In the BBW room server one I lost a great friend and after she went, though her greatest gift was the song : D'ont fear the reaper: she neve thought about him, she loved life, long live Debb you are a legend, I will miss you heaps as will many, you take care
and if i am lucky see you hun in the good place, if not then f**cking hot place, love you, see you soon, if not send u a text lol hun
Desre
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i didnt really know debb said hi a few times.. and always remember her sat in her nghitdress.. when ever i flicked her cam on...lol .. abit like be never get dressed .. hey sweetie hope heaven is a ace place... and line them fit guys up for me... goodnight and many sweet dreams.. debb will miss ur cam in bbw xxxxxxx
Very sorry to hear...... xxxxxx
oh desert i am sorry.
We have spoken a few times briefly in the chatrooms and your always a lovely person to talk too.
If in anyway i can help or you need to chat just send a whisper,say hello,whatever.
I'm very sorry for your loss and if i can do anything please say so.
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I am here to pay my respects.
can i just say sh has lost 1 very very nice lady and i hope she R.I.P... yesterday was a very sad 1 for the bbw room and anyone that know debb ..
debb , was one of the legends off the bbw room , always a friendly welcome and never a bad word (unless needed) she will be sorely missed by all who knew her especially by the one who still bears her teeth marks ...del my condolences to you and all debbs family
RIP ,,,sleep well debb we will always remember ! xxxxxx
Debb you were a fantastic person and you always made me smile when i was down, it was great to meet you and you will be sadly missed by all.
Love ya babe
Mel and
just had to pay our respects to a very dear friend,we have know debb over 4yrs now and have shared some great laughs and a lot of tears,it was a honour to know her even tho i cudnt understand her on the phone lol,really glad we got her onto swinging heaven cos i know she has made some great friends and loved u all
gonna miss yer so mate loads of love the wakey trout
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loads and loads of love n hugs to del xxxxxxxxxxxxx
never got the chance to meet u debb but had loads of laughs late at night feel as though i had know you years could talk to u about anything and you would be there good or bad will miss you loads xxxxxxxxx del we are thinking of you and simon tc xxxxxx
debb was a very special person she warmed everyones heart,although myself and chris never had the good fortune to meet you in person we spent many good times online chatting to you.....we luv ya hun
jay chris xxxx
Hello all.
This is intended to be a thread for the friends of Debb to leave happy/ funny/ fond memories and stories.
I know she was very highly thought of, and popular in the BBW room, and made a lot of friends in her time. Some just online, some she met for real.
So if you knew Debb, either of these ways, you will appreciate she wouldn't want doom and gloom, she was much happier when there was a laugh to be had.
She made an impact on most of the people she met/ talked to, and was always a good listener, despite her own problems !
It's ok to say how we felt/ feel about her, and that we will miss her very much, but please, could we also find something happy/ positive to say about her.
This is intended as a celebration of her life.
I, personally will miss her very much, as we sorted ourselves out and became much stronger friends than we had been previously, which in itself is a reflection on her friendly personality.
I would also like to say thank you very much to Delbert, for he made her life very very happy, he transformed her into the person she was meant to be.
So, thank you Del, my thoughts are with you,
Sassy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
well debb what can i say except whose gunna help me with cock watch now, we had it sorted just right didnt we, still you can still do it up where you are and let me know who got a big one, from all those celebs that are up there, youll be in yer element hun.
i had the pleasure of meeting debb and it was a pleasure, and to see her of late with del was a joy to see, they were so good together.
i know youre hurting del, but the hurt will pass and the fond memories wil take its place. in the meantime take care of yourself del, we are thinking of you and of course simon, we may have lost a friend but he has lost his mum poor lad xxxxxxxxx
Death is nothing at all:
I have only slipped away into the next room.
I am I and you are you;
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.
Call me by my old familiar name.
Speak to me in the easy way which you always used.
Put no difference in your tone;
Wear no forced air or solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed at the
little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am but waiting for you, for an interval,
somewhere very near.
just around the corner.
All is well.
didnt no debs at all but had chats in bbw room
my thoughts go out to all that new her you are in my thoughts
tommy
youl never walk alone
hi..
i never knew debb. but the bbw room is so freindly. debb wud say ello... when there. respect given at all times. she will be missed by the usual crowd... even the ones she had passed grace on in a social or a meeting.
even tho you never have met a person, chatting in the room has a family virtue... we all there to converse... rest in peace debb.
lol tele
Ahhh, my memories of Debb. I'm probably going to take over her title as Queen Spammer whilst I remember them all.
I wandered into the BBW chatroom last summer and she was one of the reasons I kept coming back. Razor sharp wit, fantastic sense of humour, friendly and caring. She'd whisper me hilarious retorts to some of the occasional idiots we'd get in the room and I'd sit there chuckling to myself like a loon. The time she sat on cam with a ridiculous hat on acting like there was absolutely nothing out of the ordinary and I very nearly fell off my chair laughing. The 2am phonecalls where we'd natter about anything and anyone.
I found out Debb had cancer possibly earlier than a lot of other members. I was a swinging noob and I was unsure about going on any meets, and I got a whisper that simply said 'Carpe diem - I have cancer hun'. I was gutted. And we chatted about a bit as my Mum had cancer so I'm no stranger to all that but all the updates I'd had from her suggested things were going ok. Although we talked a lot about what she had been through, she was never the type to come and burden you were her problems, although endlessly sat and listened to all mine, which were so petty and pathetic but she would still listen, offer advice, empathise.
An ex-SH member and friend of us both has a motto in life and its this "there are two kinds of people in this world: those who radiate and those who drain." and I can assure you, I'm NOT one for cliches or silly phrases but I can honestly say that Debb was the type to radiate. She would even try and share in her good experiences in order to make people happier; she told me all about meeting Nigella Lawson on the phone because she knows I absolutely love Nigella, she went out for a drink with a much desired member of SH and not only called to tell me all about it, but even took a picture of him in his suit on her mobile and sent it to me. So many people, myself included, would keep those experiences to themselves and not let anyone benefit. Not our Debb.
Towards the end of last year I was regularly seen on cam in the chatroom and therefore attracted quite a bit of attention. Sometimes weeding those who were worthwhile out from those who weren't became a real challenge. Then one day, Debb told me that a certain male member who was in the room was a top chap, very funny, not far off my age, worth getting to know. That man is of course Monkey. The in February when I had some time between exams and a new term at Uni Monkey suggested I went to visit him, just a social affair. I wasn't sure, because I was nervous and I lack confidence in myself. Debb sat and persuaded me. Out came the carpe diem, out came the reassurances that he was a top bloke and if she were younger she's persue him herself. So I went. And Debb even called me when I was there, just to see I was getting on ok. Now Monkey and I have been together almost seven months, I am completely and unashamedly in love with him, and I really couldn't be happier. And I have Debb to thank for that. And I'm glad to say I managed to let her know it was because of her I am as happy as I am now. I'm glad she knew that she'd done a wonderful thing for me. When I came to SH I was a right state emotionally and I didn't believe in myself, but she ALWAYS believed in me, and would constantly say things that made me feel so much better about myself, and she helped me get my shit together and helped me find love and happiness. I will forever be indebted to her.
I know I'm going to remember a million funny stories but for now I felt that although this is meant to be a light hearted thread, I had to get serious so I could show everyone who is kind enough to come see this thread just how much of a wonderful person she was. To say she will be sorely missed will be the understatement of the year. Honestly, there are no words to express how I feel at the moment, and I'm someone who sadly never got a chance to meet Debb in person. My heart is breaking for Del and for her family.
Yesterday the BBW room lost one of its finest.
i have been on here awhile and enjoyed chatting to a great lady i will miss chatting to her i send my condolences to her family
Where to start? What else can we say about Debb that hasnt already been said?
Debb, the big lady with the big personality. I yhink we got to know her reasonably well over the last 18 months or so. Met up with her, and then her and Del a few times, but really got to know her well in the BBW room. Debb had time for everyone, she had a very expressive face which was a joy to watch on cam. I have a little story to relate which sums Debb up perfectly.
It was the night before the first Oxford party. Rayne and I were at a meet. Things were really getting interesting, then my fone rang. It was Debb. She wanted to know where everyone in Oxford was! I had to explain to her that we were in Rotheram on a meet. and not in Oxford til the following day!
When we saw her the following day, she was so full of apologies, it was almost embarrasing lol. But that sums our Debb up perfectly
She will be sorely missed by Rayne and I and all the regulars in the BBW room and our condolances go out to her family and Delbert. Debb R I P
Col & Rayne
When i was having a bad time with my home life everyone became my family including debb. She would always say hi in the room and then when i met chef and started to go to oxford parties we met debb. She was a loverly friend. She will be sadly missed. Our condolencies to del and Simon....... R.I.P. Debb We will always remember u
Debb, We only chatted a few times but what a great person you were. May you rest in peace and fly with the angels till Delbert joins you than you can swing in heaven once again. Our condolences to all who knew Debb.
Rest in peace.
well what can i say not just lost a friend but an angel in bbw room a problem she would try her best to help she would listen and give you adive whether you liked it or not and boy did that girl now her music
The broken cord
We little knew that morning that God
Was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
You did not go alone;
For part of us went with you,
The day God called you home.
You left us peaceful memories,
Your love is still our guide;
And though we cannot see you,
You are always at our side.
Our family chain is broken,
And nothing seems the same;
But as God calls us, one by one,
The Chain will link again
nite nite debb
gunner x x x x x x x x x x
Debb, We only chatted a few times but what a great person you were. May you rest in peace and fly with the angels till Delbert joins you than you can swing in heaven once again. Our condolences to all who knew Debb.
Rest in peace.
I never knew Debb but did see her in BBW room often, my condolences to all her friends and family. x x
Just wanted to pay our respects to Debb and our condolences to all who knew her.
Love
Fire & Stormy xxx
My heartfelt sympathy to Del and Simon, who have lost a huge part of thier life. Although it's difficult to see now the sorrow your feeling will be replaced with happy memories.
It's been a pleasure knowing you Debs, the BBW room will never be the same without you.
Night night sweet dreams sweetheart :love:
Jus xx
I am really going to miss Debb.
Whenever I arrived in the bbw room at some unearthly hour each morning, she was always there to chat and smile and keep us all very happy.
I loved her countdown posts and her wickedly funny telling off of us spammers on the oxford posts.
I had the honour of meeting her a few times, I was normally too busy dancing to chat properly, but did grab a chat or two and it was a pleasure to do so.
Debb had always said if I was ever down her way at one of the nearby clubs I should let her know and we could have a cup of tea, I looked forward to a good chinwag and laugh over a cuppa but sadly never got round to it.
I had the pleasure of sharing her company only this month when a few of us got together. I arrived very late as always, we sat in a pub garden, chatted and most of all laughed. We were all happy and Debb contributed highly to that. Great memories.
Keep thinking of those happy times Del.
Regards
Harry Jones
