No it does not make you a prostitute. Hookers state their price and demand money before anything happens.
Hi Sheffield,,
Obviously you were so good, he felt that you should buy some more noce things for the next time!.....if there is a next time!
You didn't ask for cash, at no time did you say tehre were costs apart from teh hotel room - fair and nreasonable, so in no way are you or should you feel like a prostitute!
Donate it to a good cause, have a nice meal, or get yourself something that you fancy.
There are quite a few women out there (especially on Rendevous) that do charge though, eventhough tehy advertise as swingers, found one myself last week, really hacked me off!
Strangely enough, having thought about it for several days, it seems quite horny that a guy paid to screw me!
I'll pretend it was just a bit of role playing! That'll be my justification!
I think the question probably turns on whether you enjoyed it or not. In my years of celibacy I was never tempted into paying for sex, not out of any moral compunction, and certainly not about the girls because at my age they're all going to look good, but because I couldn't imagine humping away and thinking they were moaning and thrusting but really thinking about the Tesco shopping list.
It's what's in your head at the time that counts as to whether you're in business or not.
When I was young I ruined the market for gigalos by giving it away free. I just enoyed a healthy appetite for sex, I was 21 and 22 in the period of foreign residency that I'm thinking about here, and it never occurred to me to ask for cash from the 30+, 40+ and occasionally 50+ who gave me as much of themselves as I gave them, anymore than I would have from the teens and twenties I was socialising with.
He obviously had a great time. As he paid you afterwards you should take it as a gift and a compliment.
Wouldnt mind a lady paying me £50. It'd be a big compliment and ego boost - dont think it works the same way for women though does it?
A pint of snake bite n a bag o' chips and I'm anybodies...
Leon