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Quote by Nicola&Alan
lol wild willy,
im a bit too far away for 12 noon, im up in scotland, but i will make a mental note that your hands are like shovels!!!

Christ, I've got the same problem.. To give you an idea how big my hands are, ring sizes go from A to Z. My ring finger is size Z+11.. Makes it a nightmare trying to find warm gloves to wear at work!
6' 3", 52" chest, size UK14 feet.. Man, I'm an inbred freak. lol
Quote by Chunky Love
lol wild willy,
im a bit too far away for 12 noon, im up in scotland, but i will make a mental note that your hands are like shovels!!!

Christ, I've got the same problem.. To give you an idea how big my hands are, ring sizes go from A to Z. My ring finger is size Z+11.. Makes it a nightmare trying to find warm gloves to wear at work!
6' 3", 52" chest, size UK14 feet.. Man, I'm an inbred freak. lol
You know what they say about a man with big feet.....
..Big shoes biggrin
Lindaxxx
I remember when I was younger I was growing fast, and I called my mother to tell her I had grown an extra foot..
.. She sent me three socks. wink
Quote by SXBOY
is this rough sex with ugly birds ?

It angers me when people think it is ugly birds that should be treated badly when sex is a man is eager for sex he will probably be a bit too ethusiastic at first regardless of who he is with, just because someone is ugly they don't deserve to be treated in a rough way they have feelings too. mad
Quote by SXBOY
is this rough sex with ugly birds ?

I think the first line of the first post explains.
Yes it is!
sex with birds? isn't that illegal?
Does anybody agree that film, porn movies and even TV may to be blame for some of this? You don't often see really gentle, sensual foreplay and quiet, but immensely satisfying coitus.
(Bet you can't guess what I like!)
Instead people are undressed within seconds of closing the door and females are pressed up against the living room wall, impaled upon males moving like a hammer-action drill. Not everybody's cup of tea but how are you going to know?
Jezzay.
i prefer slow sensual and gentle anyday...each to their own though as always
Depends on my mood. Sometimes I like lots of foreplay, sometimes I like it impulsive.... Come up to the lady, whip it out, in, out, shake it all about, finish up and go back to what I was doing.
its nice when youve waited ages to get inside someone....to actually stay inside and savour the moment!!
Quote by wildwilly
Why is it some people are very rough? I don’t mean “look at her, she’s as rough as a badgers arse”, I mean when having sex.
They can be demure, sweet and softly spoken when quietly chatting away, but incredibly forceful… shall we say, between the sheets.
I can understand getting carried away in the heat of passion, I am all for passion, believe me I am its’ biggest fan, but you would expect some “familiarising yourself with the other persons bits” first before moving on to trying to pull your cock off by the root. 69position
I think there should be a bit of communication and understanding, if someone is saying “ouch” (iya in Scots usually followed by bassa) or “AAAAARRRRGGHH” rather than “AAAAAHHHHH” or “MMMMMM” it should be some kind of clue. :kick:
My thoughts are that some people just aren’t all that great at lovemaking and could do with some pointers. Intense passionate sex can be rough but still enjoyable for both (or everyone) involved.
think I might need to change my name to redrawwilly

:twisted:
(sorry, the sadist in me, rising to the top he he he)
S xxx
Quote by acetates
i prefer slow sensual and gentle anyday...each to their own though as always

I prefer slow, sensual and gentle too, over something more hurried, rushed and rough. The latter feels like I am being done unto. How do I put this, I always try to make the distinction to my lovers that you do not make love to someone, you should be making WITH them. Maybe in my mind, I see something that is perceived as rough sex synanymous to treating the woman as a cock receptacle. I might be wrong.
Quote by bigDewi69
.... Come up to the lady, whip it out, in, out, shake it all about, finish up and go back to what I was doing.

