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Quote by Clare_Lincs
Debs youve got a great bod and a crackingly messed up mind,
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: i sure have got one of those..minds.......... and boy has it got me into trouble at times.i can tell you 
ops: now i am off to get some good looking sleep { sos cannot spell buitfull errrrrrr} :doh:
Reading through all the posts on this thread i think most women have something they dont like about their bodies. I have plenty, and sure even models and other beautiful people have things they would change. At the end of the day nobody is perfect and i often have days where i feel fat and no clothes look right. We are meeting a couple on Sat night and even though we have seen each other on cam (both nude and clothed) we still worry incase they take one look and think it looked better in the pics and make a hasty exit. I know i need to diet and exercise but i love chocolate and am too lazy.
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Forgot to say from what i can see you look great
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Forgot to say from what i can see you look great
Sex God
Quote by mal
Don't do it!!! I like them just the way they are and I don't think I'm alone in that opinion!!
There not here just for you to have a perv at ya know!!!!!
:rotflmao: 
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Quote by xxdevil69
Don't do it!!! I like them just the way they are and I don't think I'm alone in that opinion!!
There not here just for you to have a perv at ya know!!!!!
:rotflmao::cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :twisted:
(That's not what I was led to believe!!)
Debs hun why do you have to beat yourself up over these things.I think your fantastic and for all those people who would run a mile,they arent worth your time or effort.I certainly wouldnt run a mile as i think you look absolutely a wonderful person who is graet to know,so stop being silly.
Just wait till the munch,you'll feel much better i promise,you'll get loads of attention and i'm sure you'll be having some fun too
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And you my darling are perfect,don't change a thing because to me you look like the most beautiful woman in the world
Just wait till the munch,you'll feel much better i promise,you'll get loads of attention and i'm sure you'll be having some fun too
.Quote by Clare Goddess
Im about a size 16 and my belly is best well and truely hidden,after loosing a lot of weight it looks too flabby for my of course theres the stretch marks from having kids to contend with.
And you my darling are perfect,don't change a thing because to me you look like the most beautiful woman in the world
Sex God
Quote by mal609
Don't do it!!! I like them just the way they are and I don't think I'm alone in that opinion!!
There not here just for you to have a perv at ya know!!!!!
:rotflmao::cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :twisted:
(That's not what I was led to believe!!)
No no, Mal, I think you're taking xxdevil69's reply the wrong way! The way I read it is: "There not here just for you to have a perv at ya know!!!!!" (emphasis mine), with the operative word being "just". In other words, it appears that she's hoping for far more from you than just perving! As to what that might be, I suggest you let your imagination run wild!! ;)
~Reese!
P.S. to xxdevil69: I hearily concur. Don't do it! You're perfect just the way you are!! Of course, it's totally your decision, especially if it would make you more comfortable and happy with yourself. Of course, we'll still love you if you decide to go for the reduction... :love: ...but we'll cry!! :cry:
Quote by VFR Rider
silicone breasted, cosmetically enhanced bimbo's that predominate the magazine shelves.
Couldn't agree with you more. I remember being at a beach bar on Mallorca once when six or seven girls all in a row were sitting up on their loungers chatting, looking like a toblerone bar on its side. Then they all lay down and nature took it's course, gravity won, except for two thirds of the way down the line, two chunks of the toblerone bar pointing skywards.
It looks so false and not sexy. I was at a photographic show earlier this week and spotted an escaping photo model with round sticky out boobs, personally I thought they looked 'orrible.
Throwing in an oar, I cant believe you over 40 debs, and I mean that in a good way. I wouldn't worry about your bod at all, a body is attached to a mind, and believe me that counts for a lot in any situation 
Besides which your body looks great to me.
I used to go out with a catwalk model, wont bore you with the details, but the mind wasn't there to back up the looks. I'm not with her any more...
