Hey BiFemHants how are you?
Yeah, it seem's like lots of chatroom regs, and i think i just about qualify as one now, are getting more and more pissed off with the chatroom and coming in less and less. but as i see it the real problem isn't the kids who log in, cos they're usually pretty easy to spot. it's the so-called mature adults who should hopefully know better, but who obviously have nothing better to do than seek people to aim abuse at. unfortunately i don't see any way to prevent this, cos how do you ban someone on a dialup for instance who's IP changes every time they connect. and they're (usually) bright enough to get round the registration!
the prob with the chatroom at the moment, particularly with all the press attention, is that it's becoming increasingly full of folks who think you log, in shout 'who wants a shag' then get abusive when noone responds! and obviously the end result is more wankers (apologies) and fewer gen people in there! fortunately they won't get very far and should lose interest soon enough, but the damage will have been done by then, and the entire point of the site undermined!
Becoming a pay site won't stop them, cos they probably got credit cards, kicks and bans don't stop 'em, and the ops are left with a thankless task and a big responsibility!
sorry it's a bit of a rant, and i know i've kinda hijacked this thread a bit but i'm pissed off in there too lately! ;-)
Blimey Heather!!!! Small world, eh?? Pillow Talk in Addiscombe is where we get our photos developed!!! Just think, we could have been in there at the same time, since it's 5 minutes down the road from us!!!!!! How very strange, lol!!!!!! I'm ashamed at myself for not discovering it there before, and Daz is also in the doghouse for not spotting it, lol!!!!
Oh well, we may run into each other there in the future!!!!
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hi everyone ,as you may have noticed I am not a regular contributer to the forum,though i do frequent the chatroom, and read this article and respones with interest.
I have to agree with the members who argue that its the so called adults and not the kids that are the problem.
I have been on the recieving end of quite a bit of backstabbing nasty bitchiness from the so called mature and genuine swingers mostly i may add when i'm not in the room to defend myself.
Though i will agree that the kids can be a pain their task is made easier by the adults who rise to them and and a "hello how u doing "usually stops them in their tracks.
Its not the kids that damage the site and make the genuine people want to leave but the childish behavour of a few sad so called adults that do the serious damage.
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some people never mature i guess, i am 20, but know people five years older than me who have the mentallity of 15 year olds.
On the other hand, my little cousin is 15 and she is very intelligent for her age, morso than some 19 year olds i know.