That's when I say : 'If you're finished can you pull me nightie down and pass me book back.'
Jezzay.
Quote by acetates
i prefer slow sensual and gentle anyday...each to their own though as always

Slow & sensual wins for me BUT sometimes passion overcomes restraint and hurried & rushed is either called for or can't be helped.
A fantasy of a partner once was that I pounce on her as she comes indoors from work, rip her clothes off and fuck her. Or a moonlit walk on a Corfu beach isn't the time or place for prolonged foreplay when passions become roused!!!
Quote by Maia
I prefer slow, sensual and gentle too, over something more hurried, rushed and rough. The latter feels like I am being done unto. How do I put this, I always try to make the distinction to my lovers that you do not make love to someone, you should be making WITH them. Maybe in my mind, I see something that is perceived as rough sex synanymous to treating the woman as a cock receptacle. I might be wrong.

Maia, this sounds like the man is instigating the sex and i can understand how you'd feel but what if it were the lady instigating it?
She isn't being treated as a cock receptacle but she wants that cock for her delight and nothings gonna stop her having it!!!
I think for hurried, rough sex then both have got to want it and I'd certainly feel uncomfortable if I felt I was forcing myself onto my partner even slightly or she was forcing me.
Quote by littlemee
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I think for hurried, rough sex then both have got to want it and I'd certainly feel uncomfortable if I felt I was forcing myself onto my partner even slightly or she was forcing me.

sorry Littlemee i think i didn't make myself very clear. You are right that when both partners are in the right mood, a rushed no foreplay sexual intercourse can be very exciting. What I can't get my head round is a partner that is just rough - erm, like there isn't a connection at all. I suppose the manner in which he performs??
I don't think i am being articulate enough tonight.
Quote by Maia
I don't think i am being articulate enough tonight.

You & me both!!!
My excuse is Pinot Grigio. What's yours?!!! wink
Quote by littlemee
You & me both!!!
My excuse is Pinot Grigio. What's yours?!!! wink

The 9 page meeting minutes that I had to fabricate our of some scribbles I made last month?
could be the thought provoking PMs I have been having with someone...
Quote by Maia
could be the thought provoking PMs I have been having with someone...

Don't start that 'thought provoking' lark at this time of night.
Who knows where it might lead?
Try to keep the subject on soft, gentle, tender sex. wink
Quote by littlemee
Try to keep the subject on soft, gentle, tender sex. wink

By the sheer nature of this thread, talking about the above would be considered hijacking it surely.
Quote by Maia

Try to keep the subject on soft, gentle, tender sex. wink

By the sheer nature of this thread, talking about the above would be considered hijacking it surely.
This is true. I kinda skipped in half way and saw the comparisons of rough or gentle & what was preferred.
I'll get me coat!!!
Quote by wildwilly
you would expect some “familiarising yourself with the other persons bits” first before moving on to trying to pull your cock off by the root. 69position
My thoughts are that some people just aren’t all that great at lovemaking and could do with some pointers. Intense passionate sex can be rough but still enjoyable for both (or everyone) involved.

sorry, but just had to highlight the bit I thought was most pertinent to my argument, not that some people get carried away, we can all be guilty of that, rather some people are crap, selfish, unintentionally heavy-handed
Quote by Silk and Big G
:twisted:
(sorry, the sadist in me, rising to the top he he he)
S xxx

oh and for silk & big g
Quote by Nicola&Alan
boys.. both of you have tight foreskins... this seems to be topic of the week at home... my bloke has the same problem but after long discussions and a lot of pain he going to get it sorted...
as a quick suggestion, go see your doctors.. then the pain is not an issue
as for the "fat cock" and not cumming... there the G spot, its not a faerie tale, its real.. and your more likely to get it with your finger than a cock... get that bit for long enough and she becomes a gusher...
lol
i know your not pointing fingers... but remember to cut your nails

G-spot. I can never hit it with my finger... only with my cock. Maybe I'm weird.
Quote by wildwilly
the problem is exacerbated when you are with a couple, they already have their likes and dislikes and know exactly how far to push it (no pun intended). Communication can breakdown in those circumstances because the couple may be attuned to only their partners fulfillment, and you are left battered and bruised playing "piggy in the middle"

but Willly, surely you already discussed likes and dislikes prior to the meet? or even at the initial chat and get to know each other meeting?
also it wouldn't hurt asking gently how does he/she like it/this etc? confused: