Recreational Sex

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hey hannahrose (cute name btw),

The problem with this scene is that it attracts the dregs (no offence to anyone here).

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hey hannahrose (cute name btw),

The problem with this scene is that it attracts the dregs (no offence to anyone here).

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what a pile of pretentious shit ,from someone who hasn`t even filled in their profile,and has the brass neck to insult virtually every male swinger,who by the way will get more action on here than someone with a profile full of blanks

Quote by jaymar
Hannahrose, I'm having difficulty understanding what it is you are looking for. As you are already married to someone else I'm finding it hard to accept you would have the right the ask someone to give you commitment when you cannot give it wholly yourself.
If it's sex you are looking for, there will be no shortage, if you are looking for a full on relationship/partner, have you not got that already?
By the way, I'm not knocking you for having an affair, hundreds of people do so for their own reasons and I'm of the opinion each to their own, but when you say you think the person you are having sex with lacks sincerity, it could well be your status that's preventing them from "giving" you any more.
I don't know your situation and don't know why you are looking elsewhere, but strongly believe your own lack of fulfillment could be coming from within rather than without. 'Recreational sex' you said you are looking for and this tends to imply "playing and having fun" - then there will be very little if any commitment or sincerity from your playmates.
My honest opinion as always.

Quote by Shambolic
hey hannahrose (cute name btw),

The problem with this scene is that it attracts the dregs (no offence to anyone here).

Quote by jaymar
Hannahrose, I'm having difficulty understanding what it is you are looking for. As you are already married to someone else I'm finding it hard to accept you would have the right the ask someone to give you commitment when you cannot give it wholly yourself.
If it's sex you are looking for, there will be no shortage, if you are looking for a full on relationship/partner, have you not got that already?
By the way, I'm not knocking you for having an affair, hundreds of people do so for their own reasons and I'm of the opinion each to their own, but when you say you think the person you are having sex with lacks sincerity, it could well be your status that's preventing them from "giving" you any more.
I don't know your situation and don't know why you are looking elsewhere, but strongly believe your own lack of fulfillment could be coming from within rather than without. 'Recreational sex' you said you are looking for and this tends to imply "playing and having fun" - then there will be very little if any commitment or sincerity from your playmates.
My honest opinion as always.

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Hannahrose, I'm having difficulty understanding what it is you are looking for. As you are already married to someone else I'm finding it hard to accept you would have the right the ask someone to give you commitment when you cannot give it wholly yourself.
If it's sex you are looking for, there will be no shortage, if you are looking for a full on relationship/partner, have you not got that already?
By the way, I'm not knocking you for having an affair, hundreds of people do so for their own reasons and I'm of the opinion each to their own, but when you say you think the person you are having sex with lacks sincerity, it could well be your status that's preventing them from "giving" you any more.
I don't know your situation and don't know why you are looking elsewhere, but strongly believe your own lack of fulfillment could be coming from within rather than without. 'Recreational sex' you said you are looking for and this tends to imply "playing and having fun" - then there will be very little if any commitment or sincerity from your playmates.
My honest opinion as always.

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Errrrrrrr, Jevad isn't Davej on a wind-up, is he? :shock:

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Errrrrrrr, Jevad isn't Davej on a wind-up, is he? :shock:

Quote by jevad
hey hannahrose (cute name btw),How patronising
I totally appreciate where you're coming from.
The problem with this scene is that it attracts the dregs (no offence to anyone here).
Don't get me wrong, i've met some great chilled out people in this community. But i've also met people with real issues.
Loner guys who are DESPERATE for a lay, who have no clue as to how to talk to or seduce a woman. Guys who were dumped by their wives/girlfriends and are completely lost as to how to attract another girl. Therefore they come to these places looking for "free sex". Guys who only see women as a piece of meet - you can virtually smell their desperation (just read half the posts of single guys on here).
Then you also get the dysfunctional couple. Guys pressuring their girlfriends/wives into swinging - basically using them as levereage so they can fuck other girls and satisfy their own needs. Or women doing the same. If you ever meet a couple like this, you can pretty much feel the extremely negative vibe.
As a woman, your feelings and sexual desires are as legitimiate as any guys out there. Women are hornier and dirtier than men, and fantasise as much as anybody. That's all fine and good, and you've obviously been looking for a way to exercise your desires (well done to you!)
But you come to places like this, you find a lot of leaches.
See, things are different for girls, its pointless denying it. A girl wants to be fucked by a guy of VALUE. A guy with self-worth, confidence, inner strength, and someone with a lot going on in his life. In other words, a "fuck worthy man". But the VAST MAJORITY of guys you find on here are faaar from it. They are needy, enfeebled, and have no capability of living up to a woman's emotional expectations.
A chick wants to be rammed and have multi-orgasms, no strings sex etc. etc. But she wants the "no-strings" fun to be with a strong confident man, with a deep sense of him self. That's deeply erotic on an emotional level. She does not want to be pounded by a loser, who most women in the real world would not look twice at. A guy who can't even speak up for himself and has ZERO social value. Unfortunately you find a lot of beta guys hoping to get a piece of the action in this community.
If you've been in this community for a little while, you've probably fucked your fair share of these guys. You know, guys who post messages on these forums "why do people not reply to PM's???" etc. etc. When you get taken by this needy guy, of course you're gonna feel empty. You feel like you've been penetrated by a sweaty geek. A guy who feels lucky to have you, and you sense how much validation he gets from you. Thats an emotional drain for any women. Guys who TAKE VALUE, like bums asking for spare change - "please will you fuck me? please? i'm really horny.. oh come on!"
What you need to find is that RARE guy - the fuck worthy man. The guy who GIVES VALUE. A guy who doesn't need ANYTHIGN from anyone. A guy who doesn't give a shit about sex, but only enjoys it as an extension to his already awesome life. A guy who doesn't crave your acceptance because it will make him feel more like a man - but a guy who ALREADY feels like a man. A guy who other women find attractive automatically just by being in his presence - due to his masculine strength, his inner self assuredness.
You wont mind no-strings sex with this guy, cos a) you know he has no shortage of female attention and b) because he arouses you on an emotional level because he's an alpha male.
When a woman submits to a guy sexually, when she gets horney and starts screaming her head off having multiple-orgasms - half that is because the guy doing it has given her that emotional kick she needs, to feel like a woman. Not some desperate wimp who has no clue as to who he is.
So to conclude - you as a woman will get offers of sex 24/7 no matter what (unlike even the most attractive guy). It is the WOMAN who choses. So don't be afraid to exercise that choice by only fucking/meeting guys who meet your standards of what a man should be.

