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is it just me or would everyone else prefer to have sex with the one they love than a pornstar? could sex with a porn star be better? or will the deep meaningful stuff always win?
and btw im lucky enough to know a girl that could fulfill both jobs if she wanted lol.
I deffo think sex with a lover is bound to be better... i can't compare to a pornstar cos i haven't had sex with a pornstar....
come to think of it.... when Susie gets all the gear on when we goto parties... she does look like a pornstar... how she fits those bazookas into the basquey type things she likes to wear i'll never know....
Anyway... back on topic.... i wouldn't mind finding out i have to say, with my beloved of course..... lucky you to be able to enjoy the pleasures of both pornstar and lover!!!!
Paul and Susie (Paul)
Ummmm I'd like to say a lover would be better.....but if I had a chance with Ron Jeremy I'm afraid I'd have to take it.....
I often wonder about the porn stars. I mean if you are a bus driver, how often do you think....I know I will go and take the bus for a drive for an hour or so in my time? We all take work home in some way, but the intimate act of sex to me is something that would be marred by it?
Myself I would always be concious of having sex with a porn star, because of the thought we often get of inadiquacies. I have no real worries normally, but seeing them in action, you would HAVE to think....are they really enjoying me? I suppose they too have real lives, but I have NO idea how you can shut it off when it is the job, and turn the feelings back on for the one you love???
I think if "push comes to shove" wink :wink: I think I would like to try a porn star the chance of finding somebody that loves you and acts like a porn star are few and far between. But then perhaps it is just me unlucky again falling in love with Mother Superior.
Definitly with a lover- none of this fake "oooooo, arrrrrrrrrr, ummmmmmmmmmmmmm, oh yeah, do that baby, do it hard, fuck me like the slut that i am............... come all over my faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaace!!!!!!!!!" rubbish!!
Oh....
And I thought I was furking good at it...
You mean it was all a fake lou...?
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Oh....
And I thought I was furking good at it...
You mean it was all a fake lou...?

Um................................................
I'd prefer sex etc with a lover but would jump at the chance for a roll in the hay with Nina Hartley .. I think she could teach me a thing or two and make it a fantastic fun experience as well.
I'd opt for a meaningful relationship with a porn star - that way I can have best of both worlds (as usual) :haha:
Well, because porn is all about the 'show' then porn stars are only pretending to be good in bed huh??
In this case, I'm probably better than all the actresses, so are you guys - we're real.
RON JEREMY - MY GOD!!!! LOL
The best is sex with your lover pretending to be a porn star - camera on tripod and all!!!
note to self: Stop giving away all your secrets!
Mrs RSAB2 xxx
i could have been a porn star, btw , just thought id mention it, that geezer in the mirror says it to me every morning,
most of us have had the cold sex stuff , it can be fun but there isnt any comparison to the loving stuff to get the mind rolling around in bliss is there, maybe as a bit of fun one night or to liven your own bedroom antics up its nice to have what i call fun sex or dirty sex , but there really isnt a substiute for love , well not in my book wins hands down every time, we'd be a promiscuos lot otherwise and swinging would be full of jealosy and rage i reckon if you didnt have that security at the end of the night.
not that id know though to be honest. just guessing.
Well sex with a lover who is a porn star is still possible. They are human after all. You'd have to just trust they weren't faking it with you. lol
Seriuosly, porn star or not, the one you're with can still fake it. If they do I'm sure they don't do it all the time. So does it really matter if they are a porn star and you feel they might fake their enjoyment. No. We all have to trust the person we're with I guess. And the truth will out if things are not as they seem in the end.
Being a porn actor dosen't make them a better lover than the rest of us either. Some of those people may be more sexually liberated than the majority of the population but that dosen't make them superior lovers.
I think what makes for good sex is communication and compatibility between the people involved.
LC.
Does being in an edition of a certain mens magazine consitutes as being a porn star????????? Cos if it does............... :twisted:
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Does being in an edition of a certain mens magazine consitutes as being a porn star????????? Cos if it does............... :twisted:

What's This!!!!!!!!
Go on then I know you're dying to tell us. wink
Speak! Speak! We're all ears!
Tell all now or i will be forced to whip it out of you.
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Does being in an edition of a certain mens magazine consitutes as being a porn star?????????

Daz, I'm shocked. :shock: :shock: :shock:
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I'd prefer sex etc with a lover but would jump at the chance for a roll in the hay with Nina Hartley .. I think she could teach me a thing or two and make it a fantastic fun experience as well.

I'd definately agree that sex with a lover is better,but i'd sure like to try you out Calista lol wink :twisted:
Steve,xxx
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I'd prefer sex etc with a lover but would jump at the chance for a roll in the hay with Nina Hartley .. I think she could teach me a thing or two and make it a fantastic fun experience as well.

I'd definately agree that sex with a lover is better,but i'd sure like to try you out Calista lol wink :twisted:
Steve,xxx
I take it the film's finished ;)
Will chat to you some more :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Where are the car keys Morbius I've pulled !
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I take it the film's finished ;)
Will chat to you some more :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Where are the car keys Morbius I've pulled !

Oooooooohhhhhhhhh you most definately have pulled.
Whenever your ready we'll be here wink :twisted: lol
Steve,xxx
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is it just me or would everyone else prefer to have sex with the one they love than a pornstar?

Love must always beat money, but actually I think drawing a comparison with love is the wrong question, I'd be more inclined to compare the pornstar with lust. Lust always beats money, and there must be lust at home in bed or outside in the car park with a total stranger, all will be better than sex for money.

We play at Porn Stars often, both at home and at Meets. Yes, Calista, we put the cam on too - God help us if the kids ever find our stache of "ShirleyDoes's Greatest HIts"
However, take it from me that I dont ever fake my orgasms, although Ian says he fakes all his!!! lol rotflmao
L&K
Shirley 69position
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is it just me or would everyone else prefer to have sex with the one they love than a pornstar? could sex with a porn star be better? or will the deep meaningful stuff always win?
and btw im lucky enough to know a girl that could fulfill both jobs if she wanted lol.

I wouldnt shag a porn star! They get around, them lot and they always insist on wearing socks to bed (or to the couch, pool side, living room floor)
Also, I dont think I could stifle the giggles come orgasm time too!
(Oh, yes Baby, right there Baby, oh yes! Fuck me harder you stud you, Oh yes, thats it, right in my wet pussy, Oh baby (groan and pants for effect) Oh god! (more heavy panting) Oh Baby. Oh....(forgets lines and looks around) I am going to CUMMMMMM!!!! oh yeah!!! oh yeah!!!! oh yeah!!!!!
thats the kind of post that makes me cum back here time and again, love it although you two scare me somewhat lol lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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thats the kind of post that makes me cum back here time and again, love it although you two scare me somewhat lol lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

who does ???? bolt
Shagging a porn star wouldn't really be all that good would it?
All hot and sweaty under the lights, half a dozen people watching you, a woman on standby to play with you when the old fella was getting a bit tired, the insistance on anal sex to play a part, that and two women having to be involved most of the time...
Mmm biggrin
But then some idiot shouts "cut" and tells you to pull out and go back to what you were doing in scene 5, which frankly wasn't as fun cos you had a camera nearly stuffed up your ass mad
I guess you take the good with the bad.
ok following on from the porn star or lover theme im inspired to start a new thread you lot can be honest ill pop a link on here when the threads up and running
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/17271.html
heres that link, now this will be tough for you to answer. lol