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The site now appears to be orientated to couples, unless you are a male model, ordinary guys do not get a lookin.I would be interested in comments from peeps.
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if you are not a couple you do not get a look in
We'll we're a gay couple but if you're speaking about straight couples then I guess that makes us the equivalent of two 'normal', non-model, single males.... and we've had lots of fun 
This site is orientated to whatever you want to make it fella... it just takes time, patience, honesty and a little bit of self-investment :P
This site is orientated to whatever you want to make it fella... it just takes time, patience, honesty and a little bit of self-investment :P
Confusing profile mr Scorpio... you state you're a straight male, but you're looking for "single straight male" or a "couple with a bi male" 
oh and in the bit you write about yourself
Just trying to help
oh and in the bit you write about yourself
49yr old fun guy,seeking couples, and/or a lady who is fed up with her current relationshipwhat's wrong with ladies not in relationships or ladies in relationships who aren't fed up but who are looking for single guys to play with?
Just trying to help
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ops: :kiss: :kiss: right play nice peeps I'm off out and will miss all the fun Quote by scorpio1950
The site now appears to be orientated to couples, unless you are a male model, ordinary guys do not get a lookin.I would be interested in comments from peeps.
Well, I am now part of a couple, but not so long ago I was a single guy using this site. I have had my share of success, and my share of failure, but havent we all?
I am far from being a male model, over 50, a tad overweight, hardly a moviestar, but hey its mostly what happens between your ears that governs success or failure.
If I may suggest a few hints?
1. Lose the quick shag mentality
2. Pay a bit of attention to your profile
3. Ditto your ads
4. Give it time, the paint isnt dry on your membership yet
Quote by scorpio1950
The site now appears to be orientated to couples, unless you are a male model, ordinary guys do not get a lookin.I would be interested in comments from peeps.
Another i'm feeling sorry for myself thread because i haven't had a meet yet....
you get back what you put in,here on this site...nothing is easy,it can be hard won't all come knocking at your door.....so quit whinging and do something about....you've only been using the site for two months...
that is the best advice weve seen in a long while......quick and to the point.......also add
6:....dont be a letch ....puts most people off!
Well, I am now part of a couple, but not so long ago I was a single guy using this site. I have had my share of success, and my share of failure, but havent we all?
I am far from being a male model, over 50, a tad overweight, hardly a moviestar, but hey its mostly what happens between your ears that governs success or failure.
If I may suggest a few hints?
1. Lose the quick shag mentality
2. Pay a bit of attention to your profile
3. Ditto your ads
4. Give it time, the paint isnt dry on your membership yet
6:....dont be a letch ....puts most people off!
Quote by Reikiradical
The site now appears to be orientated to couples, unless you are a male model, ordinary guys do not get a lookin.I would be interested in comments from peeps.
Well, I am now part of a couple, but not so long ago I was a single guy using this site. I have had my share of success, and my share of failure, but havent we all?
I am far from being a male model, over 50, a tad overweight, hardly a moviestar, but hey its mostly what happens between your ears that governs success or failure.
If I may suggest a few hints?
1. Lose the quick shag mentality
2. Pay a bit of attention to your profile
3. Ditto your ads
4. Give it time, the paint isnt dry on your membership yet
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I have an idea , if we all stop posting he will fade into the distance like a bad smell
Sex God
Quote by Kiss_Me
I have an idea , if we all stop posting he will fade into the distance like a bad smell
But where would the fun be in that? :twisted:
Sorry we must have been reading a different thread
Quote by Reikiradical
1. Lose the quick shag mentality
2. Pay a bit of attention to your profile
3. Ditto your ads
4. Give it time, the paint isnt dry on your membership yet
:thumbup:
We should use this as a standard response to this kind of whinge... wonderful and very wise words Reikiradical
Like others on here I used to be a single male...
Yes I know hard to believe but I used to be one of the crowd lol....
not going to have a go... everyone else has done that...
It is hard work to start with on this site... Like everything else no one knows you and they don't know what you are like can you be trusted are you who you say you are.
This site is bout having fun with liked minded people it is also about banter and jokes and also support... its a group of friends who are relaxed and very open with each other.
Get yourself known but be patient, be thoughtful, get to know people.. If you spend most of your time in the forum then post now and again on a thread. If you use chat then stick to the same chat room for a while and get to know people. Until you do that you ain't going to get anything.
Once you are known come to a social / munch... Then you will see what this site is about. Yes you COULD end up having sex with someone it is never a promise or guarantee that you willl. If you are looking for that try elsewhere..
If you are really lucky you might meet someone and it becomes more than just a meet and a shag.. yes it does happen, happened to Reikiradical and also me. But you have to be yourself and be known before anything will happen.
Don't be part of the group that spoil it, the ones that just look for a quick shag behind thier partners back, be part of the whole thing... there is more to this than you think...
Yes I know hard to believe but I used to be one of the crowd lol....
not going to have a go... everyone else has done that...
It is hard work to start with on this site... Like everything else no one knows you and they don't know what you are like can you be trusted are you who you say you are.
This site is bout having fun with liked minded people it is also about banter and jokes and also support... its a group of friends who are relaxed and very open with each other.
Get yourself known but be patient, be thoughtful, get to know people.. If you spend most of your time in the forum then post now and again on a thread. If you use chat then stick to the same chat room for a while and get to know people. Until you do that you ain't going to get anything.
Once you are known come to a social / munch... Then you will see what this site is about. Yes you COULD end up having sex with someone it is never a promise or guarantee that you willl. If you are looking for that try elsewhere..
If you are really lucky you might meet someone and it becomes more than just a meet and a shag.. yes it does happen, happened to Reikiradical and also me. But you have to be yourself and be known before anything will happen.
Don't be part of the group that spoil it, the ones that just look for a quick shag behind thier partners back, be part of the whole thing... there is more to this than you think...
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I've not had a adult dalliance off here either,but what I have done is meet some fantastic people who are the most amazing caring compassionate,funny people you could ever wish to meet!
I would rather have friends than a one off jump anyday.
However if someone fancies a one off jump...........
I would rather have friends than a one off jump anyday.
However if someone fancies a one off jump...........
