We are a black/white couple wondering why there is no interest shown in us as a couple when Mr J used to be bombarded with offers when he was on the scene as a single before we met?
We wonder whether black guy is a specialist interest..... a couple wants the fella but not the wife? Any thoughts as to why we are not of interest would be welcomed. Have even started to think we are right mingers but not sure this is the case.....lol
Barbie xxxxx
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), I can honestly say you look like an attractive and fun couple. We don't live far away............hmmm.
Sex God
Quote by jimbar2006
We are a black/white couple wondering why there is no interest shown in us as a couple when Mr J used to be bombarded with offers when he was on the scene as a single before we met?
We wonder whether black guy is a specialist interest..... a couple wants the fella but not the wife? Any thoughts as to why we are not of interest would be welcomed. Have even started to think we are right mingers but not sure this is the case.....lol
Barbie xxxxx
In the interests of research for my response, I perved... I mean looked at your pics, and all I can say is that if you are not getting any joy, then I am fcuked big time...
Have you tried munches or socials? Sometimes meeting people in person at one of these events helps build a few bridges and contacts up. I'm sure in time you will be inundated with folk.
Best of luck anyways!
And no, you are not mingers, not by a long way. And I should know...
Res
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Quote by Resonance
We are a black/white couple wondering why there is no interest shown in us as a couple when Mr J used to be bombarded with offers when he was on the scene as a single before we met?
We wonder whether black guy is a specialist interest..... a couple wants the fella but not the wife? Any thoughts as to why we are not of interest would be welcomed. Have even started to think we are right mingers but not sure this is the case.....lol
Barbie xxxxx
In the interests of research for my response, I perved... I mean looked at your pics, and all I can say is that if you are not getting any joy, then I am fcuked big time...
Have you tried munches or socials? Sometimes meeting people in person at one of these events helps build a few bridges and contacts up. I'm sure in time you will be inundated with folk.
Best of luck anyways!
And no, you are not mingers, not by a long way. And I should know...
Res
yeah wat he says
ya a gorgeous couple so do try the socials n munches getting yaselves known makes all the differencehope to bump into you at a do sometime
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Thanks for the advice. We will look into a munch....whatever that is lol
Have been to a few clubs but we are quite shy as well so that probably don't help us.
Just to point out, we are not novices, but it just seems that interested couples are VERY few and far between.
Never mind....onwards and upwards lol
Barbie
Have been to a few clubs but we are quite shy as well so that probably don't help us.
Just to point out, we are not novices, but it just seems that interested couples are VERY few and far between.
Never mind....onwards and upwards lol
Barbie
Sex God
Quote by jimbar2006
Thanks for the advice. We will look into a munch....whatever that is lol
Have been to a few clubs but we are quite shy as well so that probably don't help us.
Just to point out, we are not novices, but it just seems that interested couples are VERY few and far between.
Never mind....onwards and upwards lol
Barbie
Munch Definition clicky
I was going to say, why ask and get all high and mighty, saying it is the person inside and all that.
However, as you have a personal reason for asking, I have no idea. I see no reason for anyone disliking the two of you. Good luck in the future, and if I am ever hunting around your way I hope you would do me the honour of a chat.
Travis
However, as you have a personal reason for asking, I have no idea. I see no reason for anyone disliking the two of you. Good luck in the future, and if I am ever hunting around your way I hope you would do me the honour of a chat.
Travis
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Quote by jimbar2006
We are a black/white couple wondering why there is no interest shown in us as a couple when Mr J used to be bombarded with offers when he was on the scene as a single before we met?
We wonder whether black guy is a specialist interest..... a couple wants the fella but not the wife? Any thoughts as to why we are not of interest would be welcomed. Have even started to think we are right mingers but not sure this is the case.....lol
Barbie xxxxx
Domain deja vu? ;)
Sex God
Quote by jimbar2006
We are a black/white couple wondering why there is no interest shown in us as a couple when Mr J used to be bombarded with offers when he was on the scene as a single before we met?
We wonder whether black guy is a specialist interest..... a couple wants the fella but not the wife? Any thoughts as to why we are not of interest would be welcomed. Have even started to think we are right mingers but not sure this is the case.....lol
Barbie xxxxx
I'm puzzled. You both look great. MissKitty and me don't seem to have the same problem, in fact it's been the complete opposite, so I really don't know.
Perhaps it's just a period of adjustment and people getting used to you as a couple, but nothing to do with you being a mixed couple. The only real difference I can see is that MissKitty and me play as a couple, but we also play solo. Maybe that makes a difference?
PM me and maybe we can discuss this further.
having perved a fair ammount of profiles and taken a look at several of the ads, I can say that I have the same perception...
single black males seem to be very much sought after..as not everybody wants to meet a couple, but apparently just about everybody is looking for black males...(lucky buggers)
I have considered shoepolish..
it seems to work, in the movies. :giggle:
single black males seem to be very much sought after..as not everybody wants to meet a couple, but apparently just about everybody is looking for black males...(lucky buggers)
I have considered shoepolish..
it seems to work, in the movies. :giggle:
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Quote by Melting_pot
having perved a fair ammount of profiles and taken a look at several of the ads, I can say that I have the same perception...
single black males seem to be very much sought after..as not everybody wants to meet a couple, but apparently just about everybody is looking for black males...(lucky buggers)
I have considered shoepolish..
it seems to work, in the movies. :giggle:
They aren't looking for me.
