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I read with interest lackofnookie's thread "Short joke" that deviated via a discussion of circumcision, interior decoration (pelmets), Cromwellian history, Microsoft's Powerpoint and then finally back to another joke. lol
It was the circumcision bit that interested me, as I had it done at the age of 19. I first went to the doctor because I was regularly tearing my foreskin when shagging, and the pain was putting me off a little. To cut a long story short, it turned out that my foreskin had lost its elasticity and circumcision was the answer.
I can honestly say I prefer the sensations of sex as a roundhead, and it seems to me that the ladies prefer it this way, especially when it comes to blow jobs.
The downsides -
The pain after the op.
The fear of an involuntary hard-on - I spent several weeks drinking huge quantities of beer before climbing into bed with my then girlfriend, just to be on the safe side.
The scars, which are still with me and normally require an explanation when I'm with a new partner.
The ruthless and incessant piss-taking from my mates at the time....
Have any other guys here been through the same, and care to comment on which they prefer?
Do any of the ladies here have a preference?
Just curious,
Lucifer
I must confess to prefering guys that have had 'the snip'.
For one thing, horror of horrors I HAVE come across guys who are less than rigourous when it comes to cleaning behind their foreskins evil redface And then what do you say when you were just about to blow them? "Sorry, I'm not sucking you until you've removed the Gorganzola"?
The downside is I sometimes find it very difficult to make circumsized guys come with my mouth. It does seem to lead to a slight lessening of sensation around certain areas - so I've been told? dunno
Hxx
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I And then what do you say when you were just about to blow them?

i usually find euuugghhhhhhh no chance!!!! covers it!
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Well im a Cavalier so i dont really know what its like to be a roundhead and have never asked any of my mates about it i was thinking is there any fems that have been with the same guy who has been both ???? Does she think that the feelings that she gets are different ?????
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The downside is I sometimes find it very difficult to make circumsized guys come with my mouth. It does seem to lead to a slight lessening of sensation around certain areas - so I've been told? dunno
Hxx

Certainly I lost some sensitivity after the op, since the head of my old chap was now in constant direct contact with clothing etc. But it didn't make it any harder to make me come.... over 20 years later I still find myself reciting my 17X table.
Sounds like you need some more practice Heather wink
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Sounds like you need some more practice Heather wink

*Ducks when Heather decides to throw something at Lucifer*.... lol
As Heather mentioned, when you are a cavalier there is the problem of the "gorgonzola"But I find it hard to believe that fully grown men hoping to have sexual contact with a lady feel that it is acceptable to present themselves that I was an awkward teenager I felt funny about cleaning "down there" but realised that it was neither healthy nor particularly nice smelling and what praise be if a girl went near it!!So to those who don't clean (who aren't on here probably) DO IT you make me gip
The one thing I was wondering about the roundheads is the lack of sensitivity-surely this happens because you would be taking a deep breath every time anything brushed against you?
Yours concerned
SiGo smile
My "10% Extra Free" was removed when I was very young on account of it being too tight or something so I can't offer a direct comparison from personal experience, but I have read that roundheads are less sensitive. I am reliably informed that although it takes me a while longer than the average bloke, I make a lot more noise when I get there, so I guess my orgasm is more intense. Whether that's because I'm circumcised or just weird, I have no way of knowing. confused
Ice
My ex hubby and ex partner had both been cirumcised at an early age. It was only when i got into this lifestyle that Ive played with someone who wasn't circumcised.
I owe an apology to the first guy I played with that hadn't had the op ...... am so sorry for laughing redface ............... I just didnt know dunno what to do with the extra bits of flesh :grin: but i had led a very sheltered life rolleyes :roll:
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I And then what do you say when you were just about to blow them?

i usually find euuugghhhhh no chance!!!! covers it!
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my sentiments exactly busy_babe !!!!!
Lucy kiss
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The one thing I was wondering about the roundheads is the lack of sensitivity-surely this happens because you would be taking a deep breath every time anything brushed against you?
Yours concerned
SiGo smile

After my op, I found myself wearing baggy trousers and no pants for a while, till everything got accustomed to being in the big wide world without its former protection.
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..... I have read that roundheads are less sensitive. I am reliably informed that although it takes me a while longer than the average bloke, I make a lot more noise when I get there, so I guess my orgasm is more intense.
Ice

You should paste that into a photo ad, Ice lol
Seriously, after the op, I didn't find it any easier or any harder to reach orgasm, nor did I find any difference in their intensity. The only real difference I did notice was a greater "clarity" of feeling when wrapped up in a nice warm, welcoming orifice, and being able to tolerate more intense, direct stimulation (you know, guys, the kind that makes you go hmm, hmmmmmm, HMMMMMM, ouch!)
Well, I am a fully fledged Cavalier (thank God I am not a Vectra lol ), so have no idea what it feels like to be a Roundhead.
I will ask my friend Carolyn tomorrow and post what she thinks.
She wont come over tonight as Arsenal are playing and therefore my attention will not be on her.
Paul
As long as you have your priorities right!!! lol
Mal
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As long as you have your priorities right!!! lol
Mal
:lol:

