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Sex is love, love is sex, one cannot be separated from the other, so, when the sex goes, the love goes, RIGHT!!! Sex is the only thing that keeps people together, it focus's one persons attention on another, if a woman doesn't want sex any more, she is not interested in the man for anything, not holidays, not going out, not talking, not for company, so, what is left? NOTHING!!!
Sorry, no, I don't agree at all. Sex and love are totally seperate, so your point is????
Somebody pissed on your chips or is this a general moan? What is it about Mondays that brings all the moaners out of the woodwork? Can't folk bring something a little bit more upbeat to the Site today? :shock:
Mal
(Slowly being dragged under by the negativity and can only be save by a shag - help!!!)!
Quote by mal609
Somebody pissed on your chips or is this a general moan? What is it about Mondays that brings all the moaners out of the woodwork? Can't folk bring something a little bit more upbeat to the Site today? :shock:
Mal
(Slowly being dragged under by the negativity and can only be save by a shag - help!!!)!

It's Tuesday!
Quote by mal609
Somebody pissed on your chips or is this a general moan? What is it about Mondays that brings all the moaners out of the woodwork? Can't folk bring something a little bit more upbeat to the Site today? :shock:
Mal
(Slowly being dragged under by the negativity and can only be save by a shag - help!!!)!

Anything I can do to help Mal?
PS I knowsomeone with 2 spare tickets to see the guy with the teeth!
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Somebody pissed on your chips or is this a general moan? What is it about Mondays that brings all the moaners out of the woodwork? Can't folk bring something a little bit more upbeat to the Site today? :shock:
Mal
(Slowly being dragged under by the negativity and can only be save by a shag - help!!!)!

It's Tuesday!
Oh Shit!! Never mind, got Thursday sorted, just working on filling the gaps now!! lol
Mal
wink
I'd have to agree that love and sex are two entirely seperate things.
Who is that geezer with the teeth??
confused: :?:
O.K. Whats the problem then :?: :?:
Your Mrs binned you or what :?: :?:
OK are you having a bit of a crisis lately? What with this and the 'Life' thread from last week, you seem to be seriously pissed off or contemplating some serious shite confused
Was someone offerinng sex there?
Damn I knew I shouldn't have gone out to drag the kids round with the pony!
Quote by O. K.
Sex is love, love is sex, one cannot be separated from the other, so, when the sex goes, the love goes, RIGHT!!! Sex is the only thing that keeps people together, it focus's one persons attention on another, if a woman doesn't want sex any more, she is not interested in the man for anything, not holidays, not going out, not talking, not for company, so, what is left? NOTHING!!!

In a loving, committed relationship then yes, sex between the two equates to love, I guess. And yes, usually when the sex dries up it's the tolling of the end.
As to what's left then?
Of that particular relationships, most times not much but memories. But then begins the road to recovery and re-discovery with youas the Captain of the voyage.
Over-whelming and exciting with every other emotion imaginable thrown in for flavour.
Enjoy :P
Quote by mal609
(Slowly being dragged under by the negativity and can only be save by a shag - help!!!)!

Would love to help you out with a loveless shag Mal <eyeing that bum> as long as you don't want to go on holiday, or go out or even talk.....in fact you'll feel cheap and used and be left with NOTHING :shock: lol
Quote by Serendipity

(Slowly being dragged under by the negativity and can only be save by a shag - help!!!)!

Would love to help you out with a loveless shag Mal <eyeing that bum> as long as you don't want to go on holiday, or go out or even talk.....in fact you'll feel cheap and used and be left with NOTHING :shock: lol
I can live with that :lol: - we MUST do a diary check!!
Mal
wink
Quote by Trapper
Who is that geezer with the teeth??

yep we would like to know as well seen him about
Love and sex?
Great when they come together sure (s'only bout twice in my life up to now!) but on the whole I've probably always (as far back as my brain can remember....) thought of them as separate generally.....
'if a woman doesn't want sex any more, she is not interested in the man for anything, not holidays, not going out, not talking, not for company, so, what is left? NOTHING!!!'
:shock: No? Surely not?
Maybe 'we' should just stay interested for the 'holidays, going out and company?'
See now that WOULD be callous eh?
Have a cuppa tea and read some of the threads here - some of us have great feelings for people even WITHOUT the sex! (Can happen honest!)
Cathy x
(Holidays and company graciously accepted - no shaggin mind wink )
Quote by northeastcoupleuk
Who is that geezer with the teeth??

