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noladreams
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Yeah and sometimes stuff you plan goes tits up. :cry: And then the things that take you completely by surprise can be oh so exciting... :rascal:
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Quote by noladreams
Yeah and sometimes stuff you plan goes tits up. :cry: And then the things that take you completely by surprise can be oh so exciting... :rascal:

Oh, ditto to that Nola - we had that just recently and sometimes all the planning in the world doesn't make for as much fun as a surprise! wink
Resonance
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We won't ever do "spontaneous" stuff I don't think... Mrs R too fraidy cat for that... Maybe if it was with someone we knew and trusted we could do a last minute thing if the stars aligned correctly and things fell into place but at the moment it seems a long way off.
That said, there's lots to be said for planning. I think it helps foster the excitement of it all. I don't get excited by birthdays or Xmas nowadays, so it is nice to have something to look forward to.
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I like anticipation. The older I get , the more important it seems to be to plan things that I can look forward to.
bbw_loverNkitty
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For me it depends on the circumstances and the people involved.
I love the build up and the sexual tension of of all the flirting and teasing, and anticipation. It creates a highly charged atmosphere while also allowing you to get to know the person better.
However it's also nice to have the option of a spontaneous meet, which can be very exciting too.
redface
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Have done the spontaneous on the spot thing wink
and enjoyed it but still prefer the build up the tension the getting to know thingy :wink:
But for the life of me still cant understand :shock:
why i still get butterflys :shock: :shock:
but thats all part of it .....isnt it ?
steve x
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Quote by travlinmanukok
Have done the spontaneous on the spot thing wink
and enjoyed it but still prefer the build up the tension the getting to know thingy :wink:
But for the life of me still cant understand :shock:
why i still get butterflys :shock: :shock:
but thats all part of it .....isnt it ?
steve x

Yes, I know that feeling. I get the butterflys in my stomach too, and I often find that I can't sleep properly the night before a meet because I feel too giddy lol
noladreams
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Quote by Filthy_mind
Have done the spontaneous on the spot thing wink
and enjoyed it but still prefer the build up the tension the getting to know thingy :wink:
But for the life of me still cant understand :shock:
why i still get butterflys :shock: :shock:
but thats all part of it .....isnt it ?
steve x

Yes, I know that feeling. I get the butterflys in my stomach too, and I often find that I can't sleep properly the night before a meet because I feel too giddy lol
My philosophy is that the day the butterflies go shall be the day I hang up my swinging boots!