Ah Mal;
Sad to say that I do!!!! When you have supported The Gunners for over 40 years ...... even Carolyn has to wait. Mind you, I will show her this thread and then she can decide on a suitable forfeit / punishment
Paul
I dont remember being a cavalier! redface I was circumcised when I was 2 or 3 and therefore cannot tell you what difference I feel sexually!
However a friend of mine has recently been done at the age of 42 and he has said that for the first few weeks it was sensitive to rubbing but never sore and that it has done nothing to change his sex life other than his wife has a mental image of better hygiene and therefore is happier herself.
I do know though that Wilma prefers a circumcised one and the first time she played with a Cavalier she had to ask his wife what to do! The latest couple we have been swinging with were quite surprised on the first swing when she said "Oh I am so glad you have not got a foreskin!" and then promptly blushed when we all looked at her!
I have known a few women say it is more difficult to orally satisfy a man but have no idea why that should be or if it has any basis in fact.
Volunteers for research?
Bloody HellDreamerHelen you nearly snapped your elbow you put your hand up so fast! lol :lol: :lol:
Fred
I was done a couple of years ago, at the age of 39, for medical reasons. My girlfriend prefers it now, both for oral and penetration, she says it's better to suck, and the head appears (and feels) bigger than before. I get better sensation, but miss my 10% when taking myself in hand when I'm on my own.
I've also found that when swinging, I get a lot more blowjobs now than before.
So to sum up: circumcised - better for sucking and shagging. Uncircumcised, better for wanking.
I am a cavalier and therefore do not know what being a Roundhead feels like which seems to be the debate, most of us guys have no idea how the other guy feels therefore I will be carrying out a Blue Peter type experiament with the aid of some strategically placed industrial strength sticky tape. In order to simulate everday activity and therefore make the experiament as close to the real thing as possible I will spend time watching t.v. driving the car, carrying out manual tasks etc.
I would now like a Roundhead volunteer, to cut off the finger of an old driving glove (leatherette preferably) and superglue it to the end of his tadger so that we can then make comparison notes at the end of the day.
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Volunteers for research?
Bloody Hell DreamerHelen you nearly snapped your elbow you put your hand up so fast! lol :lol: :lol:
Fred

Just what are you trying to say Fred? :shock:
:lol:
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Just what are you trying to say Fred? :shock:

Dunno really, but you already owe me a sexual favour of some sort so we will have to start with a BJ! So guess I am first in queue! blast 69position
*smug grin*
By the way - there is one young lady who has no trouble at all in making me come orally - shame she isn't around at the moment. I'm beginning to miss her :cry:
Fred
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I'm a Cavalier. Does that make me a complete prick???? dunno :dunno: :dunno: lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Nah mate!
Just a bigger prick than the rest of us!
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
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Dunno really, but you already owe me a sexual favour of some sort so we will have to start with a BJ! So guess I am first in queue! blast 69position
*smug grin*

So who's second then? Do think Wilma would get Stevie out for me wink lol
Thank you for this thread!
worship :worship: :inlove: :worship:
My last 2 lovers have been roundheads and very nice they were too!! lol :lol:
Veeeeery tasty blast :giggle:
But they took an 'age' to cum :sleeping: :sleeping:
I thought it was my technique that was at fault! dunno :dunno:
I'm not telling the entire universe which I am!! But, I will show you a picture of my helmet:

Enough said??
eeek! soap and water we dont mind, but having to clean yer helmet with brasso!
Mmmm,nice helmet articifer, looks like you've been giving that a nice rub :wanker: :wanker: :wanker:
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Mmmm,nice helmet articifer, looks like you've been giving that a nice rub :wanker: :wanker: :wanker:

Yeah, was having no luck in ads section until I confessed that I buckled my helmet around my chin....got a full diary now biggrin
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So who's second then? Do think Wilma would get Stevie out for me wink lol

She probably would hun - you will have to ask her - but will you two fight over who drives him first? hahahahahaha.
Guess I will just have to watch :wink: :wink: :wink:
(shit job - but someone has to do it!)
Fred
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Well, I am a fully fledged Cavalier (thank God I am not a Vectra lol ), so have no idea what it feels like to be a Roundhead.
I will ask my friend Carolyn tomorrow and post what she thinks.
She wont come over tonight as Arsenal are playing and therefore my attention will not be on her.
Paul

Paul
I bet you wish she had come round now!!
Mal
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Quote by mal609
Well, I am a fully fledged Cavalier (thank God I am not a Vectra lol ), so have no idea what it feels like to be a Roundhead.
I will ask my friend Carolyn tomorrow and post what she thinks.
She wont come over tonight as Arsenal are playing and therefore my attention will not be on her.
Paul

Paul
I bet you wish she had come round now!!
Mal
:lol:
Mal;
True indeed. I could have done with some distraction..
Oh well, such is life
Paul
Just thought I kinda drag the thread back on-topic with my own experiences... (sorry!)
I never had and problems with my foreskin until my late teens - it was fine when I was soft, but when hard the foreskin wouldn't pull back all the way easily, and when it did it was quit painfull, like my helmet was being strangled. I only really noticed it was a problem when I became more sexually active at the age of 19.
Firstly I had my frenum snipped to see if it would help loosen up the foreskin - it didn't, so I ended up with the full roundhead job when I was 20.
Never looked back since (I'm now 31) - it looks better (only slight scarring), and feels so much cleaner and more hygenic. I've not noticed any loss of sensation, but the few times I had sex before being circumcised it was too painful to really notice anything else, so I really don't feel like I'm missing out at all. The only time I ever get a loss of sensation is when using condoms, which I've overcome by being very selective about which brands I use. I get lots of compliments on how nice it looks, which is always nice... biggrin