We met a couple this weekend not from this site, they seemed fine and we went for a drink and all was ok, he was good looking, but a little nerdy. But I thought it would be fine.
we get back to the hotel and start playing and I found that he just did not do it for me. and she was a little big for both of us(sorry just are taste) the pictures did not portray this though.
in the end we full swaped just because they had traveled so far.
I did not hate it but I did not enjoy it.
what would you guys have done?
Hmm difficult one that. We have gone along with things when we have not been completely happy as we don't want to offend. I just wish people would be honest with their pics.
Made out an illness and legged it... or just been honest... sounds awful sorry!
Never take one for the boys.. its bad form lol!
Never feel pressured.. Never!
Mike xx
A little post edit here... The reason we say this is because we have done the same, different situation but gone through with to save offending.. Trouble is after YOU feel crap eh.. Why?? What for, no need to do anything with anyone no matter what or how far, we know we will never be had again like that lol.. NO chance..
Mike x
well after 15 mins of him humping me, I did say I was realy tired, thats why I was not total into it and we said our byes and went.
But I just wish we had done it sooner
well I feel better we are not the only ones
phew
No physical attraction in the first place then we wouldn't of gone to a hotel room with them.
I would of just been honest and told them they didnt float my boat....sorry!
No physical attraction in the first place then we wouldn't of gone to a hotel room with them.
I would of just been honest and told them they didnt float my boat....sorry!
No physical attraction huh? I would have spent more time getting to know them, see if their personalities interested me.
I've been in that situation with a couple, who weren't physically attractive but because I've got to know them it worked. Now we get on famously and have the odd bit of fun with them.
well, There was sort of was attraction, once we got down to it, it just did not work, I knew it was not good when we kissed you just know, then we were in to deep at that point. John was not over joyed at the prospect ether.
We have talked about it and we thought its best just to go to partys than have the pressure of one to one meets.
Freckledbird,
I was just airing my thoughts, and judging by the emails I have got regarding the subject it was nice not being the only one. I cannot tell what makes me fancy a person. Some couples we have met from face value I have thought no way, but then once I have got to know them great loved it.
but this was the differant I don't know why.
Just one more point, The cold dark nights must fly by when the high light of your day is to correct my spelling!
Be nice freckle.....
Deep breaths now.... Deeper. X
Easy on em girl... They only asking eh?
Mike x
Not nasty hun... just a bit scary lol. xxxx They are new in here and things can be a little daunting eh... Mwahhh
Mike xx
sorry looking back you have not corrected my spelling.
my fault for jumping in feet first
Oooo Your a hard woman .... but we loves ya anyway xx
Mike xx
Some things just have to be said and before Im 'jumped on' I do not mean this post to be offensive to anyone, in any way.
My experiences in the lifestyle are, for my own reasons, very limited and its posts like this that put me off 'dipping my toes' further.
I would be horrified to find myself the subject of a post like this just because I wasnt to someone's taste and even more horrified to find that things had only gone further because Id travelled some distance. To be honest, I'd have just been grateful for a nice cuppa than to be patronised in such a way.
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