No one ever replys to ads

19 Dec 2005

I posted loads of ads on here and replyed to many, but with no luck :cry: .
I always send a face photo and not cock, I'm not ugly biggrin

, so where have i gone wrong do i need to say my cock is a 12" and hope for the best. So ladies what are you looking for,
Please please help.
mr unhappy

19 Dec 2005

Yes i have read that and done my best.
Lets say i do meet someone off here (just dreaming),
and meet them at there house.
Do i say a hello then run up stairs or do i sit down for a cup of tea & a cake and wait for them to say lets get going.
I'm a bit thick to all of this only ever had 3 slices of cake redface

19 Dec 2005

look on the bright side now there are so many chaps with their brains in their dicks and they are posting their ads where no decent girl looks, ie the wrong section, the competion is decreasing, so us ordinary intellegent and creative lol

sort of blokes my get a look in.
bony tony

19 Dec 2005

Don't you think its better to have a profile than a ad.
If the the ladies are getting to many replys i think it would be better for them to read mens profiles. They can then give feedback on them just like on ebay biggrin

19 Dec 2005

Ok i bet you know some ladies that would like to meet me or am i being cheeky now.

19 Dec 2005

Quote by mrfun69
Yes i have read that and done my best.
Lets say i do meet someone off here (just dreaming),
and meet them at there house.
Do i say a hello then run up stairs or do i sit down for a cup of tea & a cake and wait for them to say lets get going.I'm a bit thick to all of this only ever had 3 slices of cake

Well that statement there won't help you much. rolleyes

You seem to only want to meet ladies confused

Are you just looking for 1-2-1 encounters?

19 Dec 2005

Well yes at first, i am shy you know.
Whats wrong with that any way.
It does say women looking for men and men looking for women on the ads.

19 Dec 2005

Quote by mrfun69
Well yes at first, i am shy you know.
Whats wrong with that any way.
It does say women looking for men and men looking for women on the ads.

I didn't actually say anything was wrong with it - I was just wondering what exactly you wanted from swinging?

19 Dec 2005

Sorry then biggrin

19 Dec 2005

The short answer to your original question is....
It is like being at the deli counter and you have ticket 300,008.
Being shy is not always a bonus either.

19 Dec 2005

Well how do i get to the front ?
I've got ticket no 1

19 Dec 2005

Quote by mrfun69
Well how do i get to the front ?
I've got ticket no 1

If you have ticket number 1 - then the old roll ran out and they started a new one on the end.
There is no quick fix. There is no guarantee. People either want to meet you or they don't.
There are 1000's of guys for females to choose from and each will have their own criteria. And yes - they do have a criteria.
Personally, I rarely meet guys who only meet single woman as I enjoy groups/clubs/3somes etc.
Personally, I would rarely be interested in meeting shy guys as I feel I am a bit too much for them to handle on the 'being adventurous' front.
Generally, complaining that your ad doesn't work doesn't actually help. It may just indicate to people you are too impatient.
However, that may just be right up someoneâ€™s street â€“ but you still have to wait until they have searched through the rest of the deli queue to call your ticket number!

19 Dec 2005

lol at pololady
my bloody feet are so from standing in the deli counter been here since september and still not at the front ye
t

:rotflmao:
Service is a disgrace all i want is a pound or two of meat :evil2:

19 Dec 2005

oh well i'll stand here all day then

19 Dec 2005

Profiles is the way forward.
Its better than 100's of emails anyday

19 Dec 2005

Quote by mrfun69
Profiles is the way forward.
Its better than 100's of emails anyday

And what exactly can you say in a profile which you cannot say in an ad? confused

19 Dec 2005

IMHO (even if you donâ€™t want it lol) I think if you just want a shag you should go to a prostitute. Women on here aren't going to have sex with you just because you want them to. Swinging is a lifestyle that people choose, and like PoloLady said we tend to be a bit on the adventurous side wink

which may not suit someone after a one to one meet. Maybe somewhere like that face party place might be more suitable?
As for the ads verses profile thing, the profile is very restrictive and only gives you limited answers; in an ad you can put all the info about you and about what you like etc and then put a link in your sig. For instance I find the postcode things harder to decipher, much easier to put your county or nearest town.
smile

19 Dec 2005

So why have women seeking men & men seeking women.
are they swingers or just out for a shag.

19 Dec 2005

oh and men seeking men-- women seeking women.
Thats one on one sex

19 Dec 2005

I thought the headings said typicaly women seeking men not Women wanting to Shag men etc
If someone wants sex then it may say it in the ad but then I wouldn't take anything forgranted. The site may have people who want to meet up and see what happens or enjoy company, voyeurism, extended foreplay etc etc, not just wanting sex

19 Dec 2005

no i'm not saying one on one is swinging, but the site is or is it not. Why have one on one ads then.

19 Dec 2005

Quote by mrfun69
no i'm not saying one on one is swinging, but the site is or is it not. Why have one on one ads then.

Simple, because some 'swingers' want to meet on a one to one basis and some want to meet a Swinging Partner!
But the advice you have been given about 'instant shags' is very good (not that I am saying that is what you are looking for) and the best way to meet people is by chatting in the forums and letting people get to know you.
As for replies, I sometimes wish they didnt reply to the ads confused

or at least they read them before they replied!

19 Dec 2005

So one on one ads one must be a swinger not some who just whats a shag

19 Dec 2005

I think the problem is that you are coming across as someone who just expects swingers to have sex with anyone (putting a mad

in your first line for instance.....it's not our fault you aren't getting a shag lol).
What I was trying to say is that swingers might have sex with more than one person but that doesnâ€™t necessarily make them any easier to get than non-swingers out on the town for the night. :P Of course swingers meet people on one to one basis sometimes, its just that it doesnâ€™t have to be just anyone and making an impression round this place counts. You might be a good looking lovely guy (which I am sure you are). But you need to stand out and also some swingers prefer someone who has done this type of thing before (not all though). As I said before, put more detail in your ad that might help. Personally I delete anyone who emails with one or two lines.
And donâ€™t lie and say your cock is 12 inches long because a) we all know thatâ€™s a lie! b) you will get found out! C) many women donâ€™t like them that big d) we all know thatâ€™s a lie!!! lol

:lol: :lol:

19 Dec 2005

P.S. you joined on 13th December! LOL! well, why didn't you say you have been here for almost a week?!? You should have had loads of shags by now! rolleyes

19 Dec 2005

Berksbex said it all in her post and Mrfun69, I really do think you should read and re-read that again! Also, swinging is not just a 'physical' activity, it is a way of thinking and it doesnt mean you will get a shag within a couple of days of joining a site. Most Swingers, whether they be single or part of a couple, want to know the person they are meeting. Otherwise we would all just round town on a Saturday night and 'tap up' confused

19 Dec 2005

I have been on alot longer than that. I think thats down to the new style site.
I,m not saying oh lets meet and shag but alot of the women ads do.

19 Dec 2005

Sorry Mrfun69 its not a criticsm but that is the way you are coming accross and as for your joining date, we can only go off the date showing under your user name.
Good luck and I hope you do get what you are looking for, but as with most things in life, you only get out of this place what you are prepared to put in wink

19 Dec 2005

Oh and by the way i have worked in a swingers club.

19 Dec 2005

Quote by mrfun69
I have been on alot longer than that. I think thats down to the new style site.
I,m not saying oh lets meet and shag but alot of the women ads do.

Actually, you are right there smile

many ads do say fancy a shag because that's what they want right there and then. But what we have been trying to say is that you will get more sucess by getting to know people better. Imagine how many emails an ad that says 'fancy a shag now' might generate (in the region of 150 or more) so do you fancy your odds then? I'm just trying to be practical :P