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Kissing.. blokes? (not me!)

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Question: How important is it to you during a meet?
I love it - male and female and best of all, both at the same time! :twisted: In fact, I could get by on that alone sometimes without any other form of sexual naughtiness. Without it, it all seems a bit clinical and 'unconnected' to me.
My dilemma comes in that a lot of the bi guys I meet in mmf scenarios won't kiss although they are happy to have your cock in their mouth and up their arse - wtf!? confused Without that connection I lose interest (and usually a stiffy!) quickly redface
How about you guys, in a mf scenario and, I guess of the bi guys here, will you kiss other blokes in a mmf situation? cool Do you find watching blokes kiss a turn on or just plain wierd and scary/sickening. I know some girls and blokes that love it and equally some girls and blokes that hate it.
It just seems to be the ultimate in 'bi-ness' and I'm quickly finding and just 'too bi' for some biggrin
Bloke, sex without kissing is like washing up wearing boxing gloves. It might still get yer dishes clean, but it don't feel quite the same. ;)
N x x x ;)
i lover rubber gloves washing up it keeps my hands all soft but i also love kissing and not just on meets i do it loads perhaps a peck on the cheek to them i dont know well to smooching with those i have met before, both males and females.
before during and after sex i think it is very important part of sex and therefore snog loads but in a pub and other vanilla environments a peck on the cheek is quite enough thank you.
but not having a bi fella the male on male kissing is not part of the agenda, but having seen him kissing other females it is such a turn on and he says that him watching me kissing another female is exactly the same for him, but is that not also the fantasy of most males to see 2 woman getting together?
'I kissed a man and I didn't like it'
he looked clean shaven but it was like kissing sand paper.
Not for me.
It's a deal breaker... I wouldn't meet someone who didn't do kissing.
Quote by Dirtygirly
It's a deal breaker... I wouldn't meet someone who didn't do kissing.

I think that's about to become my new 'all bets are off unless it happens' rule DG :P
no kiss no fuck.
also if the kissing is crap then the fuck won't happen.
I love watching people kiss and when meeting either a straight couple or gay couple (male or female) then I wanna see them kiss.
I LOVE it.
redface I'm a take it or leave it kinda gal, personally I would rather not
Maybe I have been kissing the wrong kinda people dunno
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Bloke, sex without kissing is like washing up wearing boxing gloves. It might still get yer dishes clean, but it don't feel quite the same. ;)
N x x x ;)

That summed it up, far better than i could lol
I lurve kissing, er ladies preferably :lol:
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Bloke, sex without kissing is like washing up wearing boxing gloves. It might still get yer dishes clean, but it don't feel quite the same. ;)
N x x x ;)

That summed it up, far better than i could lol
I lurve kissing, er ladies preferably :lol:
passionkiss
Quite simply, trying to do "it" without kissing is like trying to ride a bike without touching the pedals. You can sit on it, but it isn't going to work properly and ultimately be a disappointment.
I wouldn't kiss a bloke though. To be honest, I don't know why you ladies do it to us chaps either, but I am eternally grateful to you for it.
I've no idea why I find two women or a man and woman kissing erotic, and two men not so. Sexual hypocrisy/predeliction I suppose, but I suppose if we were all the same there'd be no point snogging anybody and that would be a great shame.
I'm with Nola, no snogs, no shags. Not that I am being obstructive, it's just one don't work without the other for me.
Yep. Kissing *swoons*
Seriously, I love it.
I have a list (metaphoric, not actual... that would be a little weird :shocksmile of all my best kisses.
They range from a guy I met when I was 17 who, walking me to the train station one night, pushed me into a doorway, grabbed my hair at the nape of my neck and kissed me with such passion that I think I came right there - awesome - to Martin, the impossibly handsome school teacher from New Jersey whose kisses are somehow now indelibly caught up in the memories of a Funkadelic concert in New Orleans... he made me ache.... Ahhhh, and then there was the man who kissed me in the middle of a crowded party and redface
I'm going to stop!
I love kissing; if I had to give up all sexual acts but one, then kissing I would keep.
Kissing during a meet can be a revelation: good or bad. If that is a mmf meet, then kissing is a guaranteed turn on for me. I have to say, watching people kiss is incredibly horny... watching two guys kiss and knowing I can go and join in is just brilliant.
Erm... I'm just going to go and make a coffee while I ponder the more recent additions to that metaphoric list :rascal:
Quote by Resonance
I'm with Nola, no snogs, no shags. Not that I am being obstructive, it's just one don't work without the other for me.

Awww, I like you with me :rascal: but I think it was splendid who said that wink
Can't say I'd like guy-guy kissing myself, but then I can't say why I like watching girl-girl kissing more than straight, either. However, if everyone in the room is kissing, regardless of gender, and there's at least one girl with a free tongue for me, it's all good.
Like the smoochies. Smoochies good, smoochies fun, smoochies hot.
Oh, and definitely the watching and knowing you can join in thing that Nola said.
Hm, I wonder if I could kiss a girl that's just been sucking cock... I don't know where my limit is in such things.
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I'm with Nola, no snogs, no shags. Not that I am being obstructive, it's just one don't work without the other for me.

Awww, I like you with me :rascal: but I think it was splendid who said that wink
Apologies Splendid... I'll make it up to you with a kiss
Quote by Dirtygirly
It's a deal breaker... I wouldn't meet someone who didn't do kissing.

Hell yeah! Kissing is a HUGE part of foreplay ( and after play wink ) and I can get soooo turned on by a passionate good kisser. The stolen little kisses, the open eyed kisses across the restaurant table, the hands-on-face-I'm-gonna-take-you-the-minute-we-get-indoors kind of public kiss, the kiss that gets you in the mood even if you weren't before, the hard, no-nonsense horny fuck-me-now kiss, the lips-touching-as-you-both-cum kiss and the soft and gentle apre-shag kiss
Gimme gimme passionkiss :twisted:
I think I've been coming at this the wrong way confused
I've always been in the school of 'kissing is something just for the couple, whereas sex can be with anyone' although it's always been something I've agreed with rather than believed in.
Although I haven't really kissed a bloke (unless you count Judy) I'd have no problems with it since it's just kissing. Man-man kissing doesn't really do anything for me, although neither does girl-girl kissing. The exceptions are when it's passionate kissing in any scenario, then it gets my blood flowing.
Quote by Resonance
I'm with Nola, no snogs, no shags. Not that I am being obstructive, it's just one don't work without the other for me.

Awww, I like you with me :rascal: but I think it was splendid who said that wink
Apologies Splendid... I'll make it up to you with a kiss
Nola - you clearly have a stalker in Res - he can't get you off his mind and is putting words into your mouth.. he wishes! lol
Cool responses and cool perspectives, I thought it was me being touchy feely and gay about it confused
... and Trahern - I'll bet you have kissed a girl that's just been sucking suck if you've been swinging for any length of time. You probably just don't know it :rascal:
I have another question for another thread now... :twisted:
Kissing is the prelude to all the good things, and i agree that if the kiss isn`t right then the magic doesn`t happen either and really its game over. I have been known to judge people on their kisses. Its a very intimate act, face to face, breathing in each other, knowing this is where it starts.
Kissing should be one of the wonders of the world
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It's a deal breaker... I wouldn't meet someone who didn't do kissing.

Snap :thumbup:
Quote by BIoke
I'm with Nola, no snogs, no shags. Not that I am being obstructive, it's just one don't work without the other for me.

Awww, I like you with me :rascal: but I think it was splendid who said that wink
Apologies Splendid... I'll make it up to you with a kiss
Nola - you clearly have a stalker in Res - he can't get you off his mind and is putting words into your mouth.. he wishes! lol
Cool responses and cool perspectives, I thought it was me being touchy feely and gay about it confused
... and Trahern - I'll bet you have kissed a girl that's just been sucking suck if you've been swinging for any length of time. You probably just don't know it :rascal:
I have another question for another thread now... :twisted:
Oy! It's not me whose been caught peeking lascivious glances at me through the cucumbers at the supermarket...
It wasn't Nola either but it is nice to imagine.
I've never put words into Nola's mouth.
I did let her feast on my M&M's one time, but she chewed my nuts so badly that from now on she can only have my Curly Wurly.
What does lascivious mean? confused
Is it some kind of Scouse-er-ism for homo and are you picking on me as you're stalking my girlfriend who doesn't want you and likes me because I have bigger tits than you? Or maybe a scary 70's televison dog of some sort - lassie-vicious? :rascal:
Quote by BIoke
... and Trahern - I'll bet you have kissed a girl that's just been sucking suck if you've been swinging for any length of time. You probably just don't know it.

I haven't been swinging for any length of time, no. Half the reason I started hanging around here!
The other half being I keep crushing on the wives of husbands that always turn out to be jealous.
Quote by Resonance
I'm with Nola, no snogs, no shags. Not that I am being obstructive, it's just one don't work without the other for me.

Awww, I like you with me :rascal: but I think it was splendid who said that wink
Apologies Splendid... I'll make it up to you with a kiss
only if the kiss is good tho' as, if it isn't then I won't want you to fuck me and that would be such a waste.
no bristle!!!
lp
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no bristle!!!
lp

BIoke will do clean shaven if you ask nicely :rascal:
Quote by noladreams
no bristle!!!
lp

BIoke will do clean shaven if you ask nicely :rascal:
And his face........ innocent
She means my face stoopid wink ... she shaved my nuts yesterday - it's like stuff that girlfriends do rotflmao
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She means my face stoopid wink ... she shaved my nuts yesterday - it's like stuff that girlfriends do rotflmao

:rotflmao:
Quote by BIoke
She means my face stoopid wink ... she shaved my nuts yesterday - it's like stuff that girlfriends do rotflmao

Nah you want to have the back, sack and crack... biggrin