:cry: :cry: :cry:
Sex God
Quote by Melting_pot
having perved a fair ammount of profiles and taken a look at several of the ads, I can say that I have the same perception...
single black males seem to be very much sought after..as not everybody wants to meet a couple, but apparently just about everybody is looking for black males...(lucky buggers)
I have considered shoepolish..
it seems to work, in the movies. :giggle:
just to let ya know that is not true mate... trust me... and i personally wouldn play with someone if that is the only reason they are......
anyway back to the couple in question.....
I think that sometimes it is harder for couples to meet couples in the sense that there are 4 people that need to be pleased..... I am not going to gush about your profile as others have done that better than i could...
maybe the way you might like the think about it is that is it better to have few good meets than loads of meets where you don't feel fulfilled or feel satisfied......
go to clubs.... go to socials/munches... do what you feels is best for you to get what you want out of the site...
sean
Sex God
The point about playing with couples being slightly trickier due to their being three or four people to 'please' and match in terms of likes/dislikes is a good one.
Aside from that, I'd say persevere and try using the site differently e.g. variety of chatrooms, posting differently worded adverts, altering/updating profile, going to a social event, posting for a meet in Let's Meet Up... lots of things to try - just don't give up!
Nola x :rose:
Aside from that, I'd say persevere and try using the site differently e.g. variety of chatrooms, posting differently worded adverts, altering/updating profile, going to a social event, posting for a meet in Let's Meet Up... lots of things to try - just don't give up!
Nola x :rose:
Thanks for the advice everyone.
Welikesinglemen, we have even thought that ourselves so we amended our profile to say that you dont have to be well endowed just enthusiastic!
We did meet a very nice couple once where he was "on the job" with me and then stopped and said he was sorry but he was more interested in watching his wife get a seeing to from Mr J..... I ended up just being the photographer. I really don't think he realised how it sounded but it didn't do a lot for my ego I can tell you lol
And Ahabs, your points have crossed our minds as well.
Anyway all advice taken on board, we shall have to have a rethink about how we go about this.
Barbie
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Welikesinglemen, we have even thought that ourselves so we amended our profile to say that you dont have to be well endowed just enthusiastic!
We did meet a very nice couple once where he was "on the job" with me and then stopped and said he was sorry but he was more interested in watching his wife get a seeing to from Mr J..... I ended up just being the photographer. I really don't think he realised how it sounded but it didn't do a lot for my ego I can tell you lol
And Ahabs, your points have crossed our minds as well.
Anyway all advice taken on board, we shall have to have a rethink about how we go about this.
Barbie
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I must commend jimbar for having the collective nuts to approach this sticky wicket. Our mailbox has dried up since we changed our profile to a couple. Previously, when I was on as a single guy, I had a fair number of requests and responses...and not all of them to fix their PC (you know who you are! xxx lol ). In my case I wouldn't put our lack of success to not being known on the scene, as I put the hours in in our chatrooms and usually recieve a warm welcome when I get there. It seems all the people from Sweetpeahs peer group want to meet us, but many of the people from my side aren't interested. Fabio has made a very good point about couple-to-couple compatability and this can be applied to every foursome, regardless of race.
I'm considering taking the approach that so many single guys use on this site, ie advertise yourself as a couple with a fake profile and some pics of your ex-wife/girlfriend/neighbour/sister/care worker. Arrange to meet a genuine couple and then turn up on your own saying she couldn't make it and can we still play as a threesome. My spin would be to do the complete opposite; advertise myself as a single guy, go to meet said genuine couple and just bring Sweetpeah along as my ex-wife/girlfriend/neighbour/sister/care worker who followed me here and can we still play as a foursome. It must work because I see so many dodgy profiles on here doing just that.
Seriously, if you can find the root cause of our dilemma, Jimbar, please let me know and you'll be up for the Swinging Heaven Nobel Prize for advancements to the cause of swinging. As for the comment posted earlier by someone else referring to penis size, may I point you to page 53 of the Book of Mike.
The notion of the African-Caribbean Male as a sexually superior performer in terms of size, agression and longevity is an outdated, crude racial stereotype...and one I'm only too happy to endorse
Keep it under your hat...
I'm considering taking the approach that so many single guys use on this site, ie advertise yourself as a couple with a fake profile and some pics of your ex-wife/girlfriend/neighbour/sister/care worker. Arrange to meet a genuine couple and then turn up on your own saying she couldn't make it and can we still play as a threesome. My spin would be to do the complete opposite; advertise myself as a single guy, go to meet said genuine couple and just bring Sweetpeah along as my ex-wife/girlfriend/neighbour/sister/care worker who followed me here and can we still play as a foursome. It must work because I see so many dodgy profiles on here doing just that.
Seriously, if you can find the root cause of our dilemma, Jimbar, please let me know and you'll be up for the Swinging Heaven Nobel Prize for advancements to the cause of swinging. As for the comment posted earlier by someone else referring to penis size, may I point you to page 53 of the Book of Mike.
The notion of the African-Caribbean Male as a sexually superior performer in terms of size, agression and longevity is an outdated, crude racial stereotype...and one I'm only too happy to endorse
Keep it under your hat...
Sex God
Quote by Mike2mike
As for the comment posted earlier by someone else referring to penis size, may I point you to page 53 of the Book of Mike.
The notion of the African-Caribbean Male as a sexually superior performer in terms of size, agression and longevity is an outdated, crude racial stereotype...and one I'm only too happy to endorse
Keep it under your hat...
Endoresments are all very well - living proof is better. :giggle:
