In the bad old days a woman HAD to get married (unless she was very lucky) to obtain a home, financial security and a pension - there was little or no provision for that for single women. At the same time there was no practical way to prosecute a man for within marriage so the husband could have 'his way' as and when he fancied with no risk of come-back. It would be seen as his conjugal 'right'. Thank goodness the majority of men seem to have been decent people who wouldn't do that - my point is, they could if they wanted.
So, in those days, a man paid for sex by marrying the woman and providing for her. The woman provided sex in exchange for financial support.
Old-time marriage was far closer to prostitution than modern swinging could ever be. Unfortunately there are some men (and women) who still think that way about their 'rights' and dependency in marriage.
Nope i dont think we pay for sex we pay for the toys clothes etc for the pleasure of them - i know plenty of vanillas who also have a toy box or draw full of sexy clothing it is not something that applies just to swingers
bless her.
wonder what she'd say if she could speak
Foxy lady wrote about the old marriage system. It is still the same now! In a marriage where one partner does not work (man or women) and receives full financial support from the other and expects all the trimmings in return, is that not prostitution of some degree
I had toys and sexy undies long before I joined the swinging scene.
If I go for a meal with my friend, is that then classed as prostitution to your friend? She is entitled to her opinion but I think she has it very wrong.
LG
They maybe some *cost* to participate in swinging but I would say the same when dating! Its all extra to our normal household expenditure...all the rest is called having a life me thinks in whatever way you want!!
I think the general legalities of swinging were discussed a few months ago. Its not quite as simple as a harmless hobby. If you were accused of pimping your partner and coercing them into doing sexual acts with other people you can still be taken to court for such activities; and subsequently charged and would find it hard to argue your case.
figure this out two married guys went to american for three months on work assignment,on their first nightout one met a girl(clubber) and the other picked up a hooker...after the three months who will have paid more for sex?????
steve can you read my last comment again carefully before i back it up..thank you
) so it made us (almost) the same as those who chose to pay for prostitutes.
) condoms (we live in hope), drinks, a meal and then perhaps home for a coffee.......