As for why us younger (Hey I'm not 30 I'm 21 (in dreams) and sticking) blokes love older ladies it is I think for similar reasons. You go to bed with a person, not a body. There is nothingin this world like a confident woman in bed (or man, whatever your taste). Looks come second to that 99 times out of a hundred...
Besides which your body looks great to me.I used to go out with a catwalk model, wont bore you with the details, but the mind wasn't there to back up the looks. I'm not with her any more...
As for why us younger (Hey I'm not 30 I'm 21 (in dreams) and sticking) blokes love older ladies it is I think for similar reasons. You go to bed with a person, not a body. There is nothingin this world like a confident woman in bed (or man, whatever your taste). Looks come second to that 99 times out of a hundred...
Sexpert
Debbie,
a couple of years ago decided to go for the "perfect" 10 and the glam look. It took a lot of hard work, eating less of what she loved, drinking less of what she loved, many hours training and toning, ruined holidays and summers by feeling obliged too catch EVERY last drip of sun etc etc etc.
thank god she gave all THAT lot up and returned to the perfect 12/14/16 or whatever it is !!!!! Not as happy with her looks but far far happier with life. Like yourself she is conscious of her body but knows that 99% are....she figures that if you go moderation and stay active you`ll find your true size and not the medical book size. I meanwhile am MORE than happy with her philosophy. xx
a couple of years ago decided to go for the "perfect" 10 and the glam look. It took a lot of hard work, eating less of what she loved, drinking less of what she loved, many hours training and toning, ruined holidays and summers by feeling obliged too catch EVERY last drip of sun etc etc etc.
thank god she gave all THAT lot up and returned to the perfect 12/14/16 or whatever it is !!!!!
Not as happy with her looks but far far happier with life. Like yourself she is conscious of her body but knows that 99% are....she figures that if you go moderation and stay active you`ll find your true size and not the medical book size. I meanwhile am MORE than happy with her philosophy. xx This is such a big topic !!! no pun intended!!
I suppose when i first started swinging i was very aware that i was not a conventional model type and couldnt woik out why men were interested, like you especialy why the younger ones wwere interested!!
And then i realised that most of them wernt perfect either, m=most had too little hair and too much stomach and some even had other bits that could have been bigger!! but the ones i choose to see wernt the ones iwth six packs and 9" dongas (weel not all the time),. The ones i choose to meet where the ones with personality and confidence.
When i realised this my confidence sored. Then i read that larger women have more sex hormones and i listened to men with thin wives/partners prattleling on about hw she wouldnt do this and wouldnt do that and i got it!! Uts not to do with looks, its to do with being you and being happy being you, after all who wants to spend an afternoon locked in a bedroom with a size 8 missery??
Before i meet anyone i always point out that i am no stick insect, the respones is usually to the effect of, " so what?" After that i forget all about it and get on with being me and enjoying myself!!!
I suppose when i first started swinging i was very aware that i was not a conventional model type and couldnt woik out why men were interested, like you especialy why the younger ones wwere interested!!
And then i realised that most of them wernt perfect either, m=most had too little hair and too much stomach and some even had other bits that could have been bigger!! but the ones i choose to see wernt the ones iwth six packs and 9" dongas (weel not all the time),. The ones i choose to meet where the ones with personality and confidence.
When i realised this my confidence sored. Then i read that larger women have more sex hormones and i listened to men with thin wives/partners prattleling on about hw she wouldnt do this and wouldnt do that and i got it!! Uts not to do with looks, its to do with being you and being happy being you, after all who wants to spend an afternoon locked in a bedroom with a size 8 missery??
Before i meet anyone i always point out that i am no stick insect, the respones is usually to the effect of, " so what?" After that i forget all about it and get on with being me and enjoying myself!!!
Sex God
Debs, I have seen you photo on your Aviator and you look absolutely fab to me! Swap you anyday!
Really funny this, but i have just pm'd someone with the same message saying I dont feel too comfortable with my body. I dont feel too uncomfortable getting undressed in front of a bloke (well, down the sexy undies) but always feel self conscious if there is a woman around!
