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What is the very first thing that attracts you to someone?????
The little detail that makes you want to know them further.......... to find out more about them.................. the spark that connects you to that person?????
The one thing about them that immediately jumps out at you and says this person is interesting me enough to want to take it further....... to become more intimate with them.......????????
The thing that intrigues you????????
equi-princess xxx
Tits
Sorry redface seriously i have a real thing about eyes and eye contact. I think you can tell so much through them
Same for me - eyes and eye contact. Mischevious eyes, smiling eyes and eyes which tell me that the person is going to shine light into my life.
Body language
Exchange of minds, if someone can capture my thought processes with some intelligent conversation then I could well be reeled in.
:shock: :shock:
Breastssssssssssststsssss
Oh - and a pulse
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What is the very first thing that attracts you to someone?????
The little detail that makes you want to know them further.......... to find out more about them.................. the spark that connects you to that person?????
The one thing about them that immediately jumps out at you and says this person is interesting me enough to want to take it further....... to become more intimate with them.......????????
The thing that intrigues you????????
equi-princess xxx

For initial attraction, not sure it is any one thing. Sometimes it is a smile. smile Sometimes an amazing pair of eyes. :shock: Or a smell. confused Sometimes an enchanting laugh. lol Or an air of confidence. biggrin Looking good in a tight skirt, or a short top. :twisted: Depends on the moment and the impression that is created....
Al
Similar to Warwick.
There is a certain type of eye contact that just sends a spark through me,
Usually accompanied by a certain facial expression, can't really put my finger on it exactly, but it’s the kind of look that says, “wow, I need to talk to this 
It has only happened a few times, and on each occasion I have managed to pluck up the courage to speak to the person concerned to find that they too felt that spark.
Did it ever go further? Well gentelmen don’t kiss and tell.
:twisted: :twisted:
Has to be confidence for me. Give me a woman who knows what she wants anyday !
im with warwick on that one. gorgeous eyes with a cheeky glint, a nice smile & easy going.
and nice tits :lol2:
I use to be attracted an intrigued by all the wrong things.
Now it's the bank balance that does it for me
:giggle:
That all works fine if you've then taken the steps to meet that person......
What if you're either on the Forum or in the Chatroom????
What is it that intrigues you then...... and makes you want to find out more ??????
What if you haven't actually met this person yet?
For me, it's intelligence....... Give me a strong minded woman who KNOWS HER OWN MIND AND WHAT SHE WANTS and I'm hooked!
A great set of water wings wouldn't go amiss either!
lol :lol: :lol:
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That all works fine if you've then taken the steps to meet that person......
What if you're either on the Forum or in the Chatroom????
What is it that intrigues you then...... and makes you want to find out more ??????

Intelligence, personality, sense of humour.
Oh yeah and bouncy boob type avatars. LIb+love, if you ever need a hand getting 'em out/putting 'em back ya only have to ask! wink
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Oh yeah and bouncy boob type avatars. LIb+love, if you ever need a hand getting 'em out/putting 'em back ya only have to ask! wink

redface I'm not really as clumsy handling myself as it looks in that av surprisedops:
But thanks for the offer :P
Eyes, definatly eyes.
As mentioned, I think you can tell so much from someones eyes.
Only once I have I gazed into someone's eyes and seen happiness, laughter, compassion, intrigue. But especially laughter, that ability to have spontaneous laughter for no apparent reason . Funnily enough, that was the only woman I ever fell in love with.
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That all works fine if you've then taken the steps to meet that person......
What if you're either on the Forum or in the Chatroom????
What is it that intrigues you then...... and makes you want to find out more ??????

Hmmm, I guess this is kind of shallow, but horny behaviour does it for me every time redface
What? dunno Well is this a swinging site or not? If I wanted intellectual stimulation I'd be on a site/forum/chatroom to do with that wouldn't I? rolleyes
Seriously though, of course I like clever, witty and amusing people, but when it comes down to it, give me some good old fashioned smut anytime. :twisted:
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Seriously though, of course I like clever, witty and amusing people, but when it comes down to it, give me some good old fashioned smut anytime. :twisted:
bolt

we go.
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That all works fine if you've then taken the steps to meet that person......
What if you're either on the Forum or in the Chatroom????
What is it that intrigues you then...... and makes you want to find out more ??????

make me giggle and I'm yours !
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Oh yeah and bouncy boob type avatars. LIb+love, if you ever need a hand getting 'em out/putting 'em back ya only have to ask! wink

redface I'm not really as clumsy handling myself as it looks in that av surprisedops:
But thanks for the offer :P
Sheesh! Who said anything about clumsy? I was just in awe! :shock: :twisted: :shock:
I was just wishful thinking in between drooling really, but the offer stands! :wink:
a sense of humour I love to have a giggle lol
there can be so many different things, on a forum like this i find wit attracts me and i become intrigued as to what the members look like, in person i love a womans smile and like others have mntioned eyes, but then again i can fall in love at the drop of a hat which isnt good, i also get attracted to any woman that i can talk to easily but then again we can all be like that a little smile
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a sense of humour I love to have a giggle lol

Okay then, what's the difference between light and hard....?
A woman with short blonde hair does it for me.
Okay then, what's the difference between light and hard....?
I dunno what is the difference?
Visually - posture does it for me everytime, gives the impression of confidence, also like eyes and a nice friendly smile.
On the board - bit of a tough one that- sense of humour is the main one, but also like a bit of mystery surrounding the person - i.e not full in your face , but in saying that there are two lovley ladies on here with canny full in your face avatars that i would love to get to know better - just a bit too shy to PM out of the blue i guess!
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Okay then, what's the difference between light and hard....?

I dunno what is the difference?
You can get to sleep with a light on! lol :lol:
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Okay then, what's the difference between light and hard....?

I dunno what is the difference?
You can get to sleep with a light on! lol :lol:
rotflmao
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Visually - posture does it for me everytime, gives the impression of confidence, also like eyes and a nice friendly smile.
On the board - bit of a tough one that- sense of humour is the main one, but also like a bit of mystery surrounding the person - i.e not full in your face , but in saying that there are two lovley ladies on here with canny full in your face avatars that i would love to get to know better - just a bit too shy to PM blue i guess!

Argh...don't be shy....I'm sure she wont mind wink
A cheeky smile and someone who makes me laugh, works for me.
Lindaxxx
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im with warwick on that one. gorgeous eyes with a cheeky glint, a nice smile & easy going.
and nice tits :lol2:

ooo well i am in there then! :P
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Visually - posture does it for me everytime, gives the impression of confidence, also like eyes and a nice friendly smile.
On the board - bit of a tough one that- sense of humour is the main one, but also like a bit of mystery surrounding the person - i.e not full in your face , but in saying that there are two lovley ladies on here with canny full in your face avatars that i would love to get to know better - just a bit too shy to PM blue i guess!

Argh...don't be shy....I'm sure she wont mind wink
meant out of the blue!!! doh mis typed!!!