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Am I missing something here?, she is swinging whilst married and hubby does not know?. Recipe for disaster if you ask me.

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Am I missing something here?, she is swinging whilst married and hubby does not know?. Recipe for disaster if you ask me.

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There, glad we got that cleared up. Now where's that smile?

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Am I missing something here?, she is swinging whilst married and hubby does not know?. Recipe for disaster if you ask me.

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Am I missing something here?, she is swinging whilst married and hubby does not know?. Recipe for disaster if you ask me.

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Am I missing something here?, she is swinging whilst married and hubby does not know?. Recipe for disaster if you ask me.

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Hmmmm!!!

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Hmmmm!!!

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Hmmmm!!!

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Just a thought and be gentle please because I'm new around here.
I came for the joys of recreational sex and have had some good fun. In some ways however this 'pleasures of the flesh' kind of sex doesn't do a lot for me.....
Why?
I've found it has lacked sincerity and commitment on the part of the men (I'm ducking). Promises are made and rarely kept, new activities are discussed but rarely take place....that sort of thing. I know I've probably met the wrong people but that's my experience!
I enjoy it all and love a variety of sexual experiences however I don't feel I've really been fulfilled in all this. Perhaps I'm missing something or am not cut out for the swinging scene.
Now you can you can kick my arse!!

Quote by flower411
Am I missing something here?, she is swinging whilst married and hubby does not know?. Recipe for disaster if you ask me.

Quote by jevad
are all the guys you've had random "trysts" with on here equally unsatisfying?? are you endlessly in search of a REAL man??

Quote by jevad
The problem with this scene is that it attracts the dregs (no offence to anyone here).

Quote by jevad
Loner guys who are DESPERATE for a lay, who have no clue as to how to talk to or seduce a woman. Guys who were dumped by their wives/girlfriends and are completely lost as to how to attract another girl. Therefore they come to these places looking for "free sex". Guys who only see women as a piece of meet - you can virtually smell their desperation (just read half the posts of single guys on here).

Quote by jevad
Yes indeed the hallowed profile. I wouldn't even consider someone who hadn't taken the time to put at least the minumum inforation in it. It's like going to an interview in shorts and flipflops.
I'll come back to this.......
H.x

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so where is hannahrose? i would like to hear from her again, and get to the bottom of her angst!
*Is* your husband completely unsatisfying?? are all the guys you've had random "trysts" with on here equally unsatisfying?? are you endlessly in search of a REAL man??
and what does it take to become as popular jaymar?!?

Quote by jaymar
so where is hannahrose? i would like to hear from her again, and get to the bottom of her angst!
*Is* your husband completely unsatisfying?? are all the guys you've had random "trysts" with on here equally unsatisfying?? are you endlessly in search of a REAL man??
and what does it take to become as popular jaymar?!?

Quote by jevad
so where is hannahrose? i would like to hear from her again, and get to the bottom of her angst!
*Is* your husband completely unsatisfying?? are all the guys you've had random "trysts" with on here equally unsatisfying?? are you endlessly in search of a REAL man??
and what does it take to become as popular jaymar?!?

Quote by jaymar
so where is hannahrose? i would like to hear from her again, and get to the bottom of her angst!
*Is* your husband completely unsatisfying?? are all the guys you've had random "trysts" with on here equally unsatisfying?? are you endlessly in search of a REAL man??
and what does it take to become as popular jaymar?!?