Whilst not being the greatest thread starter personally, I do think the standard of posts is becoming at best tedious and at worst dire (this is just my opinion). There have been a number of discussions to raise the standard of posts but little improvement, although there are glimmers occasionally.
So my suggestions to help this are;
It's an adult swingers site, the ages range from 18 to 99 (apologies anyone who is 100 and still swinging), so please bear this in mind when posting a thread. What appeals to you might not appeal to some of the younger/older members.
Remember that the site has been around for at least 2 years and "some" topics have been covered before. Piercings / tattoos / cocksize / shaved or not / anal sex etc have all been covered a multitude of times and the search button might help you out before starting a new thread (resurrecting that thread is perfectly acceptable though).
If you are on the forums to make friends or acquaintances then think about what your post says about you? People use the forums to get to know people before deciding wheher to chat further. Your words are the equivalent of your looks/style and conduct! If you went out on a saturday night and acted haphazardly then you wouldn't expect to make friends that would lead to anything would you?
What does your post tell people about you? I'm not saying that every post should be written like an advert but you are more likely to attract peoples attentions if your post reveals something about your personality. Asking about what music people are listening to, their fave comedian, football teams etc whilst it hold your attention what does it tell people about you?
Other people might have some suggestions too ....... ?
Hope this helps :thumbup:
C x
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Good Poat Calista.
Nice to know that someone has their finger on the pulse.
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Nice to know that someone has their finger on the pulse.
John
Quote by Calista
Whilst not being the greatest thread starter personally, I do think the standard of posts is becoming at best tedious and at worst dire (this is just my opinion). There have been a number of discussions to raise the standard of posts but little improvement, although there are glimmers occasionally.
So my suggestions to help this are;
It's an adult swingers site, the ages range from 18 to 99 (apologies anyone who is 100 and still swinging), so please bear this in mind when posting a thread. What appeals to you might not appeal to some of the younger/older members.
Remember that the site has been around for at least 2 years and "some" topics have been covered before. Piercings / tattoos / cocksize / shaved or not / anal sex etc have all been covered a multitude of times and the search button might help you out before starting a new thread (resurrecting that thread is perfectly acceptable though).
If you are on the forums to make friends or acquaintances then think about what your post says about you? People use the forums to get to know people before deciding wheher to chat further. Your words are the equivalent of your looks/style and conduct! If you went out on a saturday night and acted haphazardly then you wouldn't expect to make friends that would lead to anything would you?
What does your post tell people about you? I'm not saying that every post should be written like an advert but you are more likely to attract peoples attentions if your post reveals something about your personality. Asking about what music people are listening to, their fave comedian, football teams etc whilst it hold your attention what does it tell people about you?
Other people might have some suggestions too ....... ?
Hope this helps :thumbup:
C x
FUK KIN ELL !!!!
Quote by Calista
Whilst not being the greatest thread starter personally, I do think the standard of posts is becoming at best tedious and at worst dire (this is just my opinion). There have been a number of discussions to raise the standard of posts but little improvement, although there are glimmers occasionally.
So my suggestions to help this are;
It's an adult swingers site, the ages range from 18 to 99 (apologies anyone who is 100 and still swinging), so please bear this in mind when posting a thread. What appeals to you might not appeal to some of the younger/older members.
Remember that the site has been around for at least 2 years and "some" topics have been covered before. Piercings / tattoos / cocksize / shaved or not / anal sex etc have all been covered a multitude of times and the search button might help you out before starting a new thread (resurrecting that thread is perfectly acceptable though).
If you are on the forums to make friends or acquaintances then think about what your post says about you? People use the forums to get to know people before deciding wheher to chat further. Your words are the equivalent of your looks/style and conduct! If you went out on a saturday night and acted haphazardly then you wouldn't expect to make friends that would lead to anything would you?
What does your post tell people about you? I'm not saying that every post should be written like an advert but you are more likely to attract peoples attentions if your post reveals something about your personality. Asking about what music people are listening to, their fave comedian, football teams etc whilst it hold your attention what does it tell people about you?
Other people might have some suggestions too ....... ?
Hope this helps :thumbup:
C x
i hope im not one of thse people who start shit threads if so here i appologise
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Quote by bailiffs
i hope im not one of thse people who start shit threads if so here i appologise
Must say that there have been times when we've been tempted to start a thread and not done it in fear of being bombarded with "the search button is your friend". On occasion we've also been retiscent to post a reply due to concerns about being possibly "controversial".
