I totaly agree mate!!
there are a lot of girls that if they aren't trying to yank it off from the balls, they are trying to pull your forskin down over your balls...
(how do you spell forskin? i've never had to type it before)
then again, its probably just a general assumption and the ladies fight back with "yeah, but guys poke around with their fingers without a clue"
I personally know i'm good on women and i know some girls are good on guys but communication is good - if not a passion killer.
i think i would start on myself and let the woman have a watch first - slightly more sensual than sitting down and having a chat.
Its not just masturbating though, its kissing too. I love to kiss but i can be totally put off a cute girl if she can't kiss!!
JJ
come on guys, this is a 2 way thing!!!
you lot can get pretty rough too... im not really a fan of having my cervix battered into my stomach....!!!
but then again i have met a guy who didnt know what to do with his OWN foreskin... needless to say he was a crap shag and i didnt do it again... talk about a sack of spuds!
about the fingering thing.... in and out just really doesnt cut it... it may look good in porn flicks but its far from satisfying..
rant over,
love n licks
nic
x
i'm surely not the only one that can cum from havin either fingers or a "fat cock" inserted?
i agree with Horous.....we are all unique and i know that i make love in different ways with different people. (and even different ways with the same people). you get to know what people prefer just as they get to know your preferences. thats whats so good about this site....its not about one night stands but hopefully longer lasting friendships that become more fulfilling as you get to know each other........
.its just the remembering who likes it what way is the hard thing sometimes :shock: :shock:
Why not just tell your partner that it's sore???
:shock:
Errr, we seem to be drifting off topic here with all this talk about tight foreskins, so in an attempt to bring it back!
To communicate or not?
For me, absolutely. As each of us is different with what pleases us, then unless we know how can we both attain ultimate pleasure? Of course this must be a two way thing.
I have been with women who faked an orgasm, only to discover it was fake over a drink afterwards. Sometimes it can be for the most silly of reasons that if I had known I could have done something about. I have also been with women where it is just take take take, not just because that is what they wanted, but sometimes because they were unsure of exactly what I wanted from them. This can range from a particular position to more oral or whatever.
It takes two to tango as they say, unless you communicate you may be doing the foxtrot and your partner may be doing the waltz.
is this rough sex with ugly birds ?
lol wild willy,
im a bit too far away for 12 noon, im up in scotland, but i will make a mental note that your hands are like shovels!!!
the problem is exacerbated when you are with a couple, they already have their likes and dislikes and know exactly how far to push it (no pun intended). Communication can breakdown in those circumstances because the couple may be attuned to only their partners fulfillment, and you are left battered and bruised playing "piggy in the middle"
im just thinking about a previous post..
that could be quite a nightmare if you are used to hearing your partner enjoy you but is making all sorts of different noises with someone else.. i think the mind would have to be strong not to lose self confidence....
"i cant get her to make those noises" or "what if she doesnt think im any good any more"
i would hate my partner to feel left out or inadequate, im sure he feels the same, so yes when it comes down to it communication is VERY important
i think its good to have abit of ruffness if mr bailiff pops home then we have a quicky/ruff sex.
but i have to agree abit of passion is alays best its a real turn on for me!!!!
and the tongue covers all that area pretty quickly xx