yep we would like to know as well seen him about
Tony Robbins - a world class motivational guru. I went to see him last year and was doing a firewalk on the first night! Top guy.
Mal
You spotted that then too Very subtle though, the signs, don't you think?
Sex is love, love is sex, one cannot be separated from the other, ...quote]
I don't agree, but they are frequently confused. I frequently confuse them. How many times have I told someone I love them just as I'm about to come!? Errm. Well. redface It sure feels like I do when I say it wink
Which brings me to that post cum feeling. Sorry girls! We really really really :love: you until we come (well speaking for mesel), and then...
Mark x
Do you love me or do you not?
You told me once, but I forgot,
So tell me now and tell me true,
So I can tell you...I love you!
Of all the girls I've ever met,
You're the one I wont forget,
And If I die before you do,
I'll go to heaven and wait for you.
If you're not there by Judgement Day,
I'll know you went the other way.
I'll give the angels back their wings,
And risk the loss of everything.
Just to prove my love is true,
I'l go to hell, to be with you.
Gotta agree, definitely different from sex wink :wink:
how about the lust?
that must fit in there somewhere confused
Fuck me if you're ready,
Fuck me if you can,
Fuck me like a beast,
Don't fuck me like a man.
Yep. Definately different from love
confused
Quote by bluexxx
Fuck me if you're ready,
Fuck me if you can,
Fuck me like a beast,
Don't fuck me like a man.
Yep. Definately different from love
confused

Is there a second verse Blue? wink
Quote by Bloke2005
Fuck me if you're ready,
Fuck me if you can,
Fuck me like a beast,
Don't fuck me like a man.
Yep. Definately different from love
confused

Is there a second verse Blue? wink
Yes, there was when I wrote it, but I can't remember the rest :doh:
Quote by O. K.
Sex is love, love is sex, one cannot be separated from the other, so, when the sex goes, the love goes, RIGHT!!! Sex is the only thing that keeps people together, it focus's one persons attention on another, if a woman doesn't want sex any more, she is not interested in the man for anything, not holidays, not going out, not talking, not for company, so, what is left? NOTHING!!!

Gotta disagree completely with this. The people I've had sex with are outnumbered by the people who love me, and there's not much crossover between the two groups.
(Not that I'm in any way averse to a bit more crossover. smile )
Quote by Ice Pie
Sex is love, love is sex, one cannot be separated from the other, so, when the sex goes, the love goes, RIGHT!!! Sex is the only thing that keeps people together, it focus's one persons attention on another, if a woman doesn't want sex any more, she is not interested in the man for anything, not holidays, not going out, not talking, not for company, so, what is left? NOTHING!!!

Gotta disagree completely with this. The people I've had sex with are outnumbered by the people who love me, and there's not much crossover between the two groups.
(Not that I'm in any way averse to a bit more crossover. smile )
Agree with Ice and what about money. Plenty of people stay together fer money (I've heard it makes yer dick bigger an' all!!).
Second verse
If you're not ready lick it instead
Open me legs and nestle your head
Let go your tongue go side to side
And make me cum like the ebb of the tide wink :wink:
Quote by fashionbadge
Second verse
If you're not ready lick it instead
Open me legs and nestle your head
Let go your tongue go side to side
And make me cum like the ebb of the tide wink :wink:

No, that wasn't it... it got violent in the end methinks.... OK.... I have tendencies I don't discuss :shock:
:wink:
Quote by westerross
Sex is love, love is sex, one cannot be separated from the other, so, when the sex goes, the love goes, RIGHT!!! Sex is the only thing that keeps people together, it focus's one persons attention on another, if a woman doesn't want sex any more, she is not interested in the man for anything, not holidays, not going out, not talking, not for company, so, what is left? NOTHING!!!

Gotta disagree completely with this. The people I've had sex with are outnumbered by the people who love me, and there's not much crossover between the two groups.
(Not that I'm in any way averse to a bit more crossover. smile )
Agree with Ice and what about money. Plenty of people stay together fer money (I've heard it makes yer dick bigger an' all!!).
I bet people stay together for sex too.
Plenty of people have sex for money too, there's no love involved there.