Maybe it's time to stop hiding and just post the damn replies.... if that's ok with everyone else of course?
:lol: :lol: 
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:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: 
:kiss: :kiss: :kiss:Quote by curious_catz
i hope im not one of thse people who start shit threads if so here i appologise
Must say that there have been times when we've been tempted to start a thread and not done it in fear of being bombarded with "the search button is your friend". On occasion we've also been retiscent to post a reply due to concerns about being possibly "controversial".
Maybe it's time to stop hiding and just post the damn replies.... if that's ok with everyone else of course?
:lol: :lol:Yes please lets have some life back on here!!
Quote by curious_catz
i hope im not one of thse people who start shit threads if so here i appologise
Must say that there have been times when we've been tempted to start a thread and not done it in fear of being bombarded with "the search button is your friend". On occasion we've also been retiscent to post a reply due to concerns about being possibly "controversial".
Maybe it's time to stop hiding and just post the damn replies.... if that's ok with everyone else of course?
:lol: :lol:just go for it i do and if they approach with their locks just "take it on the chin"
if they get locked they get locked
just think of something that intrests u it dont matter how shit it is ill reply lol.........promise...
lou xxx
Sex God
Tedious!....Dire!.....Standards need raising!.....Couldn't agree more,, so bloody well buck up the lot of ya! or ...or....well things won't get any better sort of thing.
Davej wanders off to continue with his haphazard romp through life........
this is really me Calista, I don't do it any different in the real world.
Davej wanders off to continue with his haphazard romp through life........
this is really me Calista, I don't do it any different in the real world.
Sex God
Quote by Happy Cats
Ban text speak and make punctuation and paragraphs compulsory.
I know it can be difficult but at least try to be legible. There are lots of posts that are probably very interesting but I just cant follow them.
That'll piss off lots of the people who post then.
(glad that someone beat me to it
) Quote by davej
Tedious!....Dire!.....Standards need raising!.....Couldn't agree more,, so bloody well buck up the lot of ya! or ...or....well things won't get any better sort of thing.
Davej wanders off to continue with his haphazard romp through life........
this is really me Calista, I don't do it any different in the real world.
Ah but Dave, there are haphazard rompers and there are plain haphazard tossers ... you my friend have provided much source of laughter and smiles here ..
C x
Quote by freckledbird
Ban text speak and make punctuation and paragraphs compulsory.
I know it can be difficult but at least try to be legible. There are lots of posts that are probably very interesting but I just cant follow them.
That'll piss off lots of the people who post then.
(glad that someone beat me to it
)Dont want to get into the dyslexic thing - its just some people have no other excuse other than laziness.
It could be a really interesting post, well thought out, but ends up wasted because it is difficult to read.
If I've upset some, then sod em! :wink:
Sex God
Quote by Happy Cats
Ban text speak and make punctuation and paragraphs compulsory.
I know it can be difficult but at least try to be legible. There are lots of posts that are probably very interesting but I just cant follow them.
That'll piss off lots of the people who post then.
(glad that someone beat me to it
)Dont want to get into the dyslexic thing - its just some people have no other excuse other than laziness.
It could be a really interesting post, well thought out, but ends up wasted because it is difficult to read.
If I've upset some, then sod em! :wink:
I completely agree, regardless of the dyslexia thing.
Sex God
Quote by davej
Tedious!....Dire!.....Standards need raising!.....Couldn't agree more,, so bloody well buck up the lot of ya! or ...or....well things won't get any better sort of thing.
Davej wanders off to continue with his haphazard romp through life........
this is really me Calista, I don't do it any different in the real world.
YES SIR. SIR.
*looks at thumbs whistfully then hides 'em quick before Mrj Sir :worship: sees 'em*
I'm off to post about my trip tothe Hymilayas with 3 Canadian lapdancers and a large bag of chocolate.
Quote by curious_catz
i hope im not one of thse people who start shit threads if so here i appologise
Must say that there have been times when we've been tempted to start a thread and not done it in fear of being bombarded with "the search button is your friend". On occasion we've also been retiscent to post a reply due to concerns about being possibly "controversial".
Maybe it's time to stop hiding and just post the damn replies.... if that's ok with everyone else of course?
:lol: :lol:have to agree there
im starting to think twice before posting
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