Is this uncommon within swinging as the end game?
We attended a club,loved the fucking going on all around us and of course we had our share. It was a great evening. The question is, is this a common thing or is it expected to lead to swaps? We may never get there, or want to for that matter, it's the future, and therefore unknown.
For us of course it was impossible to know if the the fuckers and fuckees were with their partners or swapped.
It's not uncommon at all !! We often stick by ourselves if we have not met people we want to play with.
J & S
it can be difficult to know who is with who .. thats the fun is guessing.. if unsure ask but pick your timing lol
We feel the same... For the moment at least! We would love to find ourselves in a lusty environment with all manner of fuckery around us but being in our infancy with all this we'd want to play together, amongst other couples that is...
It is up to the people involved really, we love the couples room at Paradise Spa, all manner of things going on but we don't play with others in there but it is great to be in the middle of it.
Speaking to other couples who go, they think the same as us.
Yet more thanks. One always has the tendency to think everyone's up for everything, nice to know lots of others have limits but love the lifestyle. I shall google Paradise Spa, (original typo I wrote gogle Paradise Spa - that's probably true too)