I dont think any of us will ever be perfectly happy with what we have got, or what we look like, but I am starting to think that if people dont accept me as I am, then they have the problem, not me!
Only thing is, you look absolutely FAB! Believe me girl, you got nothing to worry about and from the smile on my other halfs face, he totally agrees!
Really funny this, but i have just pm'd someone with the same message saying I dont feel too comfortable with my body. I dont feel too uncomfortable getting undressed in front of a bloke (well, down the sexy undies) but always feel self conscious if there is a woman around!
I dont think any of us will ever be perfectly happy with what we have got, or what we look like, but I am starting to think that if people dont accept me as I am, then they have the problem, not me!
Only thing is, you look absolutely FAB! Believe me girl, you got nothing to worry about and from the smile on my other halfs face, he totally agrees!
Sex God
I will add my thought to this, I think a truly attractive woman at a club or party is one who is out to have fun and enjoy herself. Looks are fairly secondary and so is age.
I adore giving women oral, the most beautiful thing to me is a woman in the middle of an orgasm.
If I have chatted to someone and like them I am not going to run away if they don't look quite how I expect. Also if I have chatted to a woman at a club and really like them I am not about to change my opinions at the sight of a bit of 'mummy tummy' or a few stretch marks.
So to all you ladies who are self conscious about your size, tummy, thighs, whatever. Remember that most men are not as shallow as we make out, we love you for who you are not your vital statistics.
Roger.
I adore giving women oral, the most beautiful thing to me is a woman in the middle of an orgasm.
If I have chatted to someone and like them I am not going to run away if they don't look quite how I expect. Also if I have chatted to a woman at a club and really like them I am not about to change my opinions at the sight of a bit of 'mummy tummy' or a few stretch marks.
So to all you ladies who are self conscious about your size, tummy, thighs, whatever. Remember that most men are not as shallow as we make out, we love you for who you are not your vital statistics.
Roger.
A lot of people have insecurities about their body but most people hide them. No-one is perfect and we all have flaws. Attraction comes in all shapes and sizes. I can remember the first time I took my clothes off infront of other people, I was terrified, but then gave myself a mental kick up the jacksy, and went for it. If people don't find me attractive, then they don't have to look!!
Remember:-
Be proud of yourself and walk tall.
:D Respect yourself for the individual that you are.
:D Accept who you are and love you for just being you.
I look forward to meeting you at a munch.
Remember:-
Be proud of yourself and walk tall. :D Respect yourself for the individual that you are.
:D Accept who you are and love you for just being you.
I look forward to meeting you at a munch.
Sex God
Quote by Debbiewebs
Debs youve got a great bod and a crackingly messed up mind,
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: i sure have got one of those..minds.......... and boy has it got me into trouble at times.i can tell you ops: Yes, and it's made you a lot of friends too so don't you forget that!
Personality counts for a lot and you've got that in abundance and as for your being worried about what people will think of the 'real' you ... I concur with the others ... you ARE a silly billy and you're being extremely harsh and unfair on yourself.
You know, the kind of people who would judge you or anyone else for that matter, on some perceived idea of how someone should look ... really AREN'T the kind of people any of us would miss, right?
I hope you will see from the replies you've had already here that you're much loved and ... in being worried about how people will think of you - you're actually feeling no different to anyone else ... which means we've all got a lot in common
Everyone has something they're not happy about when it comes to how they look/feel ... that's what makes us all unique and the same!
ps: The fact that you're such a fanatic about lemonade is yet another plus ... you can tell a lot about a woman by how she holds her lemonade
you no............. you all have been great in helping me feel comfortable 
.sorry i can not pick you all out as i don't no how to do those bloody Quote things for more then one peep. :doh: ...................i really really thank you all for your support and kindness
And i have to say that it has made me feel so much more confident in my self!.. :bounce: ...
UNTIL I TOOK THE KIDS TO BED! GRRRRRR.....
.and me Little one who's 5 said ...........mummy i do love you so much!.............arr i thought how sweet.............................. then i made the mistake of asking her ............why Baby do you love mummy sooooooo much!....and she replied
BECAUSE YOUR JUST LIKE A BOUNCING CASTLE
oooooooooooooo don't you just love emmm grrrrrr
.sorry i can not pick you all out as i don't no how to do those bloody Quote things for more then one peep. :doh:
...................i really really thank you all for your support and kindness And i have to say that it has made me feel so much more confident in my self!.. :bounce: ...
UNTIL I TOOK THE KIDS TO BED! GRRRRRR.....
.and me Little one who's 5 said ...........mummy i do love you so much!.............arr i thought how sweet.............................. then i made the mistake of asking her ............why Baby do you love mummy sooooooo much!....and she replied
BECAUSE YOUR JUST LIKE A BOUNCING CASTLE
oooooooooooooo don't you just love emmm grrrrrr
Sex God
If you need any more confidence boosting, I'll quite happily take you too bed!! :twisted:
( did I just say that out loud?!?!)
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did I just say that out loud?!?!) Quote by xxdevil69
If you need any more confidence boosting, I'll quite happily take you too bed!! :twisted:
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YES YOU DID
and i must say very nice to :wink:so what ever you do Don't get those boobs reduced! you can stick them next to me and i can image them to be mine
Quote by Vix
If you don't like Bod, talk to Aunt Flo or Farmer Barley Mow instead.
I personally am a size 14/16. Am 11 sodding stone at the moment, but hope to shave a little off that by the munch. I ideally would be 9st, IMHO, but if I do one of those BMI chart tests, I should be 7 - 7.5 st. I am only 5'2" tall.
Stretchies and flubber are the things we have. Sometimes I am happy with my bod., other times I hate it. I think everyone is the same.
Unless we are prepared to put in some serious gym time (and I am NOT!) then I don't think we can complain too loudly.
Can I stand next to you at the Munch????? 5'2, 11st and an 14/16 here ..... and stretchmarks .... sheesh .. you could navigate from lands end to john o groats on mine easily!!!!
I am putting gym time in but moreso because my health is suffering than actually being motivated to loose weight LOL
Sex God
Gym?!?!? Who's 'gym'? You reckon he'll come round to my place? 
Quote by Debbiewebs
you no............. you all have been great in helping me feel comfortable
.sorry i can not pick you all out as i don't no how to do those bloody Quote things for more then one peep. :doh:
And i have to say that it has made me feel so much more confident in my self!.. :bounce: ...
UNTIL I TOOK THE KIDS TO BED! GRRRRRR.....
.and me Little one who's 5 said ...........mummy i do love you so much!.............arr i thought how sweet.............................. then i made the mistake of asking her ............why Baby do you love mummy sooooooo much!....and she replied
BECAUSE YOUR JUST LIKE A BOUNCING CASTLE
Debs
assionkiss:My daughter turned round and told her teacher last year that I was old enough to be her granny nearly :doh:
i wouldn't mind too much but I'm only 31, she's almost 8 and I want to meet this boyfriend first LOLOLOLLOL
oooooooooooooo don't you just love emmm grrrrrr
Too many women worry TOO much about this.
The size 8-12 ... "eye candy"; great to look at and for pin ups, in the same way that women drool over the muscle bound hunks.
But when push comes to shove, I have always found that larger ladies are more passionate, adventurous, open minded and generally a whole load more fun to be with.
I don't rule out the slim figured women (after all I am a man), but given the choice I know whose bed I'd rather be in.
The size 8-12 ... "eye candy"; great to look at and for pin ups, in the same way that women drool over the muscle bound hunks.
But when push comes to shove, I have always found that larger ladies are more passionate, adventurous, open minded and generally a whole load more fun to be with.
I don't rule out the slim figured women (after all I am a man), but given the choice I know whose bed I'd rather be in.
Orgasminator
You have absolutely nothing to worry about.
