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rotflmao Flower you are so jaded lol but hey you know you could be right. It could all be a cunning plan biggrin Love yer stuff - well most of it :lol2: respect

Flowers point was a pretty good one actually. A banned member could easily open another account using another IP addy and the mods wouldn't know. I'm not sure but I'm pretty sure there is a banned member who can still log on via another name...need to check it first.
There are so many situations in life where it would be convenient to hide your real identity but generally speaking it is very difficult.
But buying a secondhand computer and inventing a new identity would be the easiest thing in the world for anybody who had an interest in deceiving people online.
I'd have thought that it would take a bit more than a new comp.......more changing your IP addy. But there again......I'm just a blonde and know nothing about this :lol:
Quote by flower411
rotflmao Flower you are so jaded lol but hey you know you could be right. It could all be a cunning plan biggrin Love yer stuff - well most of it :lol2: respect

Flowers point was a pretty good one actually. A banned member could easily open another account using another IP addy and the mods wouldn't know. I'm not sure but I'm pretty sure there is a banned member who can still log on via another name...need to check it first.
There are so many situations in life where it would be convenient to hide your real identity but generally speaking it is very difficult.
But buying a secondhand computer and inventing a new identity would be the easiest thing in the world for anybody who had an interest
nur nyr nurnur nur you'ooo are jaded nur nurnur nur nur wink:wink:
I know your right though smile
Changing your IP addy is fine the first time, however even with a... ummm... can't remember what they're called but it basically rotates your IP around...
Anyway, even if you have one of them, you can be traced. I know this beacuse I used to monitor new applications for a game, and even if someone moved locations to have a completely different IP, the chances are there's a dupe tracer which will show up if you have been on the same IP as someone else, and there's probably something that flags anyone on the same IP as a banned member.
No, it's not possible to get around it, as you only have to be careless once. I used to track and ban one particular site member on a regular basis on the game I played. He kept coming back, I kept banning him. Never took me more than a couple of days to track him down.
This question was one that would come up from time to time from new and old site members of the game, and the answer was always the same: They get checked.
Anyway... Hi to Sylvainfemale. Welcome to the forums.
The IP is basically the computer "address" of your net connection.
There's a set number of IP addresses that can be used by any company. They buy blocks of addresses and use them for their users. So, your ISP (Internet Service Providor) assigns you an address, or gives you access to a dynamic IP (I remembered... Finally) which rotates around, but will remain linked to any other IP you have used if you use the right programme to log access to sites like this.
It doesn't matter if you change computers or have multiple computers through a router. If you're using the same ISP and the same modem, your address will remain the same. There will be a unique set of IP addresses that have only come from your location in the case of the dynamic IP. If you change your ISP or your modem, it will remain linked to your account and sit alongside all the other IPs you have used.
Basically, it's like caller ID for computers...Except systems are smart enough to know that it's you, even if you change your number.
Oh, and before I forget, some actually contain a location code in them too, so you can basically see if someone signs up from Glasgow but says they're in Liverpool for instance...
I can't believe I used to track these things as part of a hobby.
The IP adress is the thingy tells you what your do da does lol Or its short for Ipswich dunno
By the way Sylvainfemale

Hiya!:biggrin
I put the easy explanation on the bottom for those that aren't quite so sad as I now appear to be...
I shall go and sit in the geek corner for the remainder of the night... :shock: lol
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I put the easy explanation on the bottom for those that aren't quite so sad as I now appear to be...
I shall go and sit in the geek corner for the remainder of the night... :shock: lol

It aint bloody easy enough yet! Please could you explain in words of one syllable or less biggrin
It says where you are. Says where you are if you change where you are too. It even knows if you change who you get your net from.
Better?
If in doubt... RTFM. Oh sorry... You're a man. You don't do that. :twisted:
Carmela thank you so much for that I understand now :idea: And your acknowledgement that i am a man is a compliment wat up the scale biggrin
Hello OP and welcome to the cafe
Quote by flower411
So .... from all that, it seems that it would be very difficult for a banned member to get back in without it being easy to spot them !!
I suppose the next question is " does anybody actually check up on this sort of thing ? "

Probably more pertinent to pose the question first!
Does the site check up on this sort of thing? as it is relatively easy to make it difficult for a banned member to get back in without being spotted!
The reality is probably that the site doesn't go to such lengths - and ex or banned members could re-sign with a simple change of e-mail (this would apply to free and extra membership as payments are handled by a third party)
That's entirely possible Beannie, however given the strictness of the site about banned members and Munches or socials, it suggests to me that they do keep an eye on who signs up.
Even if you change your e-mail address, a simple IP logger will find out if you're a banned member or not fairly easily. Even if you sign up from another location, chances are that at some point you will use the same location/IP as the banned account.
Fortunately for those of us that have to check on these things on whichever site we play with, people are generally either stupid, forgetful or just downright arrogant and think they won't get caught.
Hi been following this thread for a bit, there is a problem with banning IP (internet protocol) addresses, they are not unique, to put it simply there are not enough IP addy's to go round so service providers customers have to share IP's. I know of at least 2 that had the same IP as me before they changed service providers. Looking up an IP addy does not always give accurate geographic details mine used to give Liverpool as the location, yet I'm in the Wakefield area of West Yorkshire. The ISP's server I connect to is in Liverpool. Can individuals be traced, yes of course, but not with IP addy's alone information about individuals is contained in the data packets you send to the ISP this info is then used to route the downloaded data to the correct PC.
In answer to the OP yes, a banned member could be lurking here, how?
Simple, change ISP and change the billing details ie. get some one else to pay for it at a different address and a new user name.
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I'd have thought that it would take a bit more than a new comp.......more changing your IP addy. But there again......I'm just a blonde and know nothing about this lol

Me neither !!! I`m making it up as I go along kiss
This, to me, is pointless scaremongering
A new person, asks a question, which IMO is a valid one, especially when the message of being safe is so important.
Nothing like encouraging new people to feel like they belong is there?
Your incorrect comment about changing a PC to get a new IP, then saying "I'm making it up as I go along"
Thank you for your insight
Thanks for all your replies - I felt most welcome as a "newbie"!! Just to clarify, the question I posed was purely a generic one, with no reference to any particular member. I was merely considering my personal safety, when meeeting a stranger for sex. Needn't have bothered though, as guy banged the living daylights out of me for 4 glorious hours!! I smugly informed my best mate the following day that I had not been , de-capitated and buried by a total stranger - as she clearly assumed all guys on this site must be dodgy!! As for my next "meeting" - bring it on!!!