give me a 'real' man every time.
Never understood who the web cam wanker's meant to pleasure? Just makes me laugh so obviously not me lol

18 Sep 2007

Quote by Hannahrose
Why, oh why are you wanking guys? :doh: Save it for some hungry woman, I say! :grin: Or if you are going to wank anyway, let's organise a ... well, you know... it is the B word.

Exactly....those that wank on cam must be those can't get a woman surely? How much better when it's for real.
I always thought the web cam wankers were just saddos who couldn't find themselves a woman. Perhaps I'm wrong.
Give me a 'real' man every time.
Never understood who the web cam wanker's meant to pleasure? Just makes me laugh so obviously not me lol

:shock: Real man? Saddos? Can't find a woman?
Maybe some people actually like to watch? Wouldn't do for us all to like the same, eh? confused

18 Sep 2007

Quote by Hannahrose
Why, oh why are you wanking guys? :doh: Save it for some hungry woman, I say! :grin: Or if you are going to wank anyway, let's organise a ... well, you know... it is the B word.

Exactly....those that wank on cam must be those can't get a woman surely? How much better when it's for real.
I always thought the web cam wankers were just saddos who couldn't find themselves a woman. Perhaps I'm wrong.
Give me a 'real' man every time.
Never understood who the web cam wanker's meant to pleasure? Just makes me laugh so obviously not me lol

So "real men" dont wank then confused

Louise

18 Sep 2007

Quote by Hannahrose
Why, oh why are you wanking guys? :doh: Save it for some hungry woman, I say! :grin: Or if you are going to wank anyway, let's organise a ... well, you know... it is the B word.

Exactly....those that wank on cam must be those can't get a woman surely? How much better when it's for real.
I always thought the web cam wankers were just saddoswho couldn't find themselves a woman. Perhaps I'm wrong.
Give me a 'real' man every time.
Never understood who the web cam wanker's meant to pleasure? Just makes me laugh so obviously not me lol

:shock: words prevail me!
When we first joined SH, we played on cam, it was horny it was exciting and it was new. I played alone. Jay has once or twice had a wank on cam with me on the other end of his phone to keep me in on the horny fun.
I can tell you Jay is ALL MAN, I have never been so sexually stimulated in all my adult life.
People who play on cam get off on the fact that people are watching or directed them, it's a fun factor also and it's most certainly NOT for saddo's.
I can also reveal that if I'm very horny I have been known to watch a nice man that I know on cam a few times innocent

Does that make me a wanking viewing saddo? :huh:

18 Sep 2007

Hi Mar,
I've still got loads to learn here. Those used to be my thoughts....since being educated biggrin

, anything goes...whatever turns you on.
I've been in a long and faithful marriage so all this is very new to me. Biggest problem is having to come to terms with previous attitudes imposed on me by my up-bringing etc. Chatting here is all part of it.
Problem is so many can take offence and disappear rather than help my learning curve!
By a 'real' man I mean a man in real life not on web cam.
xx

18 Sep 2007

hey m8,
each to his own on the number of times m8
but one thing is for sure - every man now matter how sexually active and no matter how many times in a week he shags .......
... will still find the time to have a wafty crank !!
(confucious - i think javascript:emoticon(' smile

'))

18 Sep 2007

I have to admit, I LOVE watching a guy wanking, i find it a HUGE turn on watching how he handles his cock....totally different from how we women handle it.
as for me....it takes me that long to reach orgasm, i cant be arsed to wank most nights, so maybe once a week sad

18 Sep 2007

Quote by Bonedigger
I have to admit, I LOVE watching a guy wanking, i find it a HUGE turn on watching how he handles his cock....totally different from how we women handle it.
as for me....it takes me that long to reach orgasm, i cant be arsed to wank most nights, so maybe once a week

May I offer you my services?
redface

ops: :oops:

18 Sep 2007

Quote by bbw_lover
I have to admit, I LOVE watching a guy wanking, i find it a HUGE turn on watching how he handles his cock....totally different from how we women handle it.
as for me....it takes me that long to reach orgasm, i cant be arsed to wank most nights, so maybe once a week

May I offer you my services?
redface

ops: :oops:
yes, yes, YES!!! :smitten:

18 Sep 2007

Quote by Hannahrose
Hi Mar,
I've still got loads to learn here. Those used to be my thoughts....since being educated , anything goes...whatever turns you on.
I've been in a long and faithful marriage so all this is very new to me. Biggest problem is having to come to terms with previous attitudes imposed on me by my up-bringing etc. Chatting here is all part of it.
Problem is so many can take offence and disappear rather than help my learning curve!
By a 'real' man I mean a man in real life not on web cam.
xx

I appreciate your explanation, those used to be your thoughts yesterday? it didn't take long to have them changed but if you have then good on you! smile

I cannot see how your comments were imposed by your upbringing if you are a member of a Swinging site I would imagine you are quite liberated in the first place but you posted your thoughts and there will be some who agree and there will be some who disagree (as I did) but that doesn't mean you have to change your thoughts or ideas, just remain yourself and accept critiscm good or bad. wink

18 Sep 2007

Quote by Bonedigger
I have to admit, I LOVE watching a guy wanking, i find it a HUGE turn on watching how he handles his cock....totally different from how we women handle it.
as for me....it takes me that long to reach orgasm, i cant be arsed to wank most nights, so maybe once a week

May I offer you my services?
redface

ops: :oops:
yes, yes, YES!!! :smitten:
I was hoping you'd say that hunnie
hump

:hump: :hump:

18 Sep 2007

Quote by jaymar
Hi Mar,
I've still got loads to learn here. Those used to be my thoughts....since being educated , anything goes...whatever turns you on.
I've been in a long and faithful marriage so all this is very new to me. Biggest problem is having to come to terms with previous attitudes imposed on me by my up-bringing etc. Chatting here is all part of it.
Problem is so many can take offence and disappear rather than help my learning curve!
By a 'real' man I mean a man in real life not on web cam.
xx

I appreciate your explanation, those used to be your thoughts yesterday? it didn't take long to have them changed but if you have then good on you! smile

I cannot see how your comments were imposed by your upbringing if you are a member of a Swinging site I would imagine you are quite liberated in the first placebut you posted your thoughts and there will be some who agree and there will be some who disagree (as I did) but that doesn't mean you have to change your thoughts or ideas, just remain yourself and accept critiscm good or bad. wink

Erm

, sadly not always the case. I can still feel guilty about having an orgasm ffs! I blame my catholic school :wink:

18 Sep 2007

Quote by jaymar
Hi Mar,
I've still got loads to learn here. Those used to be my thoughts....since being educated , anything goes...whatever turns you on.
I've been in a long and faithful marriage so all this is very new to me. Biggest problem is having to come to terms with previous attitudes imposed on me by my up-bringing etc. Chatting here is all part of it.
Problem is so many can take offence and disappear rather than help my learning curve!
By a 'real' man I mean a man in real life not on web cam.
xx

I appreciate your explanation, those used to be your thoughts yesterday? it didn't take long to have them changed but if you have then good on you! smile

I cannot see how your comments were imposed by your upbringing if you are a member of a Swinging site I would imagine you are quite liberated in the first place but you posted your thoughts and there will be some who agree and there will be some who disagree (as I did) but that doesn't mean you have to change your thoughts or ideas, just remain yourself and accept critiscm good or bad. wink

Not sure I understand...any lingering prejudices are the result of my upbringing. Can be quite difficult to shake off.
I wasn't liberated until four years ago then got taken there and wow, never looked back!
Certainly not changed my thoughts or ideas that have been formulated while enjoying all this. Just some practices I find harder to understand. Before this time too busy achieving in the career sense. Got married, had kids, reached top of my profession, retired early, discovered sex :D and never looked back. Now what was the question?

18 Sep 2007

Quote by winchwench
Hi Mar,
I've still got loads to learn here. Those used to be my thoughts....since being educated , anything goes...whatever turns you on.
I've been in a long and faithful marriage so all this is very new to me. Biggest problem is having to come to terms with previous attitudes imposed on me by my up-bringing etc. Chatting here is all part of it.
Problem is so many can take offence and disappear rather than help my learning curve!
By a 'real' man I mean a man in real life not on web cam.
xx

I appreciate your explanation, those used to be your thoughts yesterday? it didn't take long to have them changed but if you have then good on you! smile

I cannot see how your comments were imposed by your upbringing if you are a member of a Swinging site I would imagine you are quite liberated in the first placebut you posted your thoughts and there will be some who agree and there will be some who disagree (as I did) but that doesn't mean you have to change your thoughts or ideas, just remain yourself and accept critiscm good or bad. wink

Erm

, sadly not always the case. I can still feel guilty about having an orgasm ffs! I blame my catholic school :wink:
I too went to a catholic school.. guess it had the opposite affect of me surprised

ops: I broke away from the norm and found out a long time ago that it's nothing to be ashamed of.
Now wenchy, as for this guilt over an orgasm... may I help in any way :rascal:

18 Sep 2007

I've been knocking round this site for a while. I am constantly amazed how little I seem to know about sex, sexual practices, terms, descriptions and things that people enjoy. Just when I think I've got a handle on it all along comes a subject that just knocks me sideways. I thought I was broadminded but I know now that I am clearly rather naive and innocent. I try not to judge other peoples sexual pleasures but its hard not to. I try not to take critism of any comments I post personnaly, but its hard not to.
So just watch, listen, learn. Post your own thoughts where you will and don't get involved in pointless futile arguements.
biggrin

:D :D :D

18 Sep 2007

Quote by Hannahrose
Hi Mar,
I've still got loads to learn here. Those used to be my thoughts....since being educated , anything goes...whatever turns you on.
I've been in a long and faithful marriage so all this is very new to me. Biggest problem is having to come to terms with previous attitudes imposed on me by my up-bringing etc. Chatting here is all part of it.
Problem is so many can take offence and disappear rather than help my learning curve!
By a 'real' man I mean a man in real life not on web cam.
xx

I appreciate your explanation, those used to be your thoughts yesterday? it didn't take long to have them changed but if you have then good on you! smile

I cannot see how your comments were imposed by your upbringing if you are a member of a Swinging site I would imagine you are quite liberated in the first place but you posted your thoughts and there will be some who agree and there will be some who disagree (as I did) but that doesn't mean you have to change your thoughts or ideas, just remain yourself and accept critiscm good or bad. wink

Not sure I understand...any lingering prejudices are the result of my upbringing. Can be quite difficult to shake off.
I wasn't liberated until four years ago then got taken there and wow, never looked back!
Certainly not changed my thoughts or ideas that have been formulated while enjoying all this. Just some practices I find harder to understand. Before this time too busy achieving in the career sense. Got married, had kids, reached top of my profession, retired early, discovered sex :D and never looked back. Now what was the question?
There isn't one really, more answers and advice and there it rests, be yourself, watch listen learn like Keeno says, but above all maybe stay clear of calling others 'saddo's'. :wink:

20 Aug 2008

*Archive alert*
lol

I've been down in the vaults and thought would give this topic an airing.
So, how often do you wank?
I'm currently an every day at least once kinda gal! wink

20 Aug 2008

Quote by noladreams30
*Archive alert*

I've been down in the vaults and thought would give this topic an airing.
So, how often do you wank?
I'm currently an every day at least once kinda gal!

Wow can't believe this post is nearly a year old!
and I'm still an every day gal too! cool

20 Aug 2008

And my answer is the same now as back then...it`s